Wife Runner", I still heard about it for the first time. The increase in wives and runners reflects a social reality and also reveals the embarrassment of some people in rural areas. When will the countryside become the rich land that everyone yearns for, and the dreams of countless young people? At that time, whose daughter-in-law will take the initiative to escape?
The environment reflects some phenomena. The just-released census data shows that there are 35 million more men than women. This means that there will be 35 million men who will become single dogs, and which male head will be the turn, which is a high probability event and a dynamic self-adjustment process.
In the same way, today you married a daughter-in-law, if you do not manage it well, there are many temptations from the outside world, the seduction of other men, and even the best daughter-in-law will have a time when she cannot hold on. If she is restless and job-hopping, she becomes a wife. No matter how it changes, excellent men, there will be no shortage of women around him.
Some people always complain about society, believing that the reasons for the formation of the wife-running family are attributed to rural poverty, sexual openness, material desire, etc., and beat it into the social level and moral level, in an attempt to make women comply with the "three from four virtues", to restrict women's freedom, and to regulate women, which is unfair.
The wife running man should take the initiative to find the reason from himself.
From the perspective of gender equality alone, social development is mainly dominated by men. The wife run happens to be the process of women's re-selection of men, which is the result of the development of feminism and cannot be evaluated on a moral level.
There is nothing wrong with men having money, and how much money they have does not represent men's ability, but it does represent men's wealth and strength. I am not a money worshipper, and under the same conditions, if you have no money, many practical difficulties and ideals cannot be overcome or achieved by women alone.
There was a project where I hired a driver.
He is from the countryside, in his 30s; there are already two boys, the eldest 7 years old and the youngest 5 years old, and the children are lively and cute. Asking about his family was overshadowed. What is puzzling is that his daughter-in-law, when her second child was 2 years old, went to the south to work and never came back!
The two children have no mother, and at a young age, they have experienced the departure of family affection and the misery of the world. The man has to earn money to support the family, and the child is thrown to his grandfather to take care of.
Locals say the local atmosphere is bad.
A winery feeds tens of thousands of people, a bottle of wine sells thousands of pieces, a girl who steps on the song earns tens of thousands of dollars a month, and after working in it for a few years, their concept of marriage is brainwashed; when they first got married, the sea oath mountain alliance immediately collapsed.
As the driver of the project department, he exposed many of his shortcomings and made several moths, which made people cry and laugh.
At that time, the management project department was renting a yard in the town, a guesthouse-style, winding path, and a good environment. The owner of the yard is more than 70 years old, also old and improper, and is interested in the sister-in-law; he has always let the sister-in-law help him take care of the yard.
The driver man is brainless, sending a message to his sister-in-law in the middle of the night, and one night he wants to invite the male protagonist's sister-in-law to the foot bath shop. The 70-year-old male protagonist, the sister-in-law also has to be about 50 years old, you a man in his 30s wants to ask her to wash her feet, of course she is willing to go.
But this made the old man know.
That night, the old man and the sister-in-law quarreled. In the early hours of the morning, the sister-in-law took her luggage and slammed the door. ，
The old man became angry with the driver man.
The next day he angrily told me to get rid of the driver.
The driver man is really not a good worker. When picking up the plane, it is always customary to let the leader go to him, rather than going to the exit gate to meet him or help with luggage.
Later, he was often restless in driving, and after a car accident, the company took the opportunity to terminate the labor relationship with him.
Therefore, such men are generally lazy and lazy, and are reluctant to do anything other; their minds are simple and cannot be trusted.
In the workplace, he can do this; in the family, he will also be like this, it is difficult to take on the full responsibility of a family, leaving his wife insecure.
When his wife left him, it was a matter of course
Every time I go back to the village, the word in my ears is who is divorced again, whose wife has run away with someone else!
Why are the wives and wives increasing year by year?
A lifetime of marriage is becoming more and more precious in this society.
30 years ago, open thinking and economic prosperity were the objective conditions for the change of rural people's thinking; in the past 20 years, the Internet of Things, self-media, and high housing prices have all affected the thinking and pursuit of rural people.
Poverty is not the only reason for the increase in wives and wives, and the temptation of money is definitely a factor affecting the stability of marriage.
Men whose families are poorer and have more difficulty increasing their incomes suffer the most from their wives. The wife runs away and is deceived by the woman until the bottom of the house is hollowed out.
The uncle of the neighboring village, born in 69, was a bit drifty when he was fit to marry, and missed the normal marriage match.
At the age of 30, the family changes, and it is more difficult to find a daughter-in-law. With the help of relatives and neighbors, he found a second marriage in a neighboring village and took a daughter. Not long after, he hated to take the child, slapped people's faces all day long, and within 2 months of his family, the young daughter-in-law took her daughter away from home.
The heart is higher than the sky, and the life is thinner than paper.
His mother was in her 70s, and her son could not find a daughter-in-law, and she did not believe in this evil!
After being introduced by a matchmaker, a Sichuan girl was found. It is said that 30,000 yuan was given to his relatives; in the nineties, 30,000 yuan was not a small number. After a few years, after eating and wiping out his savings, he said that he wanted to go back to his mother's house, but this time, he never came back.
The neighbor said that the wife had been beaten by someone, and it was certain that the rabbit's tail could not grow.
Wife runner, this daunting word, how many men have broken their hearts!
Men tend to think of their backs and attribute resentment to social ethos!
The root cause is that marriageable women are scarce, men are the market for women to choose, and men can only choose from them, with no room for bargaining.
Within the framework of the law, the wife running clan can stimulate the fighting spirit of men; natural selection, excellent men find a daughter-in-law, and it is also another form of contribution to the evolution of the human race!
Saying this may be unfair to some men and arouse their resentment.
In fact, society is like this, with the increase of openness, the further development of the economy, women's ability to choose the future independently and autonomously will be stronger.
It's a trend that you accept or don't accept, it's coming!
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