Folk tales are not filial piety to the adopted son

From ancient times to the present, the Chinese people's ideas of "passing on the generations" and "raising children to prevent the elderly" are deeply rooted, and even if they cannot have their own children, they often adopt a son.

However, many parents have problems with their education methods, excessive coddling and pampering, resulting in serious defects in their children's personality when they grow up, extreme selfishness, and eventually become what people call "debt collectors" and "white-eyed wolves".

Today I would like to share with you a tragic story. The couple adopted a son, and from an early age they were overly accommodating and doting, and as a result, when they grew up, they not only did not know how to be grateful, but also abused the elderly. In the end, the old two must destroy the family first and then commit suicide!

Idle without saying much, get to the point.

In 1952, when Li Rentang was 42 and his wife Zhang Xiulan was 35, the childless couple adopted an abandoned baby less than three months old with the idea of "having children to retire".

Since then, they have loved their adopted son "Li Xiao'en" like a pearl in the palm of their hand, although the salary is meager, but they always do their best to buy good food and fun for their children. A family of three is crowded in a cottage of less than 20 square meters in downtown Shanghai.

Get pregnant out of wedlock

Li Xiao'en was spoiled by his adoptive parents since he was a child, selfish and willful, bold, not studying well at school, and only knowing how to open his mouth when he came home. But Li Rentang and his wife did not complain at all, always thinking that the children were still young, and after a few years of growing up, they would understand things.

In 1969, 14-year-old Li Xiaoen was assigned to the Northeast China Team just after graduating from junior high school. His adoptive parents cried and sent him to the train, afraid that he would suffer outside, so they sent money to the land of the month and month, and entrusted people with large bags of things during the New Year's Festival.

Li Xiaoen left the custody of his parents, even more lawless, less than two years to get a girlfriend, and unmarried pregnant! There was no way, he had to take the woman back to Shanghai, let his parents pay for abortion, serve the small birth.

Although Li Rentang and his wife were very angry, they still loved their son in their hearts, and they did not fight or scold. Zhang Xiulan is even more resentful to serve her son's girlfriend, helping to wash and cook day and night...

After more than a month, Li Xiaoen returned to the northeast with his girlfriend, and Li Rentang and his wife were busy buying tickets and a lot of nutritional products and daily necessities to send them to the train.

Since then, the old couple has begun to struggle to bear the living expenses of their son and "daughter-in-law"...

The adopted son is revealed

In 1973, Li Xiao'en wanted to take his girlfriend back to Shanghai. Li Rentang and his wife also mailed them the fare and food and drink on the way to help them both return smoothly.

Immediately afterward, Li Rentang and his wife took out all their savings and borrowed a few hundred yuan to help their adopted son get married and buy daily necessities. And it is clearly agreed that the debts will be repaid by the adopted couple.

Because the family is too small, Li Xiaoen can only take his wife to live in a rented house. But these two little people are delicious and lazy people, usually reaching out to their parents, not only do not pay off debts, but also force their parents to buy expensive electrical appliances for themselves...

Start playing rogues

Mr. and Mrs. Li Rentang reminded their son several times about the debt, and occasionally complained a few words. But Li Xiao'en was completely angry, and without saying a word, he withdrew from the rental house, and the two of them moved into their parents' cottage of less than 20 square meters.

Since then, four people have lived in the same room, the little couple has bed, and the old couple has made a bunk!

Li Rentang suffered from rheumatism and coronary heart disease, and he couldn't stand sleeping on the ground for many years, so he consulted with his adopted son several times: "Can you go out to rent a house again and be considerate of my illness." Li Xiao'en actually narrowed his eyes and extended his hand: "Okay, take the money for renting a house and say it again!" ”

Heartbroken abuse

A year later, Li Xiaoen gave birth to a son, the small room was even more crowded, and the child cried day and night, and the adoptive mother would inevitably say a few words.

Unexpectedly, the daughter-in-law was on fire, pointing at the mother-in-law and scolding! Li Rentang really couldn't see his wife's tears and endured, so he quarreled with his daughter-in-law.

While Li Rentang was accusing his daughter-in-law, his adopted son Li Xiao'en returned from work. Without saying a word, he pulled his adoptive father's hair and slammed it against the wall, beating him and shouting angrily, "I was not born to you!" I don't have a mother-in-law, but don't try to bully me! "Li Rentang broke his head on the spot and vomited blood in anger...

In 1983, Li Rentang and his wife were given a two-bedroom apartment by the unit. When moving, the old couple took the initiative to live in the smaller bedroom and gave the large bedroom to the adopted son.

Li Xiao'en and his wife not only did not treat the elderly well, but also began to worry about their pensions and demanded endlessly. The old couple was extremely disappointed, and they did not give it with an iron heart.

At this moment, the family conflict broke out to the peak - Li Xiao'en punched and kicked when he saw that his adoptive father was slightly unhappy, and the daughter-in-law quarreled to separate the families to eat their own meals, and the two families did not care about anyone.

Li Rentang's old husband and wife are fierce, single passing, we cook our own food, our own money to spend!

Wan did not expect that Li Xiao'en did even more absolutely, he actually cut off the electricity in the bedroom of his adoptive parents! The old two lit candles night and night, crying relatively, and regretted how they had raised such a white-eyed wolf...

One day, the adoptive mother was so thirsty that she poured a glass of water from her adoptive son's kettle. After the daughter-in-law returned from work, she found that the kettle had been moved, and scolded on the spot: "All the families have been separated, how can you move my family's things at will!" Then there were all kinds of unpleasant ugly words, the adopted son came back to help scold, and the family quarreled for most of the night before stopping.

Adoptive parents commit suicide by destroying their home

The next morning, the adopted son and wife went to work, and the child was sent to kindergarten. Li Rentang sighed and said to his wife, "You go and take out all the money in the bank, and then go back to your hometown, never come back." ”

The old partner immediately understood his intentions, cried and said, "We have not been separated for many years of hard work, and now we can't be separated." You're going to die, I'm going to die with you!" The two of them hugged their headaches and cried.

After a long time, Li Rentang said, "Even if we die, we can't let them live well!" smash! Let's smash this house all and die!" ”

After saying that, the old couple each found an axe and a hammer, smashed the electrical appliances, tables and chairs, cabinets, and beds in the whole home, and the clothes and quilts were torn into rags, and even the money that came out was burned...

After doing all this, Li Rentang raised a pen and wrote on the wall: "Give back the lives of both of us!" We were forced to die by you!" Then, the old two stabbed them in the throat and chest with scissors, and both fell into a pool of blood...

postscript

The incident occurred on January 18, 1984, when the old couple was found and taken to the hospital for emergency treatment. However, Li Rentang unfortunately died due to coronary heart disease and excessive blood loss; his wife Zhang Xiulan was rescued and cried and complained to the public security department about the evil deeds and all the experiences of his adopted son. In the end, the adopted son Li Xiao'en was arrested according to law for "abusing his parents"...

This tragic and tragic story is over. As the saying goes, "a slap does not make a sound", and if an adopted son can become like this, there must be a problem of wrong education for adoptive parents. Therefore, the truth that "doting on children is like killing children" deserves the attention of every parent.

But now, there are often extreme incidents in society where children hurt their parents and even kill their parents. Two days ago, I picked up a news video - a man in Jiamusi killed his parents in his home, and the blood stains were all spilled to the neighbor's house downstairs before he was found. How tragic that is!

Do you officials have any views and thoughts on the emergence of such family tragedies in real society?