(1) Be a person without emotions, remember not to say that your pain is difficult, no one will really care about you, do not easily believe in the people you just met, and do not expect everyone to be full of fantasies, everyone is tortured by life, no one will care about you. It doesn't matter who talks about you behind your back, you just need to care about the work at hand, those trivial things. And bad colleagues, don't let those things bother you, you don't need everyone to understand you, like you, of course, you don't easily give advice to anyone. Everyone is a product of the environment, and the Tao is not a conspiracy. (2) Don't lose your temper casually, the temper is too much, not only can not solve the problem, but will hurt your own body, when you really want to lose your temper, in fact, a look is enough. Cruel people never cry or make trouble. But whenever you get along and make you feel very tired, the relationship will end directly, and you should not embarrass yourself. Remember later, speak with strength. The most stupid behavior in this world is to always reason with others when you are weak, always remember that different positions are precious, endure not to wait, do not argue, do not agree with the three views, waste tongue, two years to learn to speak, a lifetime to learn to shut up. No matter who you are in conflict with, remember that it is three to five periods. For example: you say a sentence to a colleague, and then the colleague tops you, you say another sentence, the colleague tops you again, and the colleague is a little anxious, this time turn around and leave, and say, you are right, I am wrong, okay?. Saying three or five sentences to stop, this is called understanding people, because this matter is not clear where your colleagues are, don't waste your tongue. (3) When you are under pressure to the point of collapse, don't tell others, don't feel wronged, because no one will hurt you, no one cares, the skills are not as good as people, you have to try to quiet yourself down, do what you should do, instead of letting the troubles and anxiety destroy your enthusiasm and concentration, the heart can be broken, but the hand can not stop, do what you do, continue to move forward in the collapse, you are a cruel person.
