Liang Xiaosheng, a well-known writer, said: "A good man, through a good woman to a good life." ”
It is said that women are like water tenderness, and the style is whispered, like a spring wind and rain that moisturizes the lover's heart.
No matter how hard and tired you are working outside, as long as the rear is stable, men can grit their teeth and support the family.
It is no wonder that the ancients often said "marry a wife and marry a sage", a good woman can prosper for three generations.
A good woman of virtuous virtue not only knows how to honor her in-laws and elders, but also knows how to respect her husband as a guest and raise her eyebrows, and at the same time she also knows how to raise the next generation.
As the saying goes: home and everything. A family, only and beautiful, the top pillar of the family can safely break into the career, earn money to support the whole family.
On the contrary, if the family has a small quarrel for two days and a big fuss for three days, and the chickens and dogs are restless, no matter how capable the man is, it is difficult to work hard for his career, and why talk about "opening up the territory"?
And the person who can shoulder this heavy responsibility to maintain the harmony of the whole family is the hostess of the family.
As a wife, if the heart is magnanimous, then the trivial things in life often cannot set off much waves, and the family is naturally calm.
The famous red scholar Liu Xinwu once said: "Big things become small things, small things become nothing, and the party is a prosperous home." ”
This is the grace that a good woman and a good wife should have.
Of course, a good woman not only means good character, but also has a certain ability to do things, in order to protect the harmony of the family home and the family, and to assist the husband to prosper his career externally.
A little attention to the examples around you will find that all men who have a good career and good prospects have a powerful helper behind them.
In everyone's eyes, men, most of them have innate machismo, and many times for the sake of face, they often can't listen to the advice of others.
Such thinking is naturally not conducive to the smooth progress of things, even if things are done, it will consume a lot of manpower, material resources, and financial resources, which can be said to be more than worth the loss.
At this time, if there is a wise and courageous kenneth to persuade from the side, of course, men can also listen, then, no matter how big or small, the probability of contributing to it is greatly improved.
When encountering things, there is a deal of discussion, rather than obstinately, in the long run, this family is naturally gradually getting better, and then prospering.
As Liang Xiaosheng said in his essay "Lian Li: V. Qinser-like Match", "A woman is a man's decimal point, and the stage of his life she marks often determines what kind of man a man becomes." ”
Men, remember to care for and love their pillow person, treat her kindly, respect her, and understand her, you will have greater blessings and create a better life situation.
On the contrary, if a man always looks down on his own woman in his eyes, and spends all day in a commanding manner, shouting five or six, he will only squander his blessings.
A happy family requires men and women to co-create, co-create, and cherish together.
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