The family emotional drama "Hello! "Mother Adult" is being broadcast, which tells the story of an ordinary mother and son in a small town in northern Jiangsu across the half-life trajectory of more than thirty years. In the play, Ding Biyun, played by Dong Jie, is across thirty or forty years old, switching back and forth between young girls, middle-aged women and elderly mothers, Dong Jie "dares to play the old" and completes the role with a fairly solid performance.
Dong Jie, as an actor, is still relatively outstanding, but her view of marriage and parenting is really a bit unbearable to look at.
PART1
Unhappy marriages may have been doomed from the start
Dong Jie's life is very smooth, learning to dance at the age of 10, shooting advertisements at the age of 15, and landing on the Spring Festival Gala at the age of 16. Such a resume is very wonderful, when he was on the Spring Festival Gala for the second time, he was favored by Zhang Yimou and became a "girl". From entering the entertainment industry to becoming popular, a "Golden Powder Family" completely opened her popularity.
From TV series to movies, Dong Jie has dabbled in it. When I met Pan Yueming, it was in 2005, when Pan Yueming was still a young and handsome student. The two people met and knew each other through a play, low-key love, only exposed in 2006, and they married in 2007. After marriage, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming became the envied "fairy companions" of everyone in the circle.
Show love on the show, sing love songs, affectionately look at each other, and cooperate with couples TV series. Two years later, Dingding was born, and their relationship went to a higher level, and later Pan Yueming suffered a car accident. The body was severely damaged, and Dong Jieyi did not understand the care of Dong Jie during the hospitalization, and pan Yueming secretly swore that he would make Dong Jie happy. He also thought he was lucky enough to marry the best wife in the world.
Until the "cheating door" was later exposed, the two quarreled and parted ways.
In fact, the marriage of Dong Jie and Pan Yueming has come to this step as early as when Pan Yueming proposed marriage, it was already doomed.
At that time, Pan Yueming proposed marriage, extremely casual, wearing short sleeves and shorts, so he knelt down and proposed.
Although Dong Jie agreed, she has always had a lot of opinions in her heart, and once on the show, she also said that Pan Yueming's marriage proposal was too casual. Moreover, pan Yueming rarely participated in the process of preparing for the wedding, and Dong Jie single-handedly arranged it. When Yang Lan asked this question, Dong Jie's eyes were slightly red and he smiled and said: He is too busy.
From marriage proposal to marriage, these two things have carved traces in Dong Jie's heart, plus Pan Yueming is very dependent on Dong Jie in life after marriage. Not only that, he will not be romantic, Dong Jie's appearance is very pure, but in his bones he is also a person who likes romance and formalism.
Therefore, in the backwater marriage with Pan Yueming, it is not sudden to choose and find excitement with Wang Dazhi, who can speak the Tao.
PART2
Deformed view of parenting
"Mother and son take wedding photos, mother and son kiss."
Just seeing this typography makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.
Dong Jie, a single mother, actually filmed it.
She not only put this set of "parent-child photos" on the social platform, but also said in an interview: "When you have a girlfriend after the top, you will take it out to be more beautiful than anyone." When he spoke, his eyebrows were full of love for his son.
But this love, in addition to maternal care, also has a touch of beyond the boundaries of the ingredients. Just like in the "Mother is Superman" variety show, Dong Jie and Dingding's interaction.
Dong Jie was angry, and the 7-year-old top held her head and said:
"Little baby, don't be angry, Daddy loves you."
Dong Jie stole the top snack, and her son was so angry that shed tears, but Dong Jie laughed:
"You're the top dad, I'm the kid."
Dingding socialized with other children, and Dong Jie lost her temper on the spot:
"If you don't come again, I'm going to cry."
Dingding felt uncomfortable, afraid of being seen by his mother, ran upstairs alone and secretly wiped his tears.
At the age of 7, it should be a time to be carefree and release nature. On the face of the top, there was a haze of pressure responsibility prematurely. Dong Jie once said in an interview: I hope that my son will grow up faster and can protect her.
Deep down, she was still a little girl. But the top is still a child. Even if she kisses her son hundreds of times a day, shouts "top daddy" to her son, asks her son to be by her side at all times, and hopes that her son will protect himself like a man...
Nor could he have grown up overnight. But Dong Jie has no other choice, in recent years, her drama has plummeted, single parents are bumpy, no one to rely on, too much need someone to love her.
Her son is her only sustenance, and the only person who can love her unconditionally in the days when she is not seen.
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