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There is a saying: "Women are afraid of the noon of birth, men are afraid of the night of the night", many ancients are very concerned about such a statement, and they are even more convinced of it, the reason is that the ancients paid great attention to the two sayings of "yin and yang" and "birthday", and some birthdays and yin and yang will be mutually exclusive, and the two are contradictory.
The specific connotation of this sentence is: girls should not be born at noon, that is, between 11:00 and 12:00 noon, because according to superstition, the sun is shining directly at this moment, the yang is very heavy, and the girls represent "yin qi", so the two will make a mistake, and then it will bring them a bad impact. Boys are not born in the night, referring to the time from 11 p.m. to 1 a.m., the reason why it is not good is because the boy represents "yang qi", and at this moment, the birth will be in conflict with the whole, so it will be considered very unlucky, which is why the ancients cared about the birthday time.
But what the helper wants to correct is that there is no reliable scientific basis for this proverb, which is just a more superstitious statement. Although if a child also has the best period of birth, when is the baby born the most blessed? After reading these situations, you will know.
The "child-appropriate" age of both spouses
Everyone wants to have a healthy baby, but fulfilling this dream requires a big premise: both parents are healthy. The best age for women to have children is between 25 and 30 years old, and the best age for men to have children is between 28 and 35 years old, there is not much difference between the two, remember not to be too early, too young is not appropriate, and too old is likely to increase the probability of fetal malformations, and the consequences will be very serious.
Spring or autumn
Among the four seasons of the year, the best seasons are not "spring" and "autumn", because these two seasons are not hot and cold, if born in winter and summer, adults and children also have to suffer from severe heat and cold, which is not a good choice.
In view of this, if the situation allows, the helper mother recommends that you look after the day when you are trying to conceive, and it is best to be able to meet spring or autumn when you give birth after October.
When the husband is not busy
In some families, husbands are always busy, and even when their wives have children, they don't have time to be around.
It should be known that in the two special periods of labor and just childbirth, women need to be taken care of the most, and if the role of the husband is not played well at this moment, it will be easy to have many problems.
When the economic strength is better
From pregnancy to the birth of the child, until a long time after that, it takes a lot of money, raising a child needs to have material support as a support, otherwise you will feel very uncomfortable, the pressure is so great that you can't breathe, so try to choose to have a baby under the condition that the economic strength is still good, so it will be much better, you can avoid the pressure of "raising a baby" brought to you by all aspects of life.
Do not go to the superstitious "women are afraid of giving birth to noon, men are afraid of midnight" this sentence, just mentioned these four points is the best time to give birth to a baby, such a statement has scientific basis. Having a child is a big thing, the whole process of conceiving life is very great, not casually playing, help your mother suggests that you make a more careful choice when considering these points.
I am a helper mom, a senior nurseryman, to help you solve the troubles on the road with your baby
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