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Since the report of the "28 years of wrong life" incident, with the death of Yao Ce, the two things of "returning money" and "returning the house" have become the common demands of many enthusiastic netizens.
Compared with the appeal of "refunding money" and "returning the house", it seems more urgent in the current situation.
Because the house was originally Xu Min sold his school district house and paid for Yao Ce to buy it for marriage.
Xu Min, who is still renting a house outside, is not only in debt to treat Yao Ce's illness, but now he is also left with no place to live.
Logically, Du Xinzhi should return the house.
However, Du Xinzhi did not agree to Xu Min's request to return the house.
She is only willing to transfer one of the apartments in her name to her adopted son Guo Wei, but the premise is that Guo Wei will stay and give himself a pension.
At the same time, she also said that she could repay the hundreds of thousands of mortgages left in Xu Min's house.
As for Du Xinzhi's proposal, Xu Min also disagreed, and she insisted that Du Xinzhi return the house in Jiujiang, Jiangxi.
This seems to be two mothers fighting for the house and liquidating the money, but in fact, everyone must have understood it.
Xu Min asked Yao Ce to return the house in Jiujiang, Jiangxi, and Du Xinzhi said that he would transfer the house to Guo Wei's name, which were all false.
The two people secretly rubbed and competed for Guo Wei in the hope that it would be true that they would keep him by their side and live.
What they really want is not a house, but a son.
This is the "careful thinking" of the two mothers behind their respective calculations.
After all, whoever controls the house has the right to speak to Guo Wei.
And Guo Wei's own attitude towards this?
Although the two families had just met and confessed their relatives, his emotional balance was initially relatively biased towards Du Xinzhi.
However, with the death of Yao Ce, with the layers of fog of whether it is "wrong change" or "stealing change", as Du Xinzhi faces the media and the public, the statements and confessions of "the preface does not match the afterword, the logic loopholes are full of loopholes", and the whole picture of the script of "wrong change of life" is gradually clear.
And these, Guo Wei all looked at them one by one.
Now, he has his own judgment and cognition of the incident of "wrong life change", and through a series of actions, he has made a clear statement.
First of all, in the few days of the Qingming Festival, he took his wife and children, a family of four, traveled thousands of miles, to Jiujiang, Jiangxi, to worship the ancestors, reunited with his biological parents Xu Min and Yao Shibing, and officially recognized the ancestors and returned to the ancestors.
After that, back in Zhumadian, Henan, the family immediately moved out of Du Xinzhi's house and rented a house outside.
However, for his ordinary auxiliary police whose monthly salary is only 2,000 yuan, it is not a good idea to spend money on renting a house outside for a long time.
After all, the family still has a pair of young children to raise, and his wife Tian Jun (not Tian Jing) is just an ordinary nurse.
Therefore, after consulting with his wife, the two decided to buy a second-hand house in Zhumadian first.
This is the news that Tian Jun revealed in the latest live broadcast.
It is said that this small second-hand house is still Tian Jun's parents, helping to advance the down payment.
Although he currently does not have the ability to buy a large-scale new house, at least he can move out with his wife and children, leave Du Xinzhi, and live independently, which shows that even if the truth has not yet come out, Guo Wei's attitude is actually very clear.
Moreover, this truth must have already come to his heart.
However, at present, he cannot return to life in Jiujiang, Jiangxi In one step.
After all, he is not a bachelor who "eats enough for one person, and the whole family is not hungry", but a big husband with children and daughters, and a family and a room.
Relocating Jiujiang can be described as a whole body.
He had to think holistically and think long-term.
For the fact that he bought a second-hand house in Zhumadian, Henan, many netizens have commented:
Judging from everyone's words and my words, Guo Wei relied on the financial support of his parents-in-law to buy a second-hand two-bedroom small apartment in Zhumadian, which should be only a temporary measure.
Because since you want to show your "suspicious" attitude towards Du Xinzhi, it is of course the first thing to do to move out and live.
Taking the first step, the next thing to face is how to maintain the normal life of a family of four after moving out.
It is even better to live without being affected in any way than before.
This is undoubtedly a problem that Guo Wei and Tian Jun need to consider.
For them, who are not rich at present, under the premise of saving as much money as possible, having a fixed residence of their own, and ensuring the smooth enrollment of their two children at present, are the two most critical things at present.
You may ask, Guo Wei bought a second-hand house, why did he not buy it in Jiujiang, but in Zhumadian?
Of course, this is also a question in the minds of many people.
In fact, as some netizens said, buying a small apartment in Zhumadian is only temporary.
Otherwise, a family of four cannot buy a small area of second-hand houses, and it is said that it is still a small property.
To put it bluntly, it is the kind of house that belongs to the collective hukou and has no property rights, only the right to use.
In addition, people with a little economic concept will know that the difference between repaying a few thousand yuan in loans every month and spending thousands of rents every month is actually just a down payment.
In this case, the nature of renting a house and buying a house is of course completely different.
Moreover, the reason why I want to buy it in Zhumadian instead of Jiujiang is of course inseparable from the two children's schooling.
When children go to school, they naturally need their parents' local hukou, and transferring hukou does not mean that they can be transferred, and the procedures and processes are cumbersome, which can be imagined.
Even if Guo Wei can wait, the children can't wait, after all, they are already school-age children who are facing school.
Chinese there is an old saying, the golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own kennels.
Compared with living in Du Xinzhi's house, facing such a "baby stealing" suspect who is in unison by the whole country, such an adoptive mother who may have stolen her birth mother's 28 years of beautiful life,
Although the newly bought house is a little smaller, a little broken, a little older, and may not be convenient, Guo Wei is undoubtedly much more comfortable and comfortable in his heart.
However, these are only the most superficial reasons for him to buy a second-hand house in Zhumadian.
The real reason behind it must not be so simple.
It is necessary to pose so that the adoptive mother Du Xinzhi can see the doubts in her heart and tell her, "I am waiting for you to give me the answer."
Take action again, let the birth mother Xu Min see her position in this matter, let her know, "the adopted son is not retained, the biological son will definitely return to you."
And solving all this, moving out, living on your own, no one sticking, no one standing, is the best answer.
Before the truth of "stealing" really surfaced and the coffin was conclusive, in the face of his adoptive mother who had raised himself for 28 years and spent most of his life with himself day and night, Guo Wei never mentioned a word about Du Xinzhi's no.
This is morality.
Seeing that his birth mother, who had been separated from himself for 28 years, in order to raise someone else's sick son, half of his life had turned into ashes, what Guo Wei could do, in addition to heartache, was to accompany xu Min more and let Xu Min feel at ease.
This is morality.
In the face of Du Xinzhi, the adoptive mother who may have been the initiator of the "28 years of wrong life", even if the whole network criticizes her more, Guo Wei is silent throughout the whole process, resolutely not following the clouds, but also "not hurting, not slandering".
This is righteousness.
After seeing the whole picture of the matter, even if he went to live in a dilapidated house, he had to resolutely move out of his adoptive mother's house and show the posture that a seven-foot boy with an iron bone should have.
This is bone gas.
Morality and morality, these two qualities, righteousness and bone qi, these two temperaments, Guo Wei has pinched.
If du Xinzhi is really the culprit of the "stealing" when the truth comes out, then he can move his whole family to Jiujiang from the house in Zhumadian.
If Du Xinzhi was really wronged, and the "wrong exchange" of that year was really just a yin and yang mistake, then he who had never left Zhumadian and Du Xinzhi's side would not be late to move back.
This kind of operation can be described as offensive and defensive.
In this sense, Guo Wei is the one who knows how to play big chess.
Whether to cross the river, when to cross the river, how to divide the Chu River and the Han Boundary, his heart is like a mirror, Bei'erqing.
Rational and strategic, full of the temperament of a military family.
And next, what Guo Wei has to do is to stay in his "second-hand house" and wait for the truth.
Although this truth may have long lived in his heart.
But he wanted to be clear, to really hear and see.
And this, how can it not be the common wish of all enthusiastic netizens who pay attention to this matter, as well as more than a billion people.
I hope that the addition of Pan Lu in the "Mekong" case will make the truth come faster.
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