Has the entertainment industry been mass-producing scumbags lately?
A few days ago, just when Qian's affairs had not subsided, another girl complained online that she had been harassed by a male star.
And this person is Guo Caijie's current boyfriend, Eder.
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Three key messages can be seen in the girl's self-report:
First, Eder took advantage of her more than once.
According to the girl, the two did not have a formal relationship.
But maybe because their parents knew each other, the girl was very trusting of him at first.
However, when they were still ordinary friends, Eder harassed girls three times and twice, and most of the night wanted to take advantage of others.
The helpless girl could not stand his soft and hard bubbles, nor could she dodge the attack of the sugar-coated shells, and finally she chose to believe Eder.
However, just after winning the hand, Ider began the scumbag's usual trick: cold violence.
At the same time, during the relationship, he used detectives many times to chat with other girls.
That's it, even more heinous is that Eder finally picked up the girl's girlfriend, which is too lacking!
Second, Eder takes advantage of girls.
The girl mentioned in the text: he will only use my resources to find someone to do things, and borrowing money is always the first to think of me.
Doesn't it feel a lot like a professional liar?
First give you the illusion of beautiful love, and then squeeze what you want from you.
Finally, when you are completely useless, go away.
I could feel the girl putting a lot into Eder, not just feelings, but money.
Which cheng thought, Eder, who got everything, not only did not understand gratitude to Dade, but also beat a rake upside down and said all her bad in front of the girl's girlfriend.
Third, Ider once tricked girls into taking drugs.
If you must grade scum, then Ider is simply the highest level of scum.
Splitting legs and chatting are not the biggest harm to the girl, and what he does is completely inhumane.
The girl said Edel had tricked her into taking drugs and more than once, not just one.
Is this already a crime?
After this matter was exposed, netizens advised Guo Caijie to break up, but the parties never responded.
But in any case, the thing that hurt the most was Guo Caijie, who had just fallen in love, and his heart had not yet warmed up, and he was involved in a right and wrong, dilemma.
Recently, someone photographed the two people in the same frame, and I have to say that Guo Caijie really likes him, and Eder is also a real scum.
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Many people don't know how Guo Caijie and Ider got together, so let's make up the lessons here.
In April this year, some media took photos of them traveling together, and the two hooked up shoulder to shoulder, behaved intimately, and confirmed the rumors of love.
After that, some netizens pulled out the bottom of Guo Caijie's boyfriend.
His name is Ider, he is a musician from Inner Mongolia and a creator of electronic nomadic music.
The two of them met on a show "Let's Band Together" (the fate of our QiZi and Lee Byung-hee also originated from this show).
In the show, Ider is the contestant, and Guo Caijie is the mentor.
At that time, he played a song "Game of Thrones" with a horse's head, which was recognized by the judges and also favored by Guo Caijie.
She even said directly to Eder: "I have been waiting for you, and you have finally appeared." ”
This sentence seems to be the mentor's recognition of the player, but in fact, it has a deep meaning.
After the relationship between the two gradually became clear, Guo Caijie, who had not released a new song for many years, directly cooperated with Eder, founded a music label, and launched a national tour.
Later, she went to her boyfriend's hometown of Inner Mongolia and stayed for a long time.
Although the voices of opposition and doubts from the outside world were deafening, Guo Caijie still did not waver.
Some people say that Guo Caijie picked up a man in the garbage heap this time, and he was like a treasure and was reluctant to throw it away.
In fact, many girls are the same.
So why do the girls leave good men instead of looking for men, but go to grab the men in the garbage heap?
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Let's start with a look at what women think.
1, think that they are not worthy of better
If you look closely at the boyfriends of the sisters around you, you will find a strange law: the more women who have been emotionally hurt, the worse the next man to find.
Why?
It is said that a relationship can make a woman confident, then the same way, a failed relationship will also make a woman inferior.
Especially women who pay more, they will think about a question repeatedly after the breakup: why do I do so much, he just doesn't like me, is it because I am not good enough?
This thought circulates back and forth in the mind, slowly internalizing into self-denial, followed by a terrible cognition.
"I don't deserve better, I only deserve to pick men in the garbage."
It's an endless cycle.
Because the men in the garbage heap won't be nice to you, you'll still get hurt and then have that negative thought again after every time your feelings are frustrated.
In the end, you will find that you can't do without the garbage heap.
2, always judge men by feelings
In the idol dramas of previous years, there is a place that is easy to mislead women: to fall in love depends on the feeling.
But it feels like this thing can be faked, and it is the easiest to disguise.
Why does it feel so deceptive?
Women are emotional animals, so many girls judge whether a person likes their own standards, is the feeling given by the other party.
For example, when you are eating, he naturally wipes the rice juice from the corner of your mouth for you, making you feel excited, thus producing emotional hormones.
Then you start thinking: Does he like me? How much do you like me?
The terrible thing is that once a woman decides that the other person likes herself, she will give unreservedly.
And paying is to get more good feelings from the other party.
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Finally, let's talk about what men think.
1, the more men in the garbage heap, the more they know how to use clever words
In fact, the scumbags know how many pounds they have, and they know that they have no other skills except to be able to speak the Tao.
Therefore, this kind of man will think of eating the whole world with one mouth.
Usually, scumbags want to get the most return through the least cost.
For example, I usually take you to a roadside stall and tell you: "Baby, I will work hard for you, and in a few years I will drive a Mercedes to take you to a French restaurant for dinner." ”
They know that when women hear this sentence, they will be moved and reply: "No, I am willing to eat roadside stalls with you for the rest of my life." ”
See, three words can make women fall, and this is their "way of profit" in their relationships.
The biggest feature of such a man is that he likes to study women's weaknesses, and then use those unrealistic sweet words to constantly "wash their ears" for each other.
Women are basically auditory animals, so listening to them makes them believe it.
2, through the pursuit of women to increase the sense of self-worth
It is said that women are vain, and so are men, who like to use women as capital for bragging.
Remember the last business trip, a few young men at the next table discussing women.
It is nothing more than who took down which pure girl, who chatted with several ambiguous objects, and so on.
I inadvertently glanced at the coffee they ordered at their table for no more than $200 in total, and the clothes they wore were discounted from a fast-selling store.
Lo and behold, the more ordinary, or a little low-level men, the more they want to pursue a sense of value.
And the fastest thing that makes them gain a sense of value is women.
Therefore, scumbags always like to be merciful everywhere, all kinds of provocations, not really because of "energy", but to enjoy the pleasure of this kind of stars holding the moon.
I often say that no matter how anxious you are to get off the list, don't look for a man in the garbage.
You deserve to have better men, and happy feelings.
But you also need to know that the best are often the most difficult.
In this world, the cost of being a bad person is too low, and the cost of being a good person is too high.
Therefore, if you want to have a solid relationship, it means that you have to increase the cost of choosing a mate.
Don't tell me it's too hard, compared to meeting scumbags, you'll find that this difficulty is nothing at all.
Write to a girlfriend
Scumbag heart, undersea needle.
If the scumbag tries to deceive you, you will not be able to detect it.
What they do best is to cajole you with sugar-coated cannonballs, fool you into thinking he really loves you, and end up taking it from you.
The day he dumps you, you're still reflecting on whether you're doing something bad.
This is the ultimate routine of scumbags: mind control.
It is not simple to want to see through the scumbag, I will teach you the method.