Such a "red lady" should not be

He complained to me, saying that he had been a little annoyed recently, because it was to introduce the object to the children of his colleagues, it did not matter, the key was to put him in, so that he was not a person inside and out.

It turned out that his friend's son came back to work in Beijing after studying in the United States, all aspects of the conditions are good, but also more than 30, there has been no suitable object, this friend entrusted him to introduce, according to the Beijing older girls are more, but this boy to find a girl who is at least 5 years younger than him, this is not easy to find. It just so happens that he has a colleague's girlfriend, who has just returned to China from studying in the UK, and his boyfriend has just broken up, the girl's father is anxious to find a partner for the girl, the girl is exactly 5 years younger than the boy, and the girl's father looks at the boy's conditions are also just right, so he let the boy introduce him to his girlfriend.

The task of the introducer is to first send the conditions and photos of both parties to the father of the other party, and then the fathers of the two parties communicate with their children, and if they feel that they can exchange phones, the boys and girls contact each other themselves. When these procedures are done, the introducer does not have to ask any more questions. Usually there will be an echo if it works or not, but he waited for two or three months, there was no echo in either way, and every day he saw the girl's father, that is, his colleague, and he was embarrassed to ask how it was.

He was also a little strange, it turned out that the boy's father called him every three to five or WeChat chats, and there was no phone or WeChat for several months, what happened?

He talked to me several times, and I said then you ask, he doesn't give you a beating, you give him a call, just ask or not. He called a friend, it turned out that his son called the girl and the girl did not answer, his son added the girl WeChat, the girl did not pass, that is, there was no contact at all. When you said that this matter was troublesome, he was a little angry, thinking that the girl's father, his colleague, was too ignorant and disrespectful. If he does not take the initiative to contact his friends, maybe his friends will misunderstand him, and he is not a person inside and out.

In fact, this is also what often happens to introduce people to the object, each family has the idea of each family, everyone has everyone's way of doing things, if you want to open, there is no trouble, think that you hurt your self-esteem, there is no meaning in your heart, it is originally a good heart. It is only in the future that we will introduce people to others, we must understand the personalities of both sides well, and do not easily introduce people, otherwise we will hurt others and hurt ourselves. Just like this "red lady" should not be.