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"Emergency Public Relations" is popular, Huang Xiaoming's overbearing president is visual sense, Tan Zhuo's royal sister Fan, and Zhang Bo played the big villain Fang Li. Although it is a workplace drama with the theme of public relations, it also adds elements of feelings. However, the play is developed from an adult's point of view, and the emotional elements are very real.
Fang Li, played by Zhang Bo, comes from a small city and is a typical phoenix man, whose background is a bit like Zhang Anren in "Flowing Golden Years", but Zhang Anren is much brighter than Fang Li.
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In the play, Fang Li's experience is roughly like this, a few years ago Lin Zhongshuo (played by Huang Xiaoming) went to the Middle East to interview, and Fang Li got along with Lin Zhongshuo's girlfriend. Moreover, Fang Li and Lin Zhongshuo are from the same professor and are still college classmates. Later, Lin Zhongshuo came to an end because of a wrong report.
On the contrary, Fang Liyin stole Lin Zhongshuo's experience, dug his corners, and his feelings and workplaces hung all the way. Until Fang Li left the former owner because of ambition and greed, he also took the entire department and set up his own public relations company.
At this time, Lin Zhongshuo stepped out of the horse and became the head of crisis public relations of Fang Liqian's company. The two men fought in the workplace, and Fang Li was jealous of Lin Zhongshuo's strength and did something against professional ethics in private. These are all grudges between men, and they are not described one by one.
Let's mainly analyze the woman behind The Li, Zhou Xue, played by Wu Xiaoyu. She is a full-time wife who gives up everything for the sake of her family, she seems to have a happy marriage, her husband loves her very much, her father was a former university professor, and she has a smart and beautiful daughter.
So why does the audience always think that this woman is very pitiful, walking dead every day, full of sympathy for her, and also feel that this woman is hopelessly stupid and has an IQ of zero?
1, without work, there is no confidence
Zhou Xue's own conditions are very good, whether it is family background or academic qualifications, she is a very gentle woman. But this woman, who was excellent in all aspects, became a full-time wife after marriage, and on the surface, she was a woman who "married the right person". She is devoted to the Lord, the husband is outside, the two people have a clear division of labor, and they are very loving.
But in Zhou Siyuan's words, Fang Li is a scumbag, plagiarizing Lin Zhongshuo's experience, marrying her girlfriend, and making her daughter Zhou Xue a good family woman without a job.
In this way, no matter what excessive things Fang Li did, Zhou Xue would not leave him. She had no job, no ability to support herself, and was completely cut off from the outside world for all these years as a full-time wife. If you go out of the mountain again, you can only start from scratch, and you will hit your head and bleed.
Every time Fang Li went home, his attitude towards Zhou Xue could be seen, and Zhou Xue's cautious appearance showed that he had no confidence in front of her husband.
Therefore, girls, from Zhou Xue, it can be seen that without work, there is no confidence, work is the only way to support themselves, and it is also the only magic weapon to bring themselves confidence.
2, no thought, easy to be brainwashed
Zhou Siyuan had to tell his daughter Zhou Xue Fangli several times that there was a problem and let her pay attention to it herself, and Zhou Xue still fought with her father, thinking that her father looked down on Fang Li.
Zhou Xue never thought about why his father was dissatisfied with Fang Li, nor did he ever doubt Fang Li's personality. The whole world knows what kind of person Fang Li is, only Zhou Xue still said that her husband is a good man, which makes people speechless.
Fang Li returned home, and Zhou Xue told her daughter about the picture book. When Zhou Xue showed Fang Li the paintings he had drawn according to the picture book, Fang Li's face suddenly went black, and he counted Zhou Xue a few words. Next, Fang Li did not feel that he was interfering with Zhou Xue's freedom and exercised thought control on her.
The reason why the audience was most angry was that Zhou Xue did not feel the change of Fang Li after marriage. She didn't even know that she had become a thoughtless woman, and her husband would do whatever she wanted. Her husband felt that it was not good to draw, and he was angry, so she stopped painting. By what compromise is it always her?
Zhou Xue has become a thoughtless woman after marriage, and is often brainwashed by her scumbag husband, which is really pitiful.
Girls, if a man exercises thought control over you and doesn't let you have freedom, then leaving is the best option.
3) Women don't give up everything for the family
Every time Fang Li came home, he got up and went to work the next day. Zhou Xue had already gathered around the stove and made a nutritious breakfast on the table. Once, Zhou Xue made a breakfast that seemed delicious and had a high appearance, and waited for Fang Li to eat. As a result, Fang Li hurried out and did not eat a bite, obviously in Fang Li's eyes, making breakfast had become Zhou Xue's obligation.
In an instant, the expression on Zhou Xue's face changed a little, in short, that picture was painful.
After Zhou Xue got married, he completely gave up his true self and has been living in Fang Li's life, completely without his own life. Even if he found that Fang Li was a bit right, he had to run to Fang Li Company like a thief and ask questions from Fang Li's employees.
That was when Zhou Xue was the most humble, and it was also the most lonely time, and she couldn't find it when she wanted to find a friend to talk to.
Women should balance career and family as much as possible, but never give up everything for the family, otherwise when they become abandoned women, they will not have the slightest ability to fight back. On that day, when I was beaten by life, I could only cry.
4, do not marry narrow-minded men
Zhou Xue's sadness is that he married a narrow-minded man like Fang Li, a self-righteous man, and did everything he could to calculate others for everything he wanted.
Fang Li had originally plagiarized Lin Zhongshuo's foreign experience and robbed his girlfriend, and Lin Zhongshuo should be hostile to him. This thing was exactly the opposite, Lin Zhongshuo seemed to have taken away everything from Fang Li.
Fang Li poached people from a department after leaving the previous company, which was very immoral at this point, and used Wu Fang to get some news. From this point of view, Fang Li's character is very poor, obviously knowing that Wu Fang is interested in himself, he still can't draw a line, and take the little girl to hang out in his mother, isn't this to give Wu Fang a chance?
According to the current plot, Zhou Xue will definitely be hurt by Fang Li, and Wu Fang will definitely be deceived by this scumbag, and the loss is very heavy.
A woman's greatest fortune is to marry a man worth marrying, not a narrow-minded man, otherwise she will be tortured to death by this man every minute.
5) You are your own queen
Two plots can prove that Zhou Xue is very inferior, one is to see Yuan Mo in the window to deal with Fang Li's urgent matters, and the other is to ask Fang Li's subordinates whether Fang Li has a small third question.
When Zhou Xue quietly came to the law firm to find Yuan Mo, it was estimated that he understood that Yuan Mo and Fang Li were only in a work relationship. But what Zhou Xue really feels inferior is that when he came to Fang Li Company, he also asked employees in the form of begging, is Fang Li having another woman? When the words were asked to this point, and the feelings were all asked for this part, Zhou Xue still did not hear the truthful answer.
Zhou Xue can be completely domineering, no need to be so low three or four, you two are equal. In the marriage relationship, both people are tied to a rope, and she has no need to look down on herself.
Wu Fang was getting more and more rampant, and it was Fang Li who gave her a lot of strength, so this man was already a scumbag stone hammer. Pity Zhou Xue, and also deceive himself that his husband is the best man in the whole world.
Zhou Xue has the ability and conditions to be her own queen, but she gave up on herself, maybe after being beaten by life, she will become stronger.
Every woman must be her own queen, to become stronger, even if she loves each other, she must examine each other's feelings with him equally, and must not let the other party feel inseparable from herself.
Therefore, a woman's independence is your best confidence!
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