In the new year, the sixth day of the Chinese New Year, sitting at the desk, thinking back to the past, looking forward to the future, imagining what is happiness?
What is happiness? The German workers' philosopher Detzgen said that "only the happiness of the whole human race is your happiness". I obviously don't have such a realm of thought, and I can't reach such a height.
As an ordinary me, when I was a child, happiness was an object, and having it was happiness;
When you have a crush, you will find that when you see her at a glance, you have happiness;
When in love, Haizi said, "I have a house, facing the sea, and the spring is warm and blossoming." "It's happiness;
When I graduated, I was admitted to my ideal unit, and Meng Jiao said, "The spring breeze is proud of the horseshoe disease, and I can see all the Chang'an flowers in one day." "It's happiness;
When you grow up, happiness is a small goal, and achieving it is happiness.
Happiness has five tastes and miscellaneous tastes, and a hundred people have the interpretation of a hundred people. As an ordinary person, the real thing I am in now is the happiest minute and second.
I have my own family, my parents are healthy, my wife is virtuous, my daughter is lovely, just like Lin Yutang said, "sleep in my own bed, eat the meals made by my parents, listen to my lover talk to you, and play games with my children";
I have my own career, my favorite job, and my own goals;
I have my own hobbies, reading historical texts, "stealing half a day of leisure";
I have my own friends, "the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water", but I can "peach blossom pond water thousands of feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun sent me affection" in times of difficulty.
In the days to come, ordinary me, to cherish this era of strivers, take care of the family, work hard, and be a happy person.
Look at "What is Happiness?" that I wrote many years ago. 》
On November 1, 2021, many years later, I looked at what I had originally written, and it felt particularly temperamental, not the style I wanted.
Over the years, I have experienced the pain of children's illness, the unambitiousness of the unit, and slowly understood a truth, what happiness is, happiness is good health, and happiness is to have an income.
Please forgive me for not being willing to talk much about children and units.
With physical health, with an income, it is like a tree with roots, and then there are subsequent branches and leaves.
In those years, I was still thinking about what happiness was. In fact, at that time, I had happiness. Soon after, we encountered the heavy blow of life, and the 10-year savings of the husband and wife were basically all consumed, but, regarding money, we could still see it, as long as the trend was good. During this period, we are also grateful for the help of many people, and we sometimes wonder if the two of us do not have a unit, whether there are so many people to help, perhaps, the unit is also one of the important factors. In fact, one night after many years, I saw the original circle of friends, and I found that the noble people in the career did not meet, and I met the noble people in life, that is, so many people who selflessly helped our family. This is our nobleman.
Nagging, writing this, I don't know what I want to express, maybe, just want to talk. See the smile.