One
Men cheat, like bills falling on, pick it up disgusting, don't pick it up, pity it.
This is the most straightforward feeling many women have after encountering a man's cheating.
Men cheat, women suffer physical and mental damage.
Also consider what to do next.
Women are too hard.
But for women, the hardest thing is these two points.
1, more painful than the heart is the man's attitude
Some men's attitude towards cheating is indifferent, he doesn't feel like he's making a mistake.
So, after his return, the attitude towards his wife was bad.
If a woman mentions his cheating behavior many times, he will say that things are over, and you still have no end.
Yes, he is in the past, but women can't get by.
Because the person who is forced to swallow the grievance is the woman, not the cheating man.
There was no pain in his body and mind, why did he persuade women to be open-minded?
2, choose to endure or fierce
A helper, his wife cheating, he was the last to know.
After knowing that he and his wife divorced, was the divorce even abandoned?
Not.
He said that the tingling sensation in the dead of night struck, and he was better off alive than dead.
He then lived alone with his son, and now 16 years later, his children are in college.
But with his feelings are faint.
Another helper found out that her husband had been cheating for four months.
She kept trying to convince herself to let go.
Two months had passed since she found out, and she felt less sad than when she first learned about it.
However, she seems to be calm during the day, and at night, she often collapses and is sad.
Two
No one can really let go of being betrayed, no matter how long it takes.
Men cheat, women endure, but it takes courage to break the mirror and reunite.
The woman chooses to continue the marriage to see if the man is really returning.
How about your attitude towards you after returning, and can he help you repair your psychological trauma?
Choosing to leave, this matter still has a great impact on you, and you also need great courage to choose to start a new life.
Once someone betrays a marriage, it destroys a family.
Some cheaters regret it after cheating and repent to their other half.
But those who are derailed will have complex ideological struggles in their hearts.
Is he really back? Will he still cheat?
There are many concerns, and it is difficult for the cheater to believe what the cheater says in the future.
The sense of trust between two people is lacking, and the feelings will certainly not be as pure as before.
Three
There are still many men who argue that they are deceived and have not resisted cheating, and it is the other party who seduces themselves.
In the moment when desire is on top, the responsibility is completely forgotten by him.
Of course he could think of how his actions would affect his other half, but he did it anyway.
It shows that the man feels that the cost of making mistakes is very low, and he feels that even if he makes mistakes, women will not accept him unconditionally.
Therefore, this also sounded the alarm for women.
In the usual relationship with men, let him know what the consequences of the bottom line of marriage are once touched.
In this way, when he encounters what he calls temptation, reason can triumph over desire.
He will not easily fall into the abyss of sin.
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