The workplace is a playground, as long as you master the rules of the game, you will feel very interesting.
Today to share 3 points of "rules of the game" to everyone.
01
A person in the workplace if there is no ambition
Often nothing will be achieved
My friend recently brought a few new people under his hands, and everyone worked overtime until the early hours of the morning every day.
For about a month, she noticed that something was wrong with the new people, so she chatted with everyone.
A subordinate asked her, is it worth staying up late and working overtime? What are the beliefs that sustain you so much every day?
She said, because there are so many people in a city, the land of Shanghai that you are stepping on at the moment is the dream of countless people, there are so many people who can't come here because of various entanglements, you are so lucky to stay here, you occupy a person's dream, if you don't work hard enough, you are sorry for that person's dream, and you are sorry for the luck you got.
And, no matter how hard you try, in this city, there is always someone who works harder than you, and you are never the most broken and painful person, so what qualifications are there to say hard two words.
Another subordinate asked her again, are you not a little shaken? My roommates told me not to work overtime, they were all nine to five, and I wondered if there was any value in doing these things.
"Successful people in the workplace are often very similar, and one of their common characteristics is firmness," she said.
There are two kinds of people in the world, one is a workaholic and the other is the supremacy of Buddhist youth happiness.
No one is wrong, it's just that because the choices are different, they can't look at each other.
If you believe the other person's lies, you lose, because you become the kind of person you don't want to be, if you are firm enough, in the end the other party is either touched by your behavior and approves of your choice, or it is the road to the sky.
If your ending is the latter, then congratulations, you have finally sent away the negative energy around you and began to give your best for your choice without distraction. ”
If a person does not have ambition in the workplace, he will often not achieve something.
You have to know what you want and how to choose to give and endure for your dreams.
Challenge is cool for a while, and challenge is always cool.
When you achieve one goal after another through hard work and choice, you will feel that you are no longer working, but just playing.
Especially in the area of interpersonal communication, I think everyone is very interesting.
I've been told that when you have this mindset, everything is right.
The world has rules of the game, as long as you study the rules of this game, the whole world is yours.
02
Pattern is two words, very important
When I was in college, I broke up with a classmate in the same dormitory, and I have never had a relationship.
At that time, his temper was hard and he was afraid, and the dictionary never tolerated two words.
Whoever gave me a little anger, I immediately repaid him tenfold.
Until the day I graduated, I never felt that I had done anything wrong.
So in the end, because of his temper, he lost some of the feelings that he thought were precious in the past.
Lying on the bed in the dormitory, I heard the noisy roommate say a "pattern" to my friend at the door, and after four years, I finally had some understanding.
Character determines destiny, and pattern determines life.
To be precise.
She has always been right, so she can get what others want but can't get, such as newspaper opportunities, such as scholarships, such as teachers' favor...
Now, I'm honored to admit that I did something wrong.
All prejudices and meanness stem from the low level of cognition at that time.
Mistake the roundness for sleekness, which is extremely narrow.
When you understand the rules of the game in which the world is human, you actually win very quickly.
It's just that the strategy is there, it's easy to understand, and it's hard to unite knowledge and action.
03
If you want to ruin your future, a bad temper is enough
Controlling one's emotions is controlling the throat of fate.
A lot of emotions come from not being liked by others, not being recognized by others, and not being respected by others.
But in fact, people who are strong enough in their hearts do not care about these things at all.
A senior once said: To my state, whether you like me or not, really, it doesn't matter to me at all.
No one has to trample on me with what I care about how you feel, and once you do, I don't care about your feelings.
You don't like me, do I like you? Right? So why bother with any god for the sake of an unworthy life?
So look down, so put down, so shut up.
Want to ruin your life? It's enough to try a bad temper.
I tried and it was ruined quickly.
Bad temper for a while, bad temper has always been unlucky.
Looking at others now, this is the truth.
If you want to give yourself a little excitement in life, don't try.
I am Bai Xiaobai, focusing on career counseling for women in the workplace, welcome to pay attention to the public name: Bai Xiaobai Online.