Is there pure friendship between the opposite sex? Yes, but very few, and it is unattainable.
The so-called "blue face confidant, red face confidant" exists, things are rare and precious, many adult men and women, read and read love, love and love will hurt, pain will scatter.
And true friends of the opposite sex, they appreciate and cherish each other, understand and care for each other, encourage and help each other. Many times, the relationship between men and women who do not love will get along for a lifetime.
When you are happy, you will be the first to think of the other person and tell the other person about your happiness. And the other party will be happier than you, and the other party will accompany you to get excited and laugh together.
When you're sad, you'll be the first to think of each other. The other party will not grieve with you, and the other party will use a unique way to give you encouragement and considerateness, so that you feel the warmth in the care of the other party, and unconsciously smooth the trauma of your heart.
When you hurt yourself because of your stubbornness, the other party will loudly discipline you, and even scold you a few times, but you will never remember hate, and even what you experience is a warm heart.
At the same time, you will also show your sincerity and true feelings for the other party, and you will also remember everything about the other party in your heart.
The movie "When Harry Meets Sally" has a classic line
"Men and women may be friends when two people are in love, but soon they will question why they should associate with someone who can only be friends."
In essence, there is pure friendship between men and women.
Many people have had close friendships with the opposite sex.
I have a friend who calls a male friend every day, and then I wonder, and I ask her: What is the relationship between you
She told me he was my boyfriend.
Slowly, over time, a kind of dependence is formed.
This intimate relationship between the opposite sex can also have some problems, such as:
1。 Friendships between the opposite sex encounter obstacles that same-sex friendships don't encounter, for example, do they continue to maintain friendship with each other, or do they develop into love? Unlike love, friendship is not exclusive and does not include sexual implications, and the two parties are equal partners.
In my opinion, heterosexual friendship needs to grasp the intimacy beyond friendship. In many cases people don't turn heterosexual friendships into love, they do their best to maintain platonic partnerships. People don't want to lose precious friendships
2。 If a friend of the opposite sex has someone he loves, the friendship may be affected. In addition to intimate relationships, there are people who can provide companionship and care, which can make the lover feel uncomfortable and even hostile
I would like to remind everyone that if your blue/red confidant has someone you love, then keep your distance from him/her and consider the feelings of others