It is said that the feelings between classmates are pure and the longest. In class, students pull and pull each other, touch their arms, and a verbal altercation or two is a very small thing. This also reflects the simple friendship between classmates.
As a teacher, what should you do when you encounter a dispute, shoving or even a fight between the students in your class? Some teachers may directly pull the students apart, and then the two sides will criticize. Some teachers may blame two sentences and let the children find their own way to solve it. Some teachers even called both sides to the front, criticized one by one, and fined them for a quarter of an hour. Is there a better way to solve it?
Recently, in a primary school in Shanxi, a female teacher "very loving" wave of operations deeply touched us in front of the screen. The course of events is this: two students in the class have a small conflict, both say that it is the other party's fault, and do not apologize to each other. So the female teacher had a clever move, called the two to the office, moved a small bench in the middle of the office, and let the two students stand on the bench to "look at each other affectionately".
From the picture, it can be seen that a fat little boy is very unhappy to stand on the stool, while another boy tries to stand on the stool several times, but the result is unsuccessful. At this time, the fat boy seemed to perceive that he was too large, and had taken up most of the area of the small stool, and the thin boy could not stand up. So he put his arm around the skinny boy, and eventually both of them managed to stand on the stool.
The last frame of the picture is lit! The two men looked at each other for a second, and both smiled.
The two classmates "smiled and embraced each other", saying that they would never have any more conflicts in the future, help each other, be humble to each other, and become the best friends.
Seeing this, netizens have said that the teacher's emotional intelligence is really high! Some netizens said that the age of school is the most simple age, children will be angry and reconciled, very cute, the level of the teacher is very high! The children met a good teacher.
We often say that there are no students who can't teach well, only teachers who can't teach. In addition to normal lesson preparation and teaching, teachers should also pay attention to the health of children psychologically. When every child is reading, it takes a process to get rid of naivety and say goodbye to ignorance. If the teacher can guide the child through this process well, it will be of great help to the child's growth!
Children in primary and secondary schools, the contradictions are often small frictions, and many teachers are simple in dealing with such contradictions, anyway, a slap can not be sounded, two people each play fifty boards. Both people are going to be criticized for writing reviews, and even ask parents, children orally disobeyed. This kind of written review is equivalent to not writing, so please parents, and it may be counterproductive. The next time we encounter similar small frictions, we will still see the emergence of contradictions between the two sides.
And the female teacher in the video in the handling of the children's contradictions, personally think it is very appropriate! First of all, the female teacher knows where the contradiction comes from, where the focus of the two sides of the contradiction is, and also knows that it is inevitable that the contradiction between the two sides will arise. Usually, children have conflicts, and the teacher is the "active party" in the middle, which is to dissuade the children from eliminating the contradictions. And now, the female teacher has cleverly transformed into a "passive party", allowing the children to take the initiative to resolve the contradictions, and the so-called bell must also be tied to the bell. The resolution of this contradiction can make children understand that the sense of responsibility and friendship is far greater than the contradiction, which can affect the children's life.
This teacher's approach is a textbook example that can be used as a reference for many other teachers, even parents. Children's education is not simply rough, nor is it excessive coddling, but let them understand the responsibility of the body.