Three words can be used to summarize the attitude of people today to feelings: easy to defend and difficult to attack, easy to attack and difficult to defend, not to defend and not to attack.
If you are the first kind, easy to defend and difficult to attack, it is unfortunate to tell you that you have the highest probability of becoming a single dog for 10,000 years.
Easy to keep, it is easy to hold your restless heart, and you will not go around looking for a good medicine to soothe loneliness without moving
It is difficult to attack, that is, it is difficult for the other party to enter, whether he secretly sends Qiu Bo, or offers flowers to the Buddha, not your dish, you are indifferent.
In short, in a word, it is difficult to get into your eyes, but your persistence is often easier to get true love.
If you are the second type, easy to attack and difficult to defend, then the situation is completely different, peach blossom luck is continuous, whether it is sent by others or you earn.
Easy to attack, have the initiative to pursue others;
It is still difficult to keep, others invite you to drink a cup of tea, and from time to time to throw a wink at you, you will descend.
This is also very good, off the single is a matter of minutes, not only the road and subway can be sprinkled with dog food, the main program of the circle of friends during the New Year's Festival is also you.
If you're the third kind, don't defend or attack, well, Buddha.
People come to pick you up, and you don't guard. Chat is right, talk when you can, and it is good to be friends if you can't talk.
Don't attack, you can see it, and don't take the initiative. Just wait. What are you waiting for? fate. When he suddenly comes to you for help one day, you pretend to agree carelessly, but in fact, your heart has already blossomed.
The third is also very good, the risk is low, and the emotional world is not too boring.
Eh, how do you exaggerate all three situations. According to what you said, everyone is nothing more than these three states, and the three states are very good, and you mean that people are very good now.
No, then where are the cries of idiot men and women and the cries of single dogs?
All three are good, but the premise is that there must be a "sincere" word.
Life is actually a mirror, what you give, life will give you back to you.
In a relationship, the focus is not on whether you attack or defend, but only if you pay sincerely, you will reap.
At this time, you may refute me, no! I was real enough about my first love, I was real enough about my last relationship, I dug my heart and lungs, but the other party was a scumbag.
It can be seen that true love does not necessarily exist in true love.
I will not refute your doubts. Allow me to start with a little story.
This story is from The movie "Do Not Disturb" made by Feng Xiaogang, Shu Qi starred as Liang Xiaoxiao, and Ge You starred as Qin Fen.
Gentle smiles and a gentle married man lie on the grass of Hokkaido, the sun is gentle, gentle enough to make you smell the damp smell of the sea.
Smile and ask the man, "Will you marry me?"
Man: "Hmm"
Smiling and asking, "Will it or not?"
The man paused for a moment, "Will."
Smile is sincerely in love with this man, but the man is holding the bowl in his hand, the mouth in the pot, greedy.
To be continued.