There is a word called "great wisdom is foolishness." This means that people of great intelligence appear to be stupid, obtuse, and willing to suffer losses when dealing with things, but they are successful in matters of fundamental interest to themselves, and they are very "skillful" in handling them.
No matter what the occasion, when others appreciate your talent and always praise you, you are actually not a very smart person. Because first-class smart people are often silent and look no different from ordinary people.
Truly first-class smart people often look like "idiots". His "stupidity" is generally reflected in the following aspects, or he is a blessed person.
Smart people are often willing to "suffer losses and be deceived", others know that he will suffer losses, and even stopped him, but he does not believe and is willing to suffer losses. For example, a person who does business sells a sample of things that are not available, and others sell at high prices, but he does not make black money, buys low prices, resulting in a very slow speed of making money, but his reputation will get better and better, and he can rely on word of mouth to become bigger and stronger in the future.
No one has long back eyes, and they don't know what will happen later, what the world will be like. But there is nothing wrong with doing things with a good heart, doing good deeds all your life. That is, you have spent most of your life savings doing public welfare, which is definitely a "fool" in the eyes of others, but you have also received a lot of returns. Leave behind the honor aside, the person who is grateful to you, there is always there. Especially for the help of poor children, when they grow up, they will be your "children", even closer than their children.
I remember that there was a middle-aged woman in my hometown, who was almost fifty years old because of her leg disability, and she was not married. She was thrifty and thrifty, built her own house, and had a lot of savings, enough to live the second half of her life. But when he was in his fifties, he picked up a disabled girl who was born deaf. Others have advised her, don't spend all the old Ben, the child will not care about you when he is older, it will be bad. She didn't believe it, took all the money out to treat the child's illness, and sent the child to school. Now the child has also participated in the work, and the ears have recovered a certain amount of hearing. The woman is more than seventy years old, and her "daughter", who bought a house in the city, took her to live at the first time, and envied the old people in the village. Her life choice is enough to prove that "suffering loss is a blessing", and once stupid, the blessing is a lifetime.
Most people are "strong", always have to be stronger than others, only to feel that they have the ability, is a great instrument. In fact, wrong, many smart people, will accept defeat, encounter opponents stronger than themselves, and know how to "bow their heads". You know, hitting a stone with a pebble will "crush the bones", resulting in a lifetime of inability to stand up. If you lose, it is to preserve your strength, stay in the green mountains, and do not worry about firewood.
Especially in front of the lover to lose, coax the lover to be happy, let the contradiction disappear in an instant. For example, two mouths are arguing, no one is convinced, smart people, do not speak, see each other say a bunch, anyway do not answer, after that, smile at the lover, the result is "two husband and wife tears for laughter", and returned to the state of love.
Between husband and wife, both people must be strong, most of them have to quarrel endlessly, and divorce may also occur. If there is a person who accepts defeat, it is actually "soft ke gang", mutual tolerance, but to make love better, accompany the old. The people who accept the loss, who look silly, are actually smart people.
As the old saying goes, "There is a give-and-give." A person who is unwilling to give up anything cannot be an "empty glove white wolf". Where there is any "no business", life is "one point of hard work and one point of harvest", your pay and get, is relatively balanced.
There are also those who are mercenary, often more than they lose. One of my friends, who grew up playing, opened a clothing store a few years ago, and he started to do business honestly, making very little money, and also saw others making money, and his eyes were red. Just do some fakes, sandwiched between the real goods, often through such "means" to get more money. Several of our friends advised him to correct his mistakes as soon as possible, but he did not listen, thinking that he could "hide the sky and cross the sea." Last winter, his shop was inspected, the fines were very high, and the money he earned was wasted, but fortunately, there was no "prison disaster", which was already a blessing.
Truly first-class smart people, in the face of interests, will weigh it, will resist temptation, and adhere to the moral bottom line. Quick success and short-term profit, often "full of losses", slowly walking, can be "quiet and far-reaching".
Many people have a bad life, not because the economic conditions are not good enough, but because they have a feeling of "blocking panic" in their hearts. His mood was awkward, and he couldn't get along with himself.
Things that can't be put down, in fact, most of the past things, and such things, bother you for a long time, can't sleep at night, sleep restless. But if you can't put it down, what's the use? You're embarrassing yourself. Some people can't put it down because they have "hatred" in their hearts and want to design a plan to retaliate against the other party. "When is the retribution of wrongs", your hatred is a stone in your heart, very heavy, pressing the chest pain.
The Buddha said: One thought is put down, and everything is natural. To let go is to be born again, to face the future with ease. The more you let go, the more relaxed you are, even if you meet an enemy, you can also talk to Yan Yuexi. Perhaps, it is a very stupid thing to laugh at the enemy, but in fact, "it is not appropriate to untie the wrongdoers" and let go of hatred is a smart way to do it.
Truly first-class smart people will also find ways to make money, rather than foolishly not wanting anything and being poor for the rest of their lives. Therefore, he is willing to foolishly direct hatred, do not care about others, make people's lives more harmonious, and pay attention to "harmony and wealth".
As the saying goes: a fool has a fool's blessing. People who are too shrewd, counted, counted on their own heads, and their blessings are counted out. First-class intelligent people, stupid and respectable and lovely, are actually "pretending to be confused with understanding", rarely confused, laughing and passing, not making grudges with people, not considering short-term interests, standing tall and looking far ahead, insisting on kindness, and there will be blessings.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
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