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The famous success master Napoleon, Hill believed that anyone who is more impetuous cannot make the right decision. Among successful people, basically the people are more rational and pay attention to showing people in a low profile.
The grass that swoops low as soon as the wind blows is actually weathered by wind and frost, and it has been tested countless times to make it tough and abnormal. Life is not like this. Bowing his head and bending down, protecting himself, tough can only fold faster. In real life, many people will encounter unsatisfactory things that require you to retreat temporarily, at this time, you must face reality. You know, daring to be tough is a feat. However, the arms could not twist the thighs. Insisting on holding an egg to touch a stone can only be a senseless sacrifice. At this time, you need to use another way to meet life, which is to compromise at the right time.
The Chronicle of History records the following story:
Fan Ju was originally a native of the State of Wei during the Warring States Period, and later he came to the State of Qin. He offered Qin Zhaowang a strategy of long-distance and close attack, which was deeply appreciated by King Zhao, so he was promoted to prime minister. However, his recommendation that Zheng Anping failed in battle against Zhao Guo, which made Fan Ju depressed. According to the laws of the Qin State, as long as the recommended person has a mistake, the recommender will also be punished by sitting together. However, King Qin Zhao did not blame Fan Ju, which made his heart even heavier.
Once, King Qin Zhao sighed and said, "Now there is no conscience inside and no brave general outside, and the future of the Qin State is really worrying!"
King Qin Zhao's original intention was to stimulate Fan Ju and ask him to cheer up and serve the country again. However, Fan Sui had another thought in his mind and felt very frightened, so he misunderstood the meaning of the King of Qin. Just then, a debater named Cai Ze came to visit him and said to him: "The changes of the four seasons are cyclical. Spring gives way to Xia after completing its task of breeding all things; Summer gives way to Autumn after the end of its responsibility to nurture all things; After completing the task of maturity in autumn, it gives way to winter; Collect everything in winter and give way to spring... This is the circular law of the four seasons. Now your position is under one man and ten thousand people. On, after a long time, I am afraid that there will be an accident, and it should be given to others, which is the way to protect mingzhe. ’
After Hearing this, Fan Ju was greatly inspired, so he immediately retired and recommended Cai Ze to succeed him as prime minister. This not only preserved his wealth, but also showed his generous and selfless spirit.
Later, Cai Ze took the throne and made important contributions to the strength of the Qin state. When he heard that someone had rebuked him, he did not hesitate to give up the throne of the prime minister and become the second fan ju.
It can be seen that smart and wise people will not blindly covet wealth and comfort, and at the right time, they will take the initiative to withdraw from the stage to protect themselves.
This attitude towards life is an inevitable maturity after tasting the bitterness of the world. Those who are high-minded and dismissive obviously have a limited understanding of this issue and even life, and thus show only a kind of ignorance, a kind of strength that seems to be strong and weak. True wisdom belongs to humble people.
As the saying goes, "take a step back from the sea and the sky". Retreat for the time being, recharge your batteries, wait for the opportunity, re-plan, then re-enter will be faster, better, more powerful. Sometimes, it is easier to get without deliberately pursuing, and pursuing too urgently and too persistently can only add to the troubles in vain. With soft kegang and retreat as advance, this curved way of survival is sometimes more effective than the straight line approach.