There is a saying that most people go to the grave with unplayed music. Originally you were excellent, because the negative people around you affected you, so that you lack upward pressure, lose the motivation to move forward, and become impatient. The most unfortunate thing in life: due to the lack of positive people around you, the lack of visionary people, so that their lives become mediocre, eclipsed. With people with negative energy, the heart is slowly barren and full of distractions, and being with people with positive energy will be stimulated to love life and discover the beauty of life. With different people, there will be a different life, and walking with excellent people can help meet a better self. Life always has to go through all kinds of failures. Going in the wrong direction, loving the wrong person, and choosing the wrong path are all things that often happen. Halfway through, halfway through love, only to find that everything is wrong. Although people often have to cross the river in their lifetime, after crossing the river, they are on the other side.
My life is like this, every once in a while I habitually collapse and habitually heal myself, experiencing one storm after another and returning to calm, while others know nothing about it. I used to think that many of the hardships in life could be shared, but in the end I forced myself to swallow all my emotions and then go forward alone. Sometimes people see that something is wrong with you and ask, "What's wrong?" At that moment, his mind seemed to be like a flash flood that fell in an instant, and he was about to blurt out but he was afraid that others would not be able to empathize with it, but felt this sentimentality. Collapse at night and heal yourself during the day. Some things no one understands, some moods no one can understand, can only rely on their own to survive all the heartache, others can not help a bit. Some sadness can only heal itself, and some moods, no one can understand. However, I must believe that there is no eternal night, and there is no suffering that cannot be endured, and all that cannot defeat me will make me stronger. Willing to take a lonely courage to cut through the thorns and learn to walk through all the difficulties alone.
There is such a stem: you can make Fan Bingbing overnight, but you can't read Lin Huiyin overnight. The real charm is not outstanding appearance, nor is it eye-catching, but an independent thinking, an inner connotation. If you want to become a woman with a good temperament, reading is the first and most critical step. Dong Qing said: I always believe that the books I have read will not be read in vain, and it will always help me perform better on some occasion in the future. Speaking of reading, I would like to say, if you overturn your life and start over, dare you? That sentence from Hemingway's The Old Man and the Sea sounded in my heart at the right time: A man can be destroyed, but he cannot be defeated! At the age of 33, I resolutely walked out of the house and opened a new life, and now I can't talk about my career pride, at least I found the little pride that I lost before. The world is changing, human nature has not changed, and all this will silently plant a seed in the heart, which will be used by me when I am trapped, escaping all pain and insecurity.
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