There was a joke on the Internet: "I have watched "Eagle Hero" to know that love is ageless; after watching "Brokeback Mountain", I know that love is gender-neutral; After watching "Man's Ghost Love", I know that love is not divided into life and death; After watching "Transformers", I know that love is not racial. ”
Ruxian Guli is a Uyghur girl, he is a Han boy Jing Xuejun, she married him, since then she gave herself a new name Li Na.
In Manggubrak Village, Sanbao Township, Gaochang District, Turpan City, Jing Xuejun and her wife Ruxian Guli performed a love story that did not distinguish between regions and ethnicities.
"Last Mile" (id: mqmsmx) reporter Ma Qing correspondent Li Mei reported
A Tale of Love Adventures
Jing Xuejun is an ordinary villager in Mangulak Village, because of his physical illness and his family's poor economic situation, he is the target of the working group of the Agricultural and Guangdong School in Gaochang District, Turpan.
Before the visit, I heard from neighbors that Jing Xuejun's family had a Uighur daughter-in-law. We came to his house with curiosity, and sure enough, as soon as we entered the door, we saw the Uighur daughter-in-law. When I first saw her, she had a slightly chubby figure, a shy smile on her slightly rough face, and waved at us with her fat son in her arms.
Happy RuXian Guli and son
Ru Xianguli is a college student graduated from Xinjiang Institute of Technology, his family is in Wusu City, and after graduation, he opened his own storefront in Wusu, and his family conditions are very good. But if this is the case, how can you marry a sick husband and stay in this poor family?
Under our questioning, Ru Xianguli told her story: In August 2008, it was the most disappointing time in Jing Xuejun's life, because he was hospitalized for intractable intestinal obstruction and emotional setbacks, which made him lose confidence in life. But a wrong phone call changed his life.
Mr. and Mrs. Jing Xuejun and their family
That day, he accidentally dialed a wrong phone, and the yin and yang mistakenly called the Uyghur girl RuXian Guli who was far away in Wusu, listening to her gentle voice, Jing Xuejun somehow trusted this girl he had never met before, and began to tell his various misfortunes like a poured bean. The kind Ruxian Guli has a heart of gold, and she comforts him and encourages him.
In this way, through a long telephone line, the two began their emotional journey. Finally, Jing Xuejun couldn't contain his inner desire to go to Wusu to visit the girl he had wanted for a long time. At the moment of meeting, the two actually had the feeling of seeing each other and hating each other, and soon established a romantic relationship.
The Jing Xuejun family and the working group together
Stealing out the hukou is only to marry you
Just when the two are immersed in a sweet love, Ru Xian Guli's father is furious after learning about their love affair, resolutely disagrees with this relationship, and must break up the couple!
In May 2010, the power of love made Ru Xian Guli resolutely decide to marry Jing Xuejun against the pressure of her family. Fortunately, her brother-in-law understood them and stole the family account book to help the two young people who loved each other, so that they could get the marriage license as they wished.
Ru Xian Guli and Jing Xuejun's wedding ID photo
After marriage, Ruxian Guli followed Jing Xuejun to Mangkubrak Village, and when she saw the destitute home, she did not waver, and she also gave herself a Han name- Li Na, and since then she has taken root here without complaint.
I never regret it
In 2011, Jing Xuejun's illness recurred again, and the family could no longer withstand any wind and rain. Strong daughter-in-law Li Na approached the media for help, and after a period of fundraising, many well-meaning people reached out to the couple. After the operation, Jing Xuejun gradually recovered his health under the careful care of Li Na. Their lives have crossed another hurdle.
RuXian Guli was with her mother-in-law, husband, and sister-in-law
This marriage was also not accepted and blessed by the people around him. A group of Uighur villagers in the village, knowing the situation, actually broke into Li Na's home and scolded her viciously and asked her for divorce.
There is also a boss with good conditions who asks Li Na to leave this poor home and live a good life with him. Li Na couldn't help but start to cry when she said this, leaving her hometown and being criticized. I can only tell my husband. Coupled with family difficulties, the eldest child was also sent to her brother's house in Wusu for foster care, and she missed the child very much.
We can't help but ask her, have you ever regretted having suffered so much? She wiped her tears and smiled and said, "Never regret it!" Although she lives in poverty and her husband is sick and cannot do heavy work, the people in the family are good, take care of her in life, respect her living customs, and the people around her also take good care of her. (Working Group of Agricultural and Guangdong Schools in Gaochang District, Turpan City)
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