When it comes to Yuan Li, many people's first impression is still stuck in the role of Du Xiaoyue in "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan".
Du Xiaoyue in the play has a beautiful appearance and a frank personality, which has left a deep impression on many people, and even many netizens regard Yuan Li as a "childhood goddess", and the only thing that makes people feel sorry is her feelings.
In reality, Yuan Li also has a bumpy emotional experience like Du Xiaoyue in the play.
Yuan Li has experienced three marriages since his debut, with a husband against Bo Gongtang, the second marriage due to the difference between China and the West, and the third marriage to an ordinary poet.
Although Yuan Li rarely appears in people's field of vision now, her marriage is still controversial.
What exactly did these marriages bring to Yuan Li? And why would she choose to marry a poet who has no money? This also begins with her experience.
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Yuan Li was born in 1973, is a native of Hangzhou girl, although she has the unique gentle and elegant beauty of southern girls, but her personality is as sharp and cheerful as the northern girls.
There are even many people who say that Yuan Li is like a boy. And Yuan Li himself said that he should have been a boy.
When she was a child, Yuan Li was lively and generous, with a cheerful personality, so she was very popular in school, she once served as a literary and art committee member in the school, and would often organize performances in major festivals.
Yuan Li was born a few years after he went to school, and when his brother was born, Yuan Li could clearly feel that his mother's attitude towards him had changed.
If there is anything delicious and delicious, give it to your brother first.
After the two quarrel, the mother will also care more about her brother. So the young Yuan Li began to secretly scold his mother in his heart for his injustice to himself, and this blame also affected Yuan Li's growth after that.
Soon Yuan Li ushered in the college entrance examination, and 19-year-old Yuan Li came to the Shanghai Theater Academy to take the exam in order to gamble.
I thought I would be able to successfully enter the Shanghai Theater Academy for study, but the invigilator was decisively refused. The reason for this is: "there is no enthusiasm for performance".
This is undoubtedly a blow to Yuan Li, who has not suffered setbacks since childhood. So Yuan Li decided even more determined to enter the acting department, and then she turned around and applied for the Beijing Film Academy.
After unremitting efforts, she was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with excellent results.
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Subsequently, Yuan Li successfully starred in the first TV series in his life, "Flying Tigers", and the shooting of this drama also meant that Yuan Li officially stepped into the film and television circle.
In 2000, Yuan Li was favored by the director of the drama "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan" and successfully played the role of Du Xiaoyue. She is paired with a famous actor known as the "Iron Triangle".
This iron triangle is not simple at all, they are all national first-class actors, and have won many awards in the project.
Zhang Guoli has played many well-known roles, and now he has begun to transform into the directing industry.
Zhang Tielin has played the Qianlong Emperor in many film and television works, so he has also been jokingly called "the emperor's professional household" by netizens.
It is precisely because of the assistance of the Iron Triangle, coupled with Yuan Li's own excellent acting skills. After the drama "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan" was broadcast, it was loved by the majority of netizens.
Yuan Li's career has also begun to enter a stage of rapid development, and he has successfully starred in many film and television works.
In the ascending stage of his career, Yuan Li met his first husband Zhao Ling and quickly married him.
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It is understood that Yuan Li and Zhao Ling's acquaintance is because of the filming of the TV series "The Colonel's Daughter", and Zhao Ling plays the role of the second male in the play.
At that time, Yuan Li was already famous for a while, but Zhao Ling was a newcomer, and many people were not optimistic about this relationship. Yuan Li, who fell in love, in order to please his boyfriend, not only personally contributed money, but also recorded songs for him and released an album.
And Zhao Lin was also strongly admired by Yuan Li, and gradually gained a bit of fame.
In 2005, the two officially entered the palace of marriage. However, after marriage, many problems broke out between the two, because the two themselves were in the position of strong women and weak men.
After some tossing and turning, Zhao Ling's career did not have a big improvement, and when he saw Yuan Li mixing up in his career, he himself began to become anxious.
As the gap between the two widened, the topic between the two began to become less and less. In order to get rid of the depression in his heart, Zhao Ling began to drink heavily, and Yuan Li, who was busy with his career, could not take too much care of his emotions.
Seeing that her husband was so unenterprising, Yuan Li lost patience even more, so he proposed a divorce to him.
And Zhao Ling was also full of dissatisfaction with Yuan Li, openly insulting Yuan Li, saying that she did not want to have a third party in her face, touching her own bottom line.
In the end, the two confronted Bo Gongtang, and the marriage ended in a hurry in the extreme anger of the two.
This marriage is very deeply harmful to both of them, and many people call it a bad relationship. After the divorce, Yuan Li also entered a long period of depression, but fortunately, Yuan Li still believes in love.
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Not long after the divorce, Yuan Li met her second husband, Lin Bowen. He is a Canadian and ceo of Lehman Bush.
After the two knew each other for 4 months, both sides identified each other as their other half, so Yuan Li once again chose to flash marriage.
After marriage, Yuan Li followed Lin Bowen to live in Silicon Valley in the United States.
When he first got married, Yuan Li often went in and out of various occasions with Lin Bowen in public, participated in variety shows together, and did some sweet interactions. But married life is not as simple as it seems.
With the development of time, the differences between Chinese and Western cultures have gradually emerged. Americans value personal independence, while Chinese are more concerned about the relationship between husband and wife.
When Yuan Li first came to Silicon Valley, due to the language barrier, she had a very hard time doing anything. She not only needs to buy her own vegetables, but also needs to learn her own driver's license and find a place to live.
So Yuan Li asked Lin Bowen for help, but Lin Bowen thought that these things were all things she should do herself.
In the process of getting along between the two, Yuan Li will always unconsciously care about Lin Bowen, and from time to time she will ask him if he is hungry and remind him to add clothes.
But Lin Bowen believes that these are my own affairs, he can do a good job himself, and he does not need people to care.
Once Yuan Li fell ill and was hospitalized, so he called her husband Lin Bowen and hoped that he could take care of himself. However, Lin Bowen believes that there will be doctors and nurses in the hospital to take care of him, and there is no point in him going.
This attitude of his was very incomprehensible to Yuan Li, who had received traditional Chinese etiquette since childhood, so the two often quarreled, even cold war.
It is this cultural difference that makes the two suffer a lot, and finally choose to divorce.
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After experiencing two failed marriages, Yuan Li no longer has the hope of a beautiful and happy marriage. So she pinned her hopes on religious beliefs and carried them forward through charity.
Yuan Li once said in the interview process: "Everyone must have a heart of great love, and only with great love can we obtain the salvation of life." ”
Yuan Li, who is enthusiastic about charity, often does a lot of things himself and shows his love to the outside world with practical actions.
When people mentioned feelings, Yuan Li replied like this: "Feelings cannot be forced, just go with the situation." Keep a flat mindset and live your life well. ”
Just when netizens were worried about Yuan Li's love life, another piece of news detonated the whole network.
On March 25, 2019, 46-year-old Yuan Li showed her love in a high-profile manner on Weibo, and also posted her marriage ID photo with a man and a sweet kissing photo.
Then netizens pulled out, this man is named Liang Taiping, he is a poet, 11 years younger than Yuan Li.
Sure enough, this is a proper sister-brother love, although Yuan Li's previous marriage objects are also sister-brother love, but compared to the previous two marriage partners, this marriage object is too mediocre.
Many netizens are worried about whether Yuan Li's choice is correct.
In the face of netizens' doubts, Yuan Li's attitude is very resolute. And in the Weibo posted their marriage rings with their husbands, we can see that inside the wedding rings, there are two names engraved.
According to Yuan Li: "By engraving the names of two people inside the wedding ring, we can strengthen the faith and determination of the two people to be together." Since both were Christians, they took the biblical covenant as a wedding vow.
In the eyes of outsiders, this marriage is very unequal, but in fact, the relationship between the two is very stable. Compared with Yuan Li's previous married life, she is indeed living very stable now.
In the previous life of the rich, her material satisfaction was great, but the gap in her heart could not be filled with money.
And Yuan Li herself does not belong to people who value money too much, compared to money, she values pure heart and simple feelings more.
In an interview, Yuan Li publicly said: "Many people think that my lover did not give me enough money, which I admit.
Although our lives were not so rich, he gave me a lot of support spiritually, which was a kind of salvation for me. And we also have the same three views, and I feel very satisfied with him. ”
After all, when people try to live many kinds of lives, they will find out what is the most precious, perhaps for Yuan Li, ordinary days are the happiest.
Now Yuan Li's life is very ordinary, and he often does public welfare activities with Liang Taiping to take care of young children and seriously ill patients. And Liang Taiping is also very intimate with Yuan Li, often helping her to lift things and take care of her life.
They live ordinary lives like ordinary couples. Compared with the endless intrigues and personal grievances in the entertainment industry, how is ordinary and ordinary happiness bad?
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Marriage is like a big gamble for anyone, if you don't figure out what you want, you quickly enter the marriage, it is not responsible for yourself, but also not responsible for others.
If you want to achieve happiness, you first need to clarify your own needs and have your own criteria for judging happiness.
For different people, there are many different criteria for judging happiness: some people think that poor couples are sad, and some people think that sentient drinking water is full.
No matter what kind of happiness standard, as long as you choose to fight according to what you want, you can get a wonderful life. Finally, we also send deep blessings to Yuan Li and hope that she can be happy forever.
Now Yuan Li's first husband, Zhao Ling, has also gained a new love affair in 2012, and has also voiced the Guojun Wang in Zhen Huan's biography, and has also achieved good development in his career.
Her second husband is still alone, but he always thinks that Yuan Li is a good woman and openly supports Yuan Li.
To this day, we rarely see Yuan Li on the screen, and Yuan Li's most recent appearance was at the recording site of the "Birth of an Actor", which is a variety show with strong influence.
The main purpose of Yuan Li's participation in the program is to publicize public welfare undertakings and call on people to pay attention to pneumoconiosis patients. However, she was helplessly edited by the program team, which seriously damaged her own image.
Yuan Li himself has spoken out, but the program group has expressed objections to this. What do you netizens think about this matter?