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The age of twenty is the best age in the life of many girls.
There was a girl, who was only 24 years old, but had to raise her son with her deceased husband alone, and the monthly loan of more than five thousand often made her breathless.
Friends who had once played well, gradually moved away from her.
The more people look down on me, the more exciting I have to live.
With the energy in my heart, I regained my strength and brought goods through stalls and live broadcasts.
He took off his loan and supported himself and his son.
She is Wu Haiyan, a 24-year-old mother.
Today, let's get up close to her and learn about her story.
01
Qingdao, Shandong, a coastal city with particularly rich fishery resources.
Many people here make a living from fishing, and Wu Haiyan's husband was also a fisherman before his death.
Fishing is a hard and extremely dangerous job. Because it is easy to encounter very dangerous things at sea, Wu Haiyan's husband died tragically during a trip to the sea.
She went with her husband, but because she was more than five months pregnant and hadn't gone to sea together, she waited in the car for them to return.
Not long after, one of my husband's friends rushed over, saying that his husband had never come up again when he went to sea.
Hearing this news, it was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and his body was paralyzed on the ground in an instant.
But she still braced herself, went to the shore, saw the husband who was rescued, the medical staff was rescuing her husband, heard her husband still had a slight pulse, Wu Haiyan seemed to suddenly have a light.
But after ten minutes of rescue, the husband's chest cavity was pressed with red and purple marks.
There were still no good signs, the nurse said, and there was no possibility of survival anymore.
Wu Haiyan instantly felt that the sky had fallen, there was no husband, and now she was still pregnant with two people's children, what should she do?
02
The mother's family advised her to beat up the child, and having this child is a burden for her, hoping that her daughter will not delay her future because of the child.
Wu Haiyan had just lost her husband and was deeply saddened.
Although she also knew that if she gave birth to this child, her future road would be very difficult.
But she chose to give birth anyway.
Because she loved her husband so much, her husband used to be very good to her, and when he was there, she was the little princess.
All the expenses of the family, water and electricity, loans, etc. are the responsibility of him alone, she is just a beautiful little princess.
Looking at the crystallization of the love between the two and thinking of the kindness that her husband had done to herself, how could she bear to beat up their children.
So she chose to give birth to a child.
She knew that the road ahead must be full of thorns, but she chose to go on resolutely.
It is said that only by seeing the truth in hardship can we see people's hearts, and those very good friends who once played have gradually moved away from her.
Because she was afraid that she would borrow money from them, Wu Haiyan saw this and had a complicated heart.
It is better to rely on others than on herself, and not long after the birth of the child, she chose to go out to work.
Every day at five or six o'clock to go to the dock, choose seafood, pull back to set up stalls.
It was hard, but she was willing to endure it all for the sake of her children.
Later, because of self-media, her life changed completely.
03
With the popularity of self-media, Wu Haiyan also came into contact with this industry, she set up stalls during the day and went home at night to live sell goods.
More and more people learned about her deeds and felt that she was pitiful.
Wu Haiyan has a fan base, many fans spontaneously want to raise money for her to repay the loan, dozens of hundreds of red envelopes, but Wu Haiyan feels that everyone's money is not blown by the wind.
Declining the money, she felt that she still had to rely on herself.
Now she relies on live streaming to sell goods, not only to support herself and her children, but also to repay the loan.
Those who once looked down on her and laughed at her also looked up to her.
Although her future path is still unknown, it may be full of difficulties.
But I believe that with her spirit of not being afraid of losing, not being afraid of being tired, and moving forward bravely.
The god of luck must have taken care of her.
Fate has given us a bad deck of cards to play different cards in each person's hand.
People who do not accept defeat can play this bad card very well.
Those who are willing to be arranged by fate, those who do not know how to fight back, may have been living unsatisfactorily.
If it were you, what would you do?