After the death of Teacher Yuexian, she has been officially buried in Beijing. Some informed netizens sent a tombstone photo, and the portrait of Teacher Yu Yuexian was happy and serene, as if smiling at the world from the perspective of "Xie Bigfoot".
However, there is one detail that I think is not handled properly, that is, on the tombstone, the name of "Yu Yuexian" is not centered, but on one side, and on the other side is the name of "Zhang Xuesong", and the difference between the names of the two people is that Zhang Xuesong's name is not depicted, which is the so-called "virtual carving".
The "false carving" is not uncarved, but carved, and then Zhang's name is described after Zhang himself is buried with his wife a hundred years later.
Why? Only one meaning: Zhang Xuesong and Yu Yuexian are eternal husband and wife, and after the death of the living person, the two people will sleep here for a long time.
There are similar customs in Heilongjiang, but there have also been contradictions and even jokes.
A man in my hometown died his wife, and the tombstone was also arranged after burial. But then something went wrong —the man remarried. It makes sense if the remarriage is a widow, because the widow is buried with her husband after her death. But this man married an old girl! The girl said: You died to find your ex-wife, why should I?
Later, it is said that the man changed the tombstone of his deceased wife to marry the eldest girl.
Therefore, Shan Menghai vowed to be cautious in this matter!