Perhaps, all fate is because of love.
(1) Fragrant incense
Our family, except for children, do not like to have dogs. I laugh at the names of dogs that love dogs and own dogs: what communication language such as "son", "baby", "mother hugging" is difficult to understand, how can people and dogs be universal? Silly one by one!
I was like a sober-minded spectator, watching the confused behavior of dog owners on the streets and alleys, and then, from the bottom of my heart, I secretly despised this group of brainless people...
however......
however.......
Many things, a simple "however", are not rewritten fate, but really change your heart:
Originally, my rest day was like this:
A cup of home-ground soy milk, a delicate plate of crispy snacks and washed fruit, and after breakfast on the warm balcony watching a variety of flowers compete to open, a cup of tea or a cup of coffee, quietly enjoy the good time. Take a nap at noon, cook a good table at night, pour red wine, have a drink with your lover, and at most ask your daughter in the group if her studies are going well...
However, the above scenario is before December 14 of the lunar calendar last year.
Last winter vacation, the child was at home during the holidays, bored, and said to me: "Mom, I want to have a dog or a cat." I said, "Impossible! "Cut to the chase, there is no room for negotiation.
from now on
"I want to have a dog, and so can a kitten."
......
Day by day, the child finished every sentence with me, and the end must be accompanied by this sentence, which was almost used as a period. She said very easily, but I was a little stressed, and said to my husband: "Otherwise, get her a dog, there are no brothers and sisters, a child is lonely from childhood..."
The husband was very determined: "No! ”
Looking at the daughter's demonic eyes, she felt sorry that the child had no playmate, so she said to her husband: "You don't count!" ”
My daughter saw that I was loose, and her strength was even stronger, and she said: "Mom is the best, I am very lonely, most of my classmates have brothers and sisters..." The child's words poked at my weak ribs. I was determined to get her a dog.
I called for advice, I wanted to buy it through acquaintances, more reliable. My husband saw that I was coming for real and warned me: "If you get it, I will throw it out for you!" ”
"You dare!" Obviously, I don't care about my husband's opinion, I care about the feelings of my children. The husband said: "You should think well, the dog is to eat and drink Lasa, wash and wash, live and die, you are going to give him a pension to send the end, not what you want to play so simple!" ”
I know this, but I can't take care of it so much compared to my child's heart.
So, on the eve of the Spring Festival last year, a friend drove the dog to him.
Xiang Xiang arrived
Opening the car door, a small white velvet, pink beep, humming little milk dog is sleeping soundly in a small cardboard box. Friends say that today is the first day of the full moon. I calculated his birthday, which should be November 14 in the lunar calendar and December 26 in the solar calendar.
I took this little milk dog home with a full moon, and my daughter carefully picked it up and loved it. The dog was a little boy, because he liked it, he gave him a name called "Xiangxiang", whether he was a man or a woman. My husband, who said fiercely not to let the dog in the house, saw the fragrant little milk dog, hugged and did not let go, and liked it. I said, "You still don't let me get it, don't you like it!" The husband said, "You got it, I have to like it!" ”
In this way, the fragrance settled in our home.
So, we are also busy, first go to the pet hospital, drop the file, hit a variety of vaccines, a shot every month, play 5 months, and then, properly drop a bath a week, the mother-in-law made a variety of small clothes for Xiangxiang, small quilts, I bought a beautiful kennel from the Internet, small sofas, etc., all kinds of snacks and teething sticks, more importantly, gave Xiangxiang full freedom, never locked in the cage, bedroom, living room casually in and out, Xiangxiang also had the experience of urinating in the room when he was small, but as he grew up, Basically do not pee in the room, can hold back.
Coming home from work, Xiangxiang was always waiting for us at the door. Every day there are many passers-by in the corridor, he will not call, but as soon as my husband and I enter the building, before people have reached the door, he will run to greet you, wagging his tail around you a few times, asking for a hug, and then returning to his own small sofa, obediently looking at you, quiet and beautiful.
My life is also changing, and the days of sunbathing in the circle of friends have become sunbathing dogs!
As the days passed, one day my husband suddenly called my name in a fuss, called me over, and said, "Come and see, Xiangxiang has grown up!" "I ran over to see, and it turned out to be a fragrant little thing with an erection. But no, the dog is seven or eight months old, which is equivalent to a young man. The husband said that he was going to sterilize Xiangxiang and cut off his dust edge. I couldn't bear it, I thought as long as I didn't let him get close to the little girl, it would be fine, and my husband thought about it again and again according to my opinion.
The composition was half written, and a key figure appeared immediately.
(2) Seven boys
Seven boys who love to break up the house
One day, my husband sent me a photo of a corgi dog from WeChat and asked me: "Is it pretty?"
I said, "Oh! This dog is nice and beautiful! The picture sent to the dog is a three-color corgi, with a white arrow-like pattern on the forehead, and the large round eyes like black grapes show a noble and elegant look. The husband said that this is his colleague Lao J's dog, four months old, because the child is in kindergarten, the two children are busy at work, and they want to do the work of the child and send the dog to him to raise. She sent the picture to her daughter, who looked at it and liked it, said, "I want to," and then sent an embarrassed expression (she knew the request was a bit greedy). I said that's not okay, we have one, enough busy work, can't raise two. Husband said, you think it's beautiful, people are not willing to send it! That's it.
After a while, on the 17th of last month, my mother-in-law's birthday, my aunt and sister-in-law they all came, everyone rejoiced in the hotel for most of the day, in the afternoon, after the guests left, the husband wanted to say and stopped telling me: "Old J family will come to send dogs, has done the work of the child ...", I listened, confused! Oh, my God! I didn't agree, why did you let the family send it?!
My husband twisted, looked at me bottomlessly, and said, "Didn't you say that you were very beautiful and liked it?" ”
"I like it, but I didn't say I wanted it!" What do you do when you get it? Two dogs, when the dog tears the cat bites, the dog hair is flying all over the sky, and let no one live?! Resolutely no, hurry up and call them not to send it! ”
“...... Already on the way... People old J is also inspected for a long time, only to rest assured to let me raise, this is not, his daughter is not assured, must come to the house to see, do not match the family they will pull back, you don't have to worry ..."
During the conversation, the old J family went downstairs, the husband hurried downstairs to greet, I watched upstairs, very solemn, a family of three came to send the dog, dog cage, snacks, toys, a brain are brought over, out of courtesy, I also went downstairs.
It can be seen that the little girl is very reluctant, the daughter-in-law of the old J briefly introduced the dog's temperament habits, worried about the child's change, the family quickly left, I was reluctant to cope, did not let them see my emotions. But as soon as they left, I immediately opened fire to the old man and warned him: "Remember, from today onwards, your good days are coming to an end!" "My mood is very poor, but also sent a circle of friends to complain about it, eat at night, the leftovers brought back from the hotel are hot, and I did not make new meals, my mother-in-law saw that I was really angry, and whispered to my husband: "Hurry up and send it back, Min her mother is unwilling, don't make her angry..."
"Then send it back is not good, first raise a few days and then send, I told the old j well, if you really do not want to raise, send it back, resolutely can not send others ..."
I listened to my husband's words, and my bad mood eased a little.
After the meal, I walked to the cage, looked at the dog carefully, very beautiful, black and slippery eyes, looking at me, pure and clear, my heart suddenly softened, and then looked up at my husband's expectant eyes, and said: "Then stay!" ”
When my husband heard me open the golden mouth, he was suddenly relieved! Happy like a child, he said, "That is, how good you look, how healing!" After walking the dog to take a bath, you don't have to care about anything, you just have to play with the dog... I think at the beginning, I didn't want to let xiangxiang come, didn't you also get it! Unexpectedly, he still remembered the account. Look at the dog in the cage, cold and innocent, the haze in my heart dissipated at once, instead of being angry, it is better to accept, my husband accepted the incense for me, can't I sacrifice it for him? Just going down will not help. I compromised and asked my husband, "What's his name?" ”
"Fly, fly, fly!" My husband's eyes were filled with gratitude, and I was relieved.
Then, my husband took Fei Fei to the bathroom to give him a bath, blow dry, I touched Fei Fei's hair, soft and shiny, and touched Fei Fei's head, he very meekly lay down, and gently licked my hand, bright big eyes, handsome forehead, fresh breath, instantly, love!
We reported this tangled process to my daughter, my daughter was very happy, I said don't be happy too early, two can't get one to send away, then you can only send away incense, incense is not as good as this variety. The daughter said, "No! The golden dog silver dog is not as good as his own stinky dog, to raise a piece of it, if you have to send one, then leave the incense, incense is my dog, not allowed to send! ”
Okay, the standard answer is there.
I'm just trying to see, how can I be willing to send away the incense?
Then, the daughter said that the name Feifei was too tacky, so she gave him another name, called "Seven Boys"!
"Seven Boys" sounds good and fits his temperament.
We called "Seven Boys" and "Seven Boys" for a few days, and he was very clever and quickly adapted.
One day, my husband said to me: "Today old J asked me about the recent situation of Feifei, I listened to Feifei, I did not react for a while, the old master did not know that Feifei changed his name..."
I said that in the future, it is okay to call him "Seven Boys Flying", don't let old J stop thinking.
Old J is also reluctant to call for photos and videos of Qizai, and the video is sent over to relieve his daughter's pain of lovesickness. Children like dogs, so forced to separate children from dogs, I really can't bear it, tell the old j, you can always take the dog back. Old J said, can not work, it took a lot of effort, to do the work of the child, now the goal is to let the child gradually forget the dog, can not meet again.
When you think about it, we all say that we love children, but there is not much that can really be done for children.
In this way, Qizai settled in our home again.
(3) Xiang Xiang and Qizai
Now our family is bustling.
Fragrant with seven tsai
Originally, after the children went to school, there were three adults in the family, and it was not quiet. You watch your TV, I brush my vibrato, on the weekend I and my husband are in the new home, as long as there is no quarrel basically nothing. Now well, Xiangxiang as the eldest brother, for the new little brother, very repulsive, when Qizai just arrived home, Xiangxiang was afraid of him, within an hour, Xiangxiang understood, you are new, I am afraid of you a hair! Bite you! So, the two people competed for the sofa, for toys, for food, for pets, you chased after me, there was no stopping. No way, every night only let them play for an hour, put the seven boys into the cage, the seven boys into the cage, the incense is particularly proud, outside, smell here, sniff there, lick the dog's paws, yawn, provoke the seven boys jumping up and down in the cage, moaning and resisting. Whenever this happened, I would take Xiangxiang to another room and not let him shrug in front of Qizai. As soon as Xiangxiang left, Qizai was quiet, and the two of them were one in the south and one in the north, and they were at peace.
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Every morning, my mother-in-law walks incense and my husband walks seven boys. When they came back, I got up and cooked. Seven children eat dog food, fragrant dog food and human food. Qizai eats very elegantly, one grain at a time, Si Ti slowly eats, the fragrance is not like this, I can't wait for a mouthful. For this reason, I am a little biased towards the seven boys, delicious will give more to the seven boys, did not expect, the dog's understanding ability is also very strong, Xiangxiang saw that I only fed the seven boys, the anger is not looking at me, the mouth makes an unsatisfactory snort. Usually, as long as I shout incense, he will quickly run to my side, offend him, shout no shouting, lying on his own small sofa, not moving, and squinting at me: "Hum! Shovel, ignore you! I was so angry that I shouted at him, "All right, Incense! Although you are angry with me, it is a big deal to give you away! He seemed to understand, and after a while he ran up to me, made affectionate gestures, licked the hem of my pants, and rubbed my hand. I touched him and said I forgave him.
In order to save my mother-in-law a snack, I took Qizai to my new home on the weekend and spent the weekend with the two of us in the new home. So, I bought another dog cage and put it in my new home. My husband is very grateful for my initiative to dedicate, specially sent me a red envelope to express gratitude, I opened the red packet, 500 yuan. Ask him, "How come I sent so much?" This dog cage is 147 yuan, and 200 yuan is enough! The husband said: "500 yuan means two 250 ah!" ”
Two hundred and five, there is no regret medicine in the world... Speechless and embarrassed...
Since December 14 of last year's lunar calendar, the days of leisurely tea tasting and meticulous food seem to be gone, and what greets us is that cleaning dog hair every day, bathing two dogs every week, whether it is windy or rainy or haily, walking the dog rain or shine, and more importantly, the clothes and bags placed in the shopping cart in advance on Double Eleven have been quietly replaced by bags of dog food, insect repellents, teething sticks, clearing tablets, and dog toys and so on...
Once into the Houmen as deep as the sea, a dog can not be idle, two dogs, busy our family is in full swing, to our aging family injected fresh blood, anyway, not only has there been movement, but also very noisy! Husband, originally a lazy person, now also diligent no, as long as there is time to keep sweeping the floor, clean up the dog cage, Thursday to give xiangxiang a bath, Saturday to seven boys to bathe, the morning bed problem also changed, incense than the alarm clock is more punctual, to the point to knock on the door, do not get up to take your slippers and socks away, most of my socks are single, is because the two dogs like to play with socks, play socks I threw away, socks bought a dozen and a dozen. As for my husband, I walked the dog when I had time, walked my brother and walked my brother, and I was happy to do it.
This is the two sides of things, there are advantages and disadvantages, the benevolent see the wise see the wise. I, unconsciously, the name of the dog has become "good boy" and "little baby", I have smoothly transitioned from a sober-minded spectator to the ranks of dog owners, maybe someone is now looking at me silly bar ..., but, I want to say, do not keep dogs, you never know the fun of raising dogs, really!
I once heard the saying that a dog is always a dog, but a person is not necessarily a person. Dogs don't have any bad intentions, eating, drinking, and playing are enough! But there are those who, unsatisfied, for the sake of profit, who are scheming and calculating, and by contrast, the dogs are docile and kind, and the world is simple, much better than those who are white-eyed wolves.