The famous actor Huang Bo once said that when you are strong, there are good people around you; when you are weak, there are some bad people around you, which is quite philosophical. In the journey of our lives, flowers and applause may not be remembered very deeply, but what hurts the heart is the patience and rise when we are down. Those days that live like dark days, what supports us is the positive attitude and firm belief.
1. Blessed by misfortune. The ancients were cloudy, blessed and woeful, and woeful and blessed. The ancients understood the dialectics of life, and saw the element of luck in the misfortune, which had to be very open-minded! Saion lost his horse, and he knew that it was not a blessing. Lost a horse, brought back a few ponies, lost and regained, and there was a bigger surprise. Stories are just stories, really come to themselves, such as the loss of the car, who can think of what blessing will come? But there is a friend in the village, and he is so lucky! His car was lost, looking around, and later found the car in a ravine, it was unrecognizable, the thief died on the spot, and later when the insurance company identified it, the brake tubing of the car had been ruptured, resulting in the destruction of the car. This friend was scared in a cold sweat, if this car is not lost, drive up the mountain by yourself, maybe your life is gone, this lost car also lost a life, you say is not very lucky? Thousands of things in the world, in addition to life and death, other are small things, neighbors to Zhengzhou to buy a house, paid a deposit of 20,000 yuan, but regretted it, the result of 20,000 yuan in vain, the family heartache can not eat and sleep well. But the house sold at home sold for 30,000 yuan more, and it seems that the 20,000 yuan should not be lost. If we always have the mentality of blessing from misfortune, then all the unsatisfactory and troubles in life are like clouds floating around us, which will eventually drift away with the wind. Another example is that people in the unit can not be reused and excluded, dirty work and tired work to let themselves do, but the salary is not much to give, if you quit the job in a huff, you may fall into a kind of back and forth to find a job, difficult to live in the dilemma. Face the difficulties of life, strive to adapt to change, even if you suffer greater grievances, suffer greater hardships, broaden your mind, improve your ability to work, increase your own pattern, and lay the foundation for your own future take-off.
2. Suffering losses is a blessing. The ancients cloud, there will be gains if there are losses! It is often said that what is lost will come back. A person who is not afraid of losses may end up with a big light. One cannot only look at the point in the palm of one's hand, but think in many ways. Life in the world money fame and fortune, is really a thing outside the body, life does not bring, death does not bring, money is not omnipotent, but there is no money can not be, so some people aim at the small profits in front of them, because of the competition for fame and fortune and lose their inner joy, happiness, it is really not worth the loss. But the reality is always unsatisfactory, because promotions and salary increases, the search for relatives or confidants who are biased towards themselves, giving priority to those who have a relationship background, and the real honest and responsible people are not reused. So some people complain, some people sink, and the really smart people will laugh in the face of eating this loss: It is all providence, and it is a blessing to suffer a loss, who has not been wronged? Then accumulate strength, thick and thin hair, the ability to throw out a lot of people, look back, eat the loss is actually a blessing.
3. Think of danger in times of peace. When the victory of the whole country was won, some people became proud of their achievements, and the great people warned the whole party that we must maintain a modest and cautious style of not being arrogant and impatient, and we should go to Beijing to catch the examination, and we should not be the second Li Zicheng. It is precisely this mentality of thinking of danger in times of peace that makes our cause invincible. The ancients said that things must be reversed, and after the peak, it is bound to turn back and go downhill, which is the law of history, at this time we should keep a sober mind, look for new growth points, and bravely climb new peaks. For individuals, a little achievement in the workplace, promotion and promotion, can not lie on the existing merit book to enjoy the rest of their lives, otherwise the person who goes to the peak will fall more miserable, only continue to work hard, sincere fear, every day like an ant on a hot pot, and like a diligent little bee, can match your virtue, in order to go higher and farther.
It is not easy for people to live, and it is even more difficult to live well. Not only do you need to be wise and capable, but you also need to have a good mindset. A person with a bad mentality cannot control his emotions, and a person whose emotions are not well controlled will achieve nothing in his lifetime, and even worry about his life. Mentality is the general switch of life, people with a good mentality can make their minds more sound, emotionally stable, and the road of life smoother.