I met Zhao Ting by chance, and his dad and my dad had business dealings.
Under the mediation of the two fathers, in 2016, Zhao Ting and I entered into marriage for half a year. After marriage, I had a house and a car, and in this small city, I lived my home life.
I studied tourism, but I never found a decent job after graduation. Zhao Ting studied construction engineering and applied to a central enterprise in Beijing after graduation.
In 2017, Zhao Ting resigned and went home, his father-in-law invested, and opened a car shop for the two of us, and the life was also very prosperous.
I have always been grateful to my father-in-law, although he supported us for his own son, after all, I also have my share.
However, many of my father-in-law's problems have more and more subverted my three views.
I want to buy clothes for Zhao Ting, and my father-in-law will also put forward some reference opinions, such as color, style, price, at the beginning I am hindered by the affection, try to do according to the father-in-law's suggestions.
The monitoring of my car shop and the monitoring of my father-in-law's shop are networked, and my father-in-law is always directing at my every move.
Once, I had a cold and didn't like to cook, ordered two takeaways, and my father-in-law called me directly and told me that it was best to eat, which saved money and was hygienic.
I often go online to look for some hot goods, whenever the courier comes knocking on the door, the father-in-law's face is very ugly, and Zhao Ting said: This can still be good! Later, I simply changed the courier to the signing address.
What I couldn't tolerate the most was my postpartum days.
When I was seven years old, my mother died in a car accident, and my father remarried, and it was my aunt and grandfather who took care of me and grew up.
After giving birth to a son, I had no experience and patience, and for the convenience of my mother-in-law to take care of the child, I lived with my in-laws.
The long days of getting along shredded the respect that my father-in-law and I had maintained on the surface.
The father-in-law could not hear the child crying, heard the child crying, the father-in-law ran to my bedroom first, asked me if I did not breastfeed, was there something uncomfortable?
Many times, I was nursing, and he would break in and stand there waiting for the child not to cry. I was both embarrassed and angry.
Once my grandfather was hospitalized, Zhao Ting and I went to the hospital to visit, less than five minutes into the house, the father-in-law's WeChat voice came over.
I opened it to listen, and there was a hysterical roar inside: the child's high fever reached 39 ° and I didn't even know if it was a dead person, hurry back!
My family all heard my father-in-law's anger, Grandpa turned his face and did not speak, my aunt advised me to go back quickly, and My father bowed his head without squeaking.
My tears rolled down without controversy, I tried to let my family see that I was doing well, and my hateful father-in-law made my self-esteem collapse completely.
I scolded Zhao Ting all the way: "You see what kind of father you are, not as good as a good woman, there is nothing he can't control, this day, can't live!"
Zhao Ting hugged me tightly and cried. He said: "My father's temper is like that, my mother has suffered for a lifetime, the child is older, we try to stay away from my parents as much as possible."
After returning home, I said directly to my father-in-law: "I have always respected you, I didn't expect you to make progress, you paid a lot for us, but this is not the reason why you shouted at me!" Child, I don't want it, you can wait for you! ”
I simply packed up my clothes and went back to my grandfather, and before leaving, I said to Zhao Ting, "Get ready, let's get a divorce!"
My father-in-law didn't speak, my mother-in-law didn't speak, and I only heard my son crying in Zhao Ting's arms...
"Things around you, narrated in the first person"