In the song "Decent", there is such a lyric, "The breakup should be decent, no one should say sorry, why owe." Some people think that a decent breakup is to cut through the mess quickly and not to default on each other; others think that a decent breakup should be natural and not say the harm. On Sunday night, in Jiangsu Satellite TV's "New Blind Date Conference", the way male guest Li Chao fell in love triggered heated discussion among the audience. Not taking the initiative to say break up, whether it is a gentleman or a cruelty, everyone may have their own answer in their hearts.
After a month, the "New Blind Date Conference", which was re-"new", also showed the confidence of the veteran variety show again. Data show that on Sunday night, the "New Blind Date" CSM59 city ratings of 1.43%, ratings hit a new high this season.
There is a kind of departure, called never taking the initiative to say break up
Li Chao, a male guest, is a typical pragmatic faction in life. Growing up, his desire was to become a "successful adult"; he did not deliberately create a romantic atmosphere, but adhered to the attitude of "as long as you want, as long as I have". Such a pragmatic way of life is also reflected in his concept of love.
Li Chao once had a sweet first love, but it ended in a way that seemed slightly strange to others. At that time, the girl needed to go to other places to develop because of her work, which directly led to the gradual cooling of the relationship between the two people. "Slowly, for two or three days, a week, or even 2 or 3 months without contact, no one proposed to break up, and the relationship seemed to end." Li Chao recalled. However, for such a way of breaking up, Li Chao looks very calm. He said that in his feelings, he prefers to wait for the other party to say goodbye first, and "not taking the initiative" in his view is the last decency left for both parties.
Such a way of breaking up naturally caused a heated discussion among the female guests on the spot. Some people think that this is the ultimate kindness, "still don't want to hurt each other, very kind"; but most of the female guests still feel that the "silence" at the key moment is actually the biggest harm. "If you give this choice to a girl, it is actually quite cold and violent." Because he himself did not even have the courage to make this choice," said Zhao Suji, a female guest.
After the program was broadcast, Li Chao's "not active" theory immediately set off a hot discussion on the Internet. The vast majority of the audience agreed with the female guest Zhao Suji, believing that regardless of whether they continued to communicate or not, both sides should have a clear attitude. "Everyone is an adult, there is no need to play deep, and it is actually the most responsible thing for everyone to say the final decision." "Love is both sides, as long as one person does not love, it can be over, there is no need to wait for the other party to open their mouths first!" 」 The audience said one after another.
There is a kind of "difficulty in choosing", which is called the extremely harsh conditions for mate selection
"Life is a puzzle, selection, comparison, do not allow the slightest confusion", this is the male guest Wang Jie has always believed in the philosophy of life. In the treatment of love, he also showed extraordinary harshness, in the words of the audience, he is an extreme "perfectionist".
Wang Jie is 190cm tall, so he requires that the other half of the future need to be above 166cm, even if the gap of 1cm is not negotiable; he does not like sister-brother love, so the girl is a day older than him; his own work and rest time is regular, he must sleep before eleven o'clock, basically do not reply to text messages, so the girl must not be a "night owl"; he lives a healthy life, so the girl can not be a "foodie" who calls for takeaway every day... The conditions for mate selection are so meticulous and strict that Wang Jie makes the audience in front of the TV set can only "hurry".
"May I ask my classmate, are you choosing a princess?" Where does love come from with so many rules? "I'm going to be laughed at by Wang Jie in the middle of the night, so why can the advertising industry leave work before eight o'clock?" Such a boss gives me a dozen! "Wang Jie is definitely the most rigid male guest in the history of the "New Blind Date", which feels like he is not looking for a girlfriend, but to find another self!" The audience commented.
There is a kind of son-in-law, who tells the mother-in-law to like it more and more the more she looks at it
It is said that "the mother-in-law looks at the son-in-law, the more she looks at it, the more she likes it", and the male guest Ye Siqi is definitely this type of prospective son-in-law candidate. First of all, the appearance conditions, Ye Siqi is 180 tall, single eyelids and small dimples are permeated with the innocence and cuteness of a little boy; secondly, professional advantages, Ye Siqi is a radio host, the work is stable, not to mention, there is an extremely charming voice, is a full-fledged potential stock; again, look at the temperament, Ye Siqi in the feelings, is a very persistent and devoted person. In the previous relationship, he called himself a "one-hundred-point boy" willing to give up his job, his dignity, and even his life for the sake of the other person. Finally, looking at the attitude of life, Ye Siqi likes to play guitar, likes to play table tennis, badminton, in the eyes of everyone is a hard life, love life of the boy.
More importantly, Ye Siqi has a very reasonable mother. In the program, in the pro-family declaration session, Mother Ye said: "I don't want you to grow to 170cm, I don't want you to have a 4 waist, I don't want you to be 985, I don't need you to be 211, I just need you to accompany my son to eat some night snacks when he is hungry!" Mother Ye made this fashionable statement, and circled countless fans for herself and her son.
Everyone said, "The pleasing male guest, the reasonable mother-in-law, it is not difficult to understand why Qi Qi's father and daughter are full of fire!" "A boy like Ye Siqi is simply a fragrant feast in the blind date market, not only are girls favored, but even the mother-in-law will smile and close her mouth!"