Get up early, finish breakfast, take your eldest son to the nursery, and then go home to take care of your little daughter who has just woken up. On weekends, he took a couple of children back to the countryside in the mountains to visit his grandparents. How much medicine is left for her father-in-law to eat, how long it will take for her mother-in-law to do the examination, the chai rice oil and salt at home, and the food, clothing, shelter and transportation of the elderly on both sides, these have become the whole of her life. She said that the most feared thing is that the child is sick, it is strange to say, the two children are sick together, every time with the child injection, she does not eat breakfast and do not drink water, so there is no need to get up on the toilet, because she has to hold the child to drip.
She is Luo Xuejuan, the mother of two military babies, and her lover Dai Laiping is a fourth-class sergeant major of a brigade in the Tibet Military Region, and the two are about to turn ten years in love. Xuejuan likes to call him "Lao Dai", recalling the bits and pieces from acquaintance to acquaintance to the gradual growth of the two children, although ups and downs, but full of happiness and longing.
The wedding was late, and the eldest son became our "witness"
Xuejuan told the author: "What was first touched by Lao Dai was that he was upright, down-to-earth, and admired the soldiers. In 2011, the two of them collected their permits in their hometown in Ningxia, and because Dai Banchang was busy at work, they postponed the wedding for two years. By the time the two had a wedding in their hometown in 2013, Xuejuan was already pregnant with her eldest son. She often humorously told others, "The eldest son is their witness." "When Xiao Xuan was born, Lao Dai just encountered a task and could not accompany his wife, which became Lao Dai's biggest regret. When the youngest daughter was born, Lao Dai took an early leave of absence to accompany his wife to welcome the arrival of the youngest daughter Peach. "On the day of my little daughter's 100th day, our family of four had their first family portrait." Xuejuan was filled with a happy smile when she spoke.
After ten years of marriage, I have practiced all kinds of "martial arts"
Before getting married, Xuejuan hardly understood the concept of military sister-in-law, and saw it on TV, only knowing that the military sister-in-law was bitter, but did not know what this bitterness was. When her eldest son Xuan Xuan was born, she quit her job to take care of her children with peace of mind, and now she has become the mother of two military dolls. Xuejuan told the author, "Old Dai is a family-oriented person, and now communication is also convenient, and he will video with our mother and son as soon as he has time." On the phone, she always reported good news and not bad news, "He is guarding the country in the army, and I will guard his home at home." All I could do was give him peace of mind working in the army. ”
Never traveled, he is my best view
Because of the special nature of the work, Lao Dai has never taken her and the children out on a tour, and she prefers to see Lao Dai and the children together and cherish the happy time together. Last year, Lao Dai took annual leave, and the two of them went together to get the "Glorious Home" door number, hanging on the house of their hometown together, the in-laws and mother-in-law were happy to close their mouths, and the family took a happy family portrait in front of the door. She said, "That day, Old Dai was very happy. ”
In her eyes, Lao Dai is a person who does not accept defeat, and lao Dai in the eyes of her comrades-in-arms is an all-rounder. Old Dai loved the army, liked the life of the army, and did not give up this military uniform. The troops were readjusted and reformed, and Lao Dai wanted to go to the snowy plateau, and he said that he wanted to try it in a difficult place. "If you decide to do it, I support you!" Xuejuan sent a text message encouraging Lao Dai. "From the 'two-person world' of three people to the 'family of three' of four people, I understand him more and more, and he and this small family need me to insist on it." Xuejuan wrote in her notebook.
On the weekend, his son Xuan Xuan came to the camp to accompany his father Dai Laiping
"Xuejuan, you have worked hard all these years, for our family, you have paid too much..." After Lao Dai said this, the son in his wife's arms cried "wow", 5 years old he did not understand many things, but seemed to understand this sentence, sitting in front of the camera Dai Squad Leader, while hurrying to coax his son, while quietly bowing his head, the 14-year veteran shed tears for the first time on the plateau...