People live all their lives, laughing and tears intertwined, suffering and pleasure go hand in hand. If one day you fall into a trough and have no one around you, don't sink and lose your fighting spirit, this will only add to the frost.
The more people reach adversity, the more they should not complain, and they should not collapse their mentality when they collapse, only by stabilizing themselves, they have the opportunity to reverse the situation and rush out of the trough.
In fact, people fall into the trough, as long as you can hold the mentality, the trough will be an opportunity. Here, the author shares a poem to you, created by the famous "poetry Buddha" Wang Wei:
Walk to the end of the water and sit and watch the clouds rise
When Wang Wei wrote this poem, he was in a state of retreat, and during this period, he was still tired of the deceit of the officialdom, experienced great ups and downs, and had a different understanding of life.
Standing on the shoulders of giants to see the world, not only refers to science and technology, but also ideological culture.
Portrait of Wang Wei
Wang Wei used his own personal experience to tell everyone that there will always be a time when the mountains and rivers are exhausted, and at this time, sit on the ground first, divert attention, keep not panicking, and then think of a way out.
This kind of free and open-minded mentality is really staggering.
In the face of adversity, you blindly complain, thinking all about negative things, even if there is a turnaround, you are doomed to do something wrong.
People have sorrows and joys, and the moon has clouds and sunshine, and this matter is difficult to complete.
Stallone
Everyone's life will not be too satisfactory, not only you, why can't you put your mentality on the ordinary?
Stallone wrote in "Rocky 6": Life is not about how many heavy blows you can hit, but that you can withstand multiple people and go on. ”
Positive and negative, two different attitudes to life, may have different results. Pick up the spirit, laugh at life, encounter difficulties, think about how to solve, but complain about making excuses for yourself.
Tagore once said, "Only through hellish tempering can we refine the power to create heaven." Only bloodied fingers can play the world's best songs. ”
Without experiencing the slightest ups and downs, how can the mind be strong and tolerant, and how can the ability be improved?
Portrait of Tagore
Therefore, when you face adversity, you must first know how to keep a good mentality, let yourself calm down, and then think of a way out, the way out is always more than hardship. Difficulties inspire the strength to move forward; setbacks, hone the courage to struggle; failure, pointing out the direction of success.
Without a thorough cold, how to get plum blossoms. Every person who has achieved great things has experienced tempering that ordinary people cannot reach.
Chinese entrepreneur Shi Yuzhu, after three ups and downs in his life, he once felt it: "Man, this animal, every time he succeeds, his IQ will drop by one section; every time he fails, his IQ will rise by one cut."
Shi Yuzhu
If the tribulations do not hit you, they will be able to make you.
Now we only see the successful side of Ma Yun's creation of Alibaba, but we don't know that before this, he had 4 failed entrepreneurial experiences, and he was rejected many times because of his appearance, but it is also these experiences that have made him strong now.
Everyone will go through ups and downs, bumps or hit you, or achieve you, all in your mentality. Mountains and rivers are doubtful and there is no way, willows and flowers are bright and another village, nothing will be too absolute, stick to it well, and the turnaround will always appear.
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When you are confused, silently recite Wang Wei's words and control your mentality to have a chance to win.
——Edited by Qian Yuan