—— Hot bowl of miso soup overnight
A very good friend is getting married, and seeing that good things are approaching, he began to be depressed, and he said quietly: The wolves on the grassland have no food, they can still run freely, and now they are going to be locked up in the zoo.
Little Z comforted him and said, "If you don't eat, you won't be happy for long."
There may be many people like him who have premarital phobia, and they have not figured out why they are married, what marriage is, and they are so confused and "married".
After watching more and more pseudo-struggle films, all of them breathe out of their nostrils, either they have a very high self-esteem, or they see people as useless.
After watching too many Korean dramas, Mary Sue can't smell vinegar and oil, either leftover, or there is a deep trepidation about marriage.
Obviously, this is a disease, and it has to be cured.
When I grew up and fell in love, I asked my lover, "What's ahead?" Will rainbows appear day after day? ”
The lyrics are from "My Neighbor Yamada Jun", one of Ghibli's few works by Ichii Michi, about the life of a Japanese family.
"Protagonist"
Yamada Jun, a very ordinary office worker, like us, runs and toils every day for poor wages, unpaid mortgages, and the expenses of a large family.
His wife Matsuko, is a full-time wife, no one yy big legs and looks, wide body fat forgetfulness and often love to steal a little lazy, just like her around us, not amazing, but amazing real.
"In the Same Boat"
The combination of the two of them, enjoying the scenery less, experiencing more wind and rain, the wind and waves are too large, and the boat has to be repaired. Wind and rain, hold your hand, it is not hard. How can the so-called marriage not experience something together?
After the calm of the wind and waves, the most beautiful harvest came, they had a pair of children, son Ah Sheng and daughter Nonoko, relieved, hard work is also sweet.
「Miso Soup」
The children grew up slowly, and there were more growing troubles, Mrs. Yamada was tired of taking care of her two children, and her husband seemed to care less, and the overnight leftover miso soup could also make up for a breakfast.
Love, just like Mrs. Yamada's hot pot, there are more and more dishes, you have to add soup, add soup, the taste is getting lighter and lighter.
Haiku, Japanese poetry, is like a little MSG, giving this pot of bland white soup a little flavor
At night, Yamada came back drunk from outside, Matsuko didn't say anything, handed her husband a banana, poured a cup of hot tea, Yamada ate while talking drunk, Matsuko sat next to Yamada quietly watching TV, slowly Yamada fell asleep, leaving only the voice of the heroine on TV.
This scene has seen the tears, maybe Yamada is still drunk and angry at Matsuko's coldness, I don't know that there has always been a person outside the dream who understands your heart, knows cold and warm, and accompanies each other.
It's like a bowl of miso soup that has been overnight, and when it's cold, it's hot.
"Grandma"
Matsuko's mother is an old grandmother, and her usual hobby is to teach Yamada lessons, or watch Matsuko and Yamada jokes, and even two people can enjoy watching the remote control. It is said that such an old lady who can open her heart to herself has not been able to live and die, and after saying goodbye to an old friend who has a terminal illness, she is lonely in the dark.
Parting, a person to face, no one can replace or accompany, the moment Matsuko turns on the light, Grandma's state of mind is no one can understand, for Matsuko, the sun also rises.
The Masked Man
Yamada has never been a hero, so why shouldn't we be self-satisfied with mediocrity?
In the face of a brutal biker party boss, Yamada really peed, and the urine was very thorough.
The old people often say: more is better than less.
However, the good grandma and Matsuko drove away the Biker Party and clearly punched Yamada in the face. What about the head of the family?
So the masked hero in Yamada's heart appeared, and the Biker Party captured Grandma, Matsuko, A-sheng and Noko, at this time, the masked hero Yamada Jun appeared.
The hero bravely fought the bandits, and finally saved the family and hugged the beauty back. The hero returned to the moon, Yamada Jun, still sitting silly in the moonlight.
Every man in his heart is the patron saint of this family, a hero, a masked hero, and has nothing to do with the fact that he sees the underworld gangster who does not pee.
This is called responsibility.
-When I grew up and fell in love, I asked my lover, "What's ahead?" Will rainbows appear day after day? ” - My lover said: "The future is unpredictable, the world cannot be forced, the future is what it is..."
So are you ready to spend your life with such trivialities?
This is the so-called marriage, and there is usually some faint happiness, like a bowl of overnight miso soup.
This article was published by mr.j. (common id: mrxiaoz8)