Share two interesting things, one from a long time ago and one from a few days ago.
A long time ago, I was sitting idly in the park, and several mothers were playing with their children of a few years old. Two of them felt better, with one of the children sharing their toys with the other to play with. But not long after playing, the child who played with someone else's toy accidentally broke the toy. And it seems that he is also aware of the problem, almost subconsciously blurting out "sorry". The child sharing the toy seems to be in a state of disbelief, and the toy seems to be his favorite, and the child feels like crying in an instant. Who knows, but the child's mother said to the child, "Others say sorry, what should you say?" The child nodded and said, "It's okay." But I turned my head and cried out. At that time, I felt that this child might not know what "it doesn't matter" meant, let alone what these three words meant, but was just a mechanical answer to education.
And the most recent thing is even more interesting. The same children playing together, the same broken toys, the same broken toys of the children said "sorry", the same sharing of the toys of the children's mother also said "others say sorry, what do you say?" In this case, the difference is that the child immediately angrily said to his mother, "Why should I say it doesn't matter?" How come it doesn't matter if he breaks my toy? ”
Oh, it turns out that the child also knows that some things are not someone else's apology, I really don't care.
