Would you like to go to Bangladesh? Yes, I was very willing, even if I didn't want a salary, I was going to go, and there was actually a little bit of resentment at that time. When the HR manager asked me, he agreed without hesitation and did not consult with anyone.
In September of the lunar calendar in 2012, my father had an accident, before he had time to settle his salary, he rushed back to his hometown overnight, when he arrived home, it was early in the morning, my husband and I went straight to the county people's hospital, my father had just finished craniotomy, lying in the emergency room, originally was going to be observed in the intensive care unit, because the beds in the intensive care unit were relatively tight, only temporarily arranged in the emergency room. Now that I think about it, I'm luckier, because the cost is higher there, and those who have experienced it will understand.
I'm sorry, when I write this, I am in tears, the scenes of the past are vividly remembered, the moment I saw my father in the ward, my body was full of all kinds of tubes, my mother stood in front of my father's bed and wept, and before I came back, I didn't know what my mother had experienced, my mother was a rural woman who had not entered the school, and it was too late to take care of my mother's feelings, so I quickly asked about my father's situation.
From the mother's intermittent mouth, I roughly understood that my father was outside to help people carry cement, fell down and fell to the head on the way home, whether it was someone else who hit or fell down, now I don't know, my father has been completely confused since this operation, the accident is a big night, there are no pedestrians on the road, the truth is only known to the father himself, when the father himself stumbled and pushed the bicycle home, | went home and directly fell asleep, the mother did not ask him whether he ate or not, the father did not do things outside Often do not eat at home, just think he is tired, did not notice in time, wait until the next day when the father is incontinent, the mother is frightened, go to the village barefoot doctor, the doctor told the mother to hurry to the hospital, the mother did not know to hit 120, with their own weak body with the family's rickshaw to pull the father to the hospital. The journey is very difficult, but there is no one to take the handle, only when the fall is to understand the coldness of human nature! Think about how we are really filial piety, when we were sent to the hospital, it had deteriorated, the doctor said that if it was sent in time, there would be nothing, and now there was bruising in the head, and the treatment of blood discharge had been missed, and we had to do craniotomy to take out the bones, and he was not sure, the doctor said that it depends on your father's creation, if you can wake up today tomorrow, there will be no problem.
Fortunately, my father woke up in the early hours of the morning, presumably in pain, but anyway it was still a good sign? I opened my eyes and looked at us, then closed them again, and my eyes blurred again when I couldn't write.
In general, my father survived, my father's hospitalization is the second time I experienced, the first time was in eight or eight years when I was hit by a train, and I hope to bless my father with this sentence.
After about ten days, my father's life was no longer in danger, my husband and brother-in-law went out to work, and the task of caring in the hospital fell on me, my sister and my brother, which was our responsibility. At that time, my brother had just graduated from college, not long after joining the work, my sister and I had no culture, only junior high school graduates, the money earned was also stretched, each of our families was not rich, but never for my father's medical expenses to calculate who paid more and less, the younger brother took out all the money for these few work, the sister took a little more, his family did not have a big expenditure in recent years, and I just built a house, because I paid the medical expenses, I managed the account, the first few days were really spending money like water, every day is thousands of thousands of expenditures People who have not experienced it do not know the taste, although there were rural medical cooperatives at that time, and the proportion of old home reports that have just been implemented is very small, and they can only be reported after they are discharged from the hospital. It means putting money in beforehand. I remember that at that time, in order to save money, the 5 yuan of the bed was not willing to sleep in the hospital corridor, this sometimes the hospital has not yet, occupied by others, can only lie on the edge of the father's bed to sleep, the happiest time is that there is no one next to the bed, you can sleep beautifully, Dad lives in the emergency room, some patients are sent in the morning, the afternoon is gone, but the bed that just rescued the patient I am still looking forward to, even if I have died, at that time I hate myself for not being able to earn money. Those days are hard to look back on, and whenever I think of it, my eyes are blurry.
My father stayed in the hospital for almost three months, and stayed until December 28 of the lunar calendar before he was discharged, and when he was discharged from the hospital, he was still in a wheelchair, he had no ability to take care of himself, and the heartache of it was only known to us, at that time, we ran the hospital every day, so that my husband People in the village thought that I was working in the People's Hospital as a nurse and asked me how much it cost to work there for a month. In fact, at that time, I already had the idea of being a nurse, the reason was to accompany my parents, the income was similar to that of me working outside, in fact, the competition for carers was also very large, and no one introduced it and there was no business.
At that time, in the winter, every morning at 8:00 on time to the hospital, take the father to do hyperbaric oxygen, stay in the space capsule for two hours a day, maybe some people have not heard of this treatment instrument, the patient naturally inhales oxygen in it, but some healthy people can't stand it, they will have nosebleeds, because they are also following the patient to inhale oxygen, and this is the case for younger brothers and sisters. They couldn't stand the two hours of closure, so the task fell on me, and I was the boss and I was obligated.
In 2013, I stayed at home with my son for a year, with my company, my son is obviously cheerful and lively a lot, I also secretly resolved to earn a little pocket money at home and then take my son well, but it backfired, my husband is a kind of person who loves to gamble, in the streets and alleys of Shenzhen are all mahjong hall places, simply can not resist the temptation, alone outside, not in debt home is good.
At the end of the year, my husband came back and booked me a ticket to Shenzhen the second year, in fact, I was reluctant to go, I know that my husband can't quit gambling, I think that when the time comes, the money has not been earned, the children have not been educated, this Spring Festival is spent in the awkwardness with the husband, it should be said that every Spring Festival is the same, I don't remember the first few days of the first month, the in-laws found me and said, you go to do a few more years, and then go to make some money, we can also help you bring a few years of children, you don't go He can't save a penny, only I know in my heart, It is also a constant quarrel, this kind of day is also too depressing, and then the eldest sister told me that everyone is a young couple who wants to be together, why don't you want to be together, someone helps you take the child How good it is for two people to go to the world of two. It seems that everything is beautiful, only I know my own life, when my son was just ten years old, it was the time when the child knew the values of life, I went out, and the most sorry person in this life was my son. I remember when I was having dinner with my son at home, my son innocently asked me: Mom, how much money do we owe to repair the house? I also want to make money I also want to help you pay off the debt, when the report card comes out, the son will also indirectly praise me, Mom: You guess how many points I scored, and then the son teased me: The good test is definitely the credit of the mother, the bad test has nothing to do with you, accompanying my son That year was my happiest year. This is just a memory, here I would like to advise my mother and friends not to miss the golden time with children no matter how tired they are, if they can't, it will become a regret for their own life.
Still can't stand the family's soft and hard grind, 2014 lunar new month of the tenth month, I once again stepped on the train to Shenzhen, there are all kinds of reluctance, but still out of that step, to the factory, the husband went to gamble again, this is also what I expected, this time adjusted the mentality, completely ignore him, I want to save a little money, thinking in the hospital, every day when the nurse miss came to inject with her father, the most said sentence is that it is time to pay, today to stop the drug, that kind of daily worry about medical expenses That embarrassing status quo. Think a little bit about planning ahead! Like the Bengals, my husband has no concept of saving money, and he doesn't have any money to spend it, and does he have money to spend it for you?
Before I started working, when I opened the water, I met the manager of the personnel department in the factory area, everyone knew each other, and the person who was the leader spoke more sincerely, he asked Hua Hua if he would like to go to Bangladesh, which is exactly what I wanted, and I could make money and escape from my husband.
And so I went on a part-time job in Bangladesh.
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