Thank you for loving the days
Author: Yang Jinfeng
Colleagues have been sullen and unhappy in the unit these days, with a bitter and vengeful look. As soon as she was idle, Mo complained to everyone, saying that her husband had made business, earned some money, and had a hard waist, and quarreled with herself every day for divorce. Mo said that if her husband had not been stalking her and chasing her, she would not have married such a person at all, and said that she had never loved her husband. While complaining to everyone, Mo also said that her husband's parents and siblings were useless.
Everyone asked Mo, since you didn't like your husband in the first place, why did you marry him? Mo said that he was confused for a while, and when he saw that his husband was chasing after him, he married him.
In fact, everyone knows Mo very well, she went to the unit as soon as she graduated, picked and chose when she was in love, and marrying her husband was also "looking for him in the crowd", which was a decision made after some deliberation. Now that it comes out of Mo's mouth, it is a bit like a blind man riding a blind horse and marrying her husband all the way in the dark.
Because Momi said that her husband's shortcomings and abominations, these words quickly reached each other's ears, and soon, Momi really divorced her husband.
Marriage is originally two unrelated people who come together because they meet, know each other, and love each other, everyone cannot be perfect, there is always something unsatisfactory. If you blindly complain and regret that you have taken the wrong path after marriage, the result can only lead to more disgust between husband and wife. If you can look at each other with a praise and gratitude mentality, and look at each other's advantages, the relationship between husband and wife can be more harmonious and more loving.
His friend Kun has worked hard in the mall to make some money in recent years, and several beautiful women in the company have shown love to him openly and secretly, and Kun has been made to be distraught and more and more dissatisfied with his wife. After some time, Kun solemnly filed for divorce from his wife, asking her to consider the division of property and fill out the divorce agreement.
The next day is the day to agree to get a divorce certificate. The first night, Kun and his friends drank a lot of wine, and woke up at dawn. His wife brought honey water and handed it to him, "Drink a cup of honey water, so that you can feel more comfortable." Kun said, I'm going to get a divorce certificate soon, don't you hate me, why do you bring me honey water? My wife said that although this love and marriage can no longer be saved, I still thank you for the days you have walked with me, so I will drink another cup of honey water that I handed you.
His wife's words touched Kun, and he took the honey water and said, "This marriage, we will not leave." If I leave, I drink too much in the future, who else would think of bringing me a glass of honey water? ”
In fact, husband and wife have lived together for many years, and the feelings will eventually return to flatness, and even boredom. If you stab each other with words without restraint at this time, it will only lead to the tragedy of marriage in the end. In other words, even if you are with another him or her, I am afraid that you will end up regretting the original result.
There are fewer complaints about partners in life, sincerely care for each other, care for each other, praise each other, and be grateful for the days that couples have walked together, only in this way will life be more loving and sweet, and the relationship between husband and wife will be more solid.
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