"Therefore, I especially disagree with Teacher Shao Gang's point of view." At the scene of the show, I stood up and spoke, and for a moment, I said my point of view. Why do I say that? Look down...
On January 12, "The test is not good, it doesn't matter? In the last week of recording, my wife and son, and I were honored to come to the scene as a participating family to shoot. For the first time in my life, I participated in a variety show, to be honest, my heart was still a little nervous, I had lectured in front of thousands of people, and I had made a speech on the same stage with the ambassador, or I was a bit untouched.
Live filming of the show
In order to catch up with the recording time, we had to get up at 5 o'clock and take the crew bus to the recording site to make up and change clothes. It was not yet dawn, and when it was half past five, I woke up the baby who was sleeping hazy, and although the father was reluctant, he couldn't do it.
Sleepy-eyed baby, after arriving at the scene, smoothly finished makeup, took a good makeup photo, and the small energy was basically used. When it was time to enter the studio video, I saw that his upper and lower eyelids had begun to fight. Plus the children stay in the room, the temperature is also very high, indirectly stimulating his drowsiness, haha, the video of the day, he is not less than the whole moth (wait until this episode is broadcast, you can see, now can not be revealed in advance, forgive Ha ~).
The two of them were interviewed in the early stages
The recording process of the program, I believe that everyone who has watched the program can understand it, right? After the participating families entered the scene, the host Zhang Shaogang and Yang Qin and Chen Ming appeared on the scene to open the official chapter of this "three levels" program.
The first level: written test answers, the second level of children grab, dad answer, the third level of high-stage duel, the program process is not complicated, the process is ups and downs, colorful, dads a variety of strange answers, teasing hosts, guests, mothers and the audience laughter continuously. Ice? Haha, non-existent.
Son and little friend (girl pose is 666)
Again, the episode we participated in did not air, so the specific details can not be said (this is discipline), what can be said is that my precious son shed tears during the recording process, and many other children could not help but cry, after all, father and son (father and daughter) are deeply in love.
Teacher Zhang Shaogang said several times in the recording of the program, "Boys, don't cry" (whether it is a man, or a boy I can't remember clearly, in short, the meaning is no different). This point, to be honest, I deeply disagree, why can't boys cry? The tears that flow from the eyes represent the flow of inner emotions.
Looking at the stage from the perspective of the players, it goes like this
As a parent, in the face of children's emotions, the way to use is to channel, not block. Not allowing children to express their emotions in a reasonable way is not conducive to the growth of children. As an educator, I couldn't be clearer. After the emotional expression, the child's mood can naturally be calmed, and no matter what problems to be solved between parents and children, it will become easier.
So, when the child is crying, it is my turn to speak: I stand up, starting from the paragraph at the beginning of this article, and say my point (basically, boys have the right to cry, and if I were a child, I would want to cry in the face of the same situation, which is normal).
I was at the scene of the show, and my face looked a little big haha~
The culture of our Chinese nation, on the whole, is implicit and introverted, and does not encourage the expression of emotions. This has caused many boys to be indoctrinated by their parents when they are young, "boys can't cry". But you must know that when children are young, the first way to relieve emotions is to cry. What if you don't let him express it or teach him other ways to relieve it?
Many adult men, burdened with heavy social pressure and family pressure, have no way to express themselves in the workplace, and pretend to be strong at home, if they have a way to relieve their emotions, they will not become depressed, nor will they become hysterical and angry as soon as they are angered, and even make outrageous actions to others.
My son is taking makeup photos, so it looks quite calm
Crying can be an expression of excitement, it can be an expression of joy, but more often, it is an expression of sadness. The mood is obviously not good, but you are not allowed to cry, are you going to force your child into a corner? Young shoulders, thin bodies, should not be treated like this.
After reading the article, I hope you can also help me do a small survey and let me understand your ideas.
Should boys cry? Radio
0 people 0% should cry, crying is good for physical and mental health, but also a channel to relieve emotions
0 people 0% should not cry, even if they can't bear it, they can't cry, and they can't vote
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