My answer is no, and I've been thinking a little bit about some of the ways I do things lately, which has upended the way I've always thought.
1- How can doing small things change intimacy?
Xiao Wang is a famous doctor, fully devoted to work, neglecting to take care of the family, and the husband and wife have a general relationship. But through studying before, Xiao Wang decided to improve his intimate relationship, but he didn't know where to start.
Later, he remembered that his wife often complained that he had taken off his socks at home and thrown them around, and he had repeatedly taught him, dozens of days like a year, because he was busy working and earning money to support his family, and he had no bad habits, but he was littered at home. Smelly socks, the wife nagged him, simply too inconsiderate.
He then decided to correct it and began to throw the socks he had taken off into the laundry basket, not expecting that after doing so for a while, his wife not only noticed, but was also very surprised and appreciated. The relationship between husband and wife is also getting better.
2- The misunderstanding of doing small things
Many people who start a business or simply more than 90% of people have always wanted to do big things, do some things that are not indispensable to me, and other small things are left to others to do as much as possible.
But for many people, the things that must be me are some big things, can't be small things, and the final result is that there are fewer and fewer big things, so few as almost zero.
As a result, you have been thinking about doing great things, but you find that your eyes are high and low, and you can't get rid of it.
3- Why don't you want to do small things?
Take Xiao Wang as an example, the idea behind littering socks is to feel that you are very big, and others are very small. Husband and wife are very small, one person is very large, naturally it will not be treated fairly, it is difficult to sit on an equal footing as a couple, so it will cause intimate tension.
It turns out that this kind of person is informal on the surface, but in his heart he is holding a ruler and calculating. And this ruler can not be noticed by itself, and naturally others will not notice.
In general, people who are bent on doing great things are actually just a kind of expansion of themselves, using others in the process of inflating themselves, degrading themselves, and not acknowledging their own accounts.
4- What are the consequences of not doing small things in life!
First, I do not know the sufferings of the world
Second, degradation due to dependence
Third, lack of feelings, inaccurate decision-making
Fourth, it is easy to encounter small things and become irritable, and it is difficult to live in the moment.
Fifth, in the end, if there are no big things in life, only small things are left, and I don't know how to live.
5- Life Advice:
No matter what your current situation is, change yourself, the fastest way to change yourself is to do the little things in your life and work well.
If you still have a chance to do small things, enjoy
If you don't have anything small to do, think about why
As for myself, I am now practicing doing small things!
Just like the little king in the story, starting to cultivate without throwing socks, the results are amazing, you may wish to learn to start from small things and start to act immediately.