The eternal "Jing brother" Huang Rihua, in the past year, has suffered from the pain of bereavement, although his wife Liang Jiehua has been dead for a year, but every corner of the home is filled with the memories of the two couples, for Hua Ge, even seeing a familiar cabinet is enough to cause him pain.
A few days ago, Huang Rihua accepted the invitation of Li Zhishan to participate in tvb's new healing interview program "One-on-One", it is reported that the guests in each episode of the program are singles, including Li Zhishan herself, and there is no emotional life, so the name of the program is called "one-on-one".
Huang Rihua is the guest of the first episode, while accepting an interview with Li Zhishan, he also shared his single life with the audience, saying that he has come out of the haze of widowhood and slowly began to adapt to life without a wife.
Liang Jiehua died in May last year, at first, Hua Ge was unwilling to accept reality, even if he tried to cheer up and handle the aftermath for his wife, but when he returned home and faced the memories of the past alone, sadness would come to his heart, and it was difficult to suppress pain and tears.
Some time ago, on the eve of Father's Day, the Hong Kong media photographed Huang Rihua and the only daughter Huang Zhiqing visiting the mall, the two fathers and daughters had a tacit understanding, first went to the supermarket and then went to the clothing store to buy clothes, after Liang Jiehua's death, Hua Ge and his daughter relied on each other for their lives, supported each other through the darkness.
In the program, Hua Ge revealed to Zhi Shan that he and his wife left a lot of memories and footprints in Kowloon City before, even though the happy times of the past can no longer be reproduced, but now when revisiting the old land, they will try to recall happy things, "We must know how to put it down and accept the facts!" ”
Huang Rihua constantly encouraged himself, and for the first time, he revealed that in the early days of his wife's death, he could not accept the facts and his life underwent a major transformation.
"My wife was sick for a long time, and in the final stage, I wanted to take care of her 24 hours a day, when I just knew that I couldn't lose her, and suddenly one day, she left, and I didn't seem to have a goal, and I didn't know what to do today..."
When handling the aftermath for his wife, Huang Rihua did not have time to think about the fact that "his wife was not there", but when everything was done, he suddenly found that there was too much time, and the person he most wanted to take care of was no longer there.
"I think of her when I see the bed at home, I think of her when I see the closet, I think of her when I see the photos, I can't control my mood, I've been in a depressed state..."
To this day, Huang Rihua mentioned that his wife still couldn't help but blush and choked up to say her pain before her death.
"I watched my wife's willpower gradually disappear, she said before she died, 'I don't want to die', I saw that it was really heartache, I thought while chanting, Heaven let my wife get better, let me bear the pain, it doesn't matter if I have a short life of ten or twenty years..."
Hua Ge was most afraid of losing his wife, but this eventually happened, and he had to force himself to face it.
"When I woke up, I found that there was no one around, and at that moment, I really realized that my wife was no longer around, and I wanted to cheer up and live another life."
With the help of friends from all sides, Huang Rihua gradually came out of the haze, and now he does not have the courage to start a new relationship, but his life is already on the right track, and perhaps in the near future, he will be able to return to filming and communicate with fans with his works.