Do you remember Chen Yulin?
The girl who hopes to become another Xibao, with her own experience, tells everyone that not all rich people are pure love, and they pinch each other a lot for money.
Chen Yulin was pushed into prison by the other party and ended his dream of ascending to the throne.
On August 10, Chen Yulin's 33rd birthday, she sent this dynamic: "Consciously end this decade." ”
10 years of youth, finally awakened, but she is not innocent, behind the feelings, is the love and sex to take what they need.
The year he met Wu Xiubo, Chen Yulin was 18 years old.
As an adult, she has an almost blind worship of idols, and she may not have heard of Wu Xiubo's famous "three noes": no initiative, no refusal, no responsibility.
The 43-year-old Wu Xiubo is rich in experience, Chen Yulin is just a young female fan for him, and he can make the other party shout madly with just the right smile: "Too handsome." ”
Knowing that the other party has a family, he is still desperate to be with the other party.
Enjoy luxurious materials, but also long to eat and clothe worry-free.
The two finally broke down because they couldn't talk together, and Chen Yulin wrote about his experience in a long article and made it public.
Crying that he was very aggrieved, he helped the other party to be a nanny for 7 years, and also fulfilled the responsibility of his wife, and proposed sky-high compensation.
Her desire was difficult to fill, which made Wu Xiubo angry, and she cleverly set up a plan to bring back Chen Yulin and use the transfer record to send Chen Yulin in.
Chen Yulin used his youth to sound the alarm bell for all girls, a man who betrayed his family, and would not be loyal to love.
You think you're the other person's favorite, but you're just one of his full tables.
When you get tired of eating, you may even throw away the plate.
After the matter came out, Chen Yulin's parents cried foul for their daughter, believing that her daughter had paid for someone wrongly.
What's there to be wronged about?
You know each other's family situation and encourage your daughter to knock on each other's door.
Seeing her daughter enjoying the glory and wealth with her beauty, she not only did not discourage her, but also enjoyed the luxurious life brought by her daughter together.
Originally, he could have returned the money and let his daughter reduce the punishment, but he wanted to leave his daughter's money to his son, so that Chen Yulin's brother could have a relatively high starting point.
In my opinion, Chen Yulin is not aggrieved at all, and her parents are even more pathetic.
All are for the sake of money to lose the principle and bottom line of the people, with 7 years of luxury enjoyment, in exchange for Chen Yulin's 3 years of iron window tears, 10 years of youth, enough self-reflection.
There is a line in "The Severed Queen": "At that time, she was still young, and she did not know that the gifts given by fate had been secretly marked with weights." ”
Appearing in front of everyone again, Chen Yulin put on exquisite makeup and wore a pair of long earrings, as if he wanted to take the road of Internet celebrity, at least it was self-reliant, and it was also a choice.
Chen Yulin graduated from the Wuhan Conservatory of Music and has participated in the Avenue of Stars.
A talented and good-looking girl, lucky, came out of school and successfully entered the entertainment circle.
If she relied on hard work, she might have a career.
Even if you can't achieve fame and success, you can live a relatively good life with your parents, it is still achievable.
But she lost herself, based her hopes on others, and developed a habit of profligacy.
From frugality to luxury, from luxury to frugality.
If a person is accustomed to easy access, it is difficult to work hard.
The movie "XiBao", which some people think is a romantic love story, is actually a history of the fall of a girl.
Xi Bao was born into an ordinary family, and her mother tried to find a way for her to study abroad.
On a trip back to China to visit relatives, she met a rich woman who was smart, so she followed the other party to a wine banquet, and then met her wise father, who easily captured her heart with a large diamond ring.
She was immersed in a luxurious material life and no longer wanted to study, because her goal of struggle had easily come to her.
There is a "warm boiled frog effect" in psychology, a person in a comfortable and comfortable state of life for a long time, will lose the motivation to struggle, and when they realize that they are too slack, it is too late to try, and they will continue to stay in a comfortable environment until their youth is exhausted.
The same is true of Xi Bao, she gave up her studies, she slept peacefully on a lot of money, she thought she had a huge wealth, in fact, in the eyes of Wisdom, but she was an outsider in the family, and when her father died, she would naturally want her to leave.
This film has been adapted very largely, completely different from the original idea, the original author Yishu's philosophy is: "Relying on others in life, but also hoping to get the respect of others, that is an impossible thing." ”
Yishu hopes that through Xibao, more women will wake up that it is very dangerous to give up their struggle for material life.
Some girls, like the Mary Sue plot, think that Xibao is very good, met a man who is willing to pay for himself, although he is a little older, but he has a deep affection for Xibao.
People with such ideas, can only say that it is very sad, Xibao spent 5 years of youth with the old man to talk about love, gave up his studies, in addition to playing nothing, and when she goes to re-earn a living, in addition to beauty, what capital?
Chen Yulin and Xibao share common characteristics.
They believe in love and have a high pursuit of material things.
If that's all there is to it, there's no problem, the crux of the matter is that they don't want to work on their own, they want to take shortcuts.
Taking shortcuts is refreshing for a while, but it is easy to suffer endlessly.
Chen Yulin used 3 years of reflection, 7 years of pay is just a joke, the other party never admitted you, and personally pushed her into the cell.
Reality is not a movie, the movie is wrong can be restarted, once the road of life is wrong, it will become a mark in life and cannot be eliminated.
Therefore, girls, you must stay away from the man who sweetly talks but cannot give you love, and no matter how much wealth the other party has, it has nothing to do with you.
You have to believe in the weaknesses of human nature, you attach great importance to your own wealth, they have seen me deceitful, the city government is unfathomable, and is it a simple girl who can speculate?
As long as we do not have the psychology of dependence and pursue our dreams down-to-earth, we can stay away from the disaster and live the life we want.
People who work their own, although they will work hard, are very confident every day, and finally, give everyone a sentence from psychologist Christopher Meng: When we start to ask inward, happiness will really come. ”
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