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In ancient times, women "did not marry their fathers, married from their husbands", and women had no rights and status to speak of.
Today, society has progressed and women's rights have been restored. However, in today's society, can women's rights really be upheld and respected?
How can women live a better life in this society and live their own wonderful lives?
Some middle-aged men are in the liquor store all year round, obese, bald, beer belly, and enlarged pores.
These people have similarities in appearance, but they are not anxious about their appearance.
They are often very tolerant of themselves, but they are very "harsh" on the requirements of the women around them.
"You're too fat, you're a girl, lose weight."
"You should wear a skirt, don't be so ungodly."
"You have too much leg hair, which girl is like you, go fix it."
Under the male gaze, women began to constantly examine their appearance, becoming less and less confident, and paying more and more attention to dressing.
When looking in the mirror, I always pick my own mistakes, consider whether today's clothes are properly matched, whether today's makeup is appropriate, and confirm repeatedly.
Although everyone has the heart to love beauty, it is not necessary to be too picky about their appearance in order to please men. Women's true beauty comes from the confidence in their bones.
Once, my mother said to me, "When you were eating just now, your uncles praised you for your good looks." Girl, you really give your dad a long face. ”
This sentence contains the simple praise and pride of a mother, without malice, but I am not happy.
I said, "It's normal for people to look like an accident, but how can I make my family proud of me based on my appearance alone?" ”
The mother did not think so: "What is so bad about being handsome, you know, a beautiful woman, a man must praise a few words when he sees it, the daughter-in-law of the crooked melon and the date, his man is not good at taking her out to dinner, losing his face." ”
Listening to my mother's words, I couldn't help but feel sad for women.
Is it true that as a woman, only appearance can get the attention of this society? Should women be judged by men?
Women should not be used as a facade for men. Regardless of appearance, it should be basically respected.
Some time ago, I worked as a courier station waiter, working 8 hours a day, serving customers and collecting express mail.
Although the salary is not high, it is deeply trusted by the boss. The job was tiring, but I got a sense of accomplishment from it.
However, I always hear voices like this: "You are a woman, how did you think of doing this?" ”
"You quit this job, auntie introduced you to a job, although the salary is not as much as you are now, but the girl's family, do not want how much money you make, easy."
"The girl is not small, don't work, get married and have a child, having a good home is a major life event."
It can be seen that the greatest expectation of society for women is still to teach their husbands and children, run the family, and be the husband's helpers. Many people think that the fierce competition in society is not suitable for women, and the direction of women's employment should also be easy and not tired, and they should not try to make money.
Should women choose a career that is easy to take care of their families?
My answer is "no", not to ask for my own virtuousness, not to give up promotion to teach my husband and children, not to choose an "easy career".
Women have the freedom to choose their professions, and society should respect women's choices.
Many years ago, idol dramas popularized a theme, "overbearing president" and "silly white sweet".
In such a love, the male protagonist is rich and powerful, and the female protagonist is not allowed to suffer a little harm, and the female protagonist encounters difficulties as long as the male protagonist appears and immediately settles.
The male protagonist is richer than the female protagonist, has a car and a house, and always wants to protect the female protagonist. In fact, this is typical machismo.
At the beginning, the audience can really get a sense of coolness by substituting the heroine. But with the improvement of women's ideological cognition, this pattern has been reversed.
People can't help but complain: "The heroine has no ability, completely attached to the male protagonist, the macho male protagonist is too middle two, the female protagonist is not strong enough, not pleasing to people ..."
These all hint at the change in women's thinking, and we ask the heroines not only to be kind, but also to be brave and strong, confident and brainy.
This has given birth to some big female protagonists, and the heroines of these dramas are often very intelligent, calm in the face of things, and survive on their own skills.
It is not difficult to find that such a female protagonist will gain the appreciation and respect of the male protagonist.
"Do not rely on men for profit, live independently in society, do not agree with machismo."
I think that's already a common belief among most women.
Let the face be full of self-confidence at all times, let the heart flow with good purity.
Women, to strive to improve their own morality, rather than becoming a man's attachment, it is better to survive on their own, rather than pleasing men, it is better to improve and enrich themselves.
Please believe that one day, you will become the "big heroine" in your life. Live to the top and win beautifully.
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