Author: Fang Jiajia Chen Yining News source: Fangyuan Magazine
Jing Jing met a man named Xiao Li through the QQ dating group.
Xiao Li claimed to be a major and a staff officer in the army as an auditor
Because of the special status of a soldier, Dajiang has little time to fall in love and does not know how to create romance. After meeting Xiaoli on the Internet, he quickly fell in love, and even thought that this two-and-a-half-year-long love was his destination. But who knows, the quiet message of the "cousin" made his dream shatter in an instant...
Online dating girlfriend "becomes a man"
Oe is a soldier, he has no girlfriend in his old age, because he has been stationed in the frontier for many years, the circle is narrow, and there are not many opportunities to make friends. In 2018, Dajiang met a woman named Xiaoli through the QQ group.
Xiaoli claimed to be 26 years old, had served in the military, became a flight attendant after retiring from the army, and lived in Beijing. Not long ago, she just broke up with her ex-boyfriend, Xiaoli sent him a picture of herself, and the girl in the photo was very beautiful. Similar enlistment experiences also made Oe feel that the two were very close. Xiao Li is very talkative, and she is even more warm to Dajiang, taking care of everything. Soon the two established a relationship.
One day a few months later, Xiaoli suddenly cried to Dajiang that her mother needed a lot of funds to be hospitalized due to illness, and unfortunately, the stocks she invested in were also set up and urgently needed cash turnover. After Dajiang listened, he immediately transferred 38,000 yuan to Xiaoli. Out of concern, Dajiang also offered to visit Xiaoli in Beijing, but Xiaoli shirked it by going out to Guangzhou for training, and asked Dajiang to wait for her to come back.
Whenever Dajiang offered to meet xiaoli or make a video call, Xiaoli always refused for various reasons, and Dajiang became suspicious. In December 2019, Dajiang took a special trip to Beijing on leave, but he did not expect to make this surprise. Xiao Li happened to be out of Beijing because of her work, and arranged for her "cousin" Xiao Li and "cousin" to receive him quietly in Beijing. Although Oi was a little disappointed and a little confused, the warm hospitality of the "cousin" and "cousin" quickly dispelled Oi's concerns.
Later, the two still maintained the "online dating" model. Until August 2020, a message sent by Jing Jing gave Dajiang a blow: "Xiao Li may be a liar!" At first, he thought that Xiao Li was cheating, and as he chatted, he found that Jing Jing's experience was extremely similar to his own, not only repeatedly lending money to his partner, but also using almost the same reason. What surprised Dajiang the most was that the contact information of Xiao Li displayed by Jing Jing was actually Xiao Li's phone. Dajiang woke up like a dream, and it turned out that the girlfriend he had talked about for more than two years was actually a man, or Xiaoli, who called himself Xiaoli's "cousin". So the two resolutely reported the case.
Demystify the "single officer"
32-year-old Jingjing has never had a boyfriend and has been trying to find a marriage partner. In September 2019, Jing Jing met a man named Xiao Li through the QQ group. Xiao Li claimed to be a major and a staff officer in the army as an auditor. The two people chatted very closely on WeChat, and after meeting, Xiao Li was more concerned about Jingjing, and soon the two established a romantic relationship.
In October of the same year, JingJing's father fell ill and came to Beijing to be hospitalized. After Xiao Li knew, as long as there was time to rest, he went to visit in military uniform. JingJing's parents are also very satisfied with Xiaoli and also recognize the relationship between the two. Soon, the two began to live together.
Xiao Li claimed to live in the army and often did not go home, Jing Jing believed that this was the helplessness of "military marriage", and economically, Jing Jing was also responsive to Xiao Li's needs. One day in November, Xiao Li returned home, his brows furrowed and sullen. Under the quiet questioning, Xiao Li said that the comrade-in-arms' child was suddenly seriously ill and needed a large amount of money to save the emergency. Previously, Xiao Li had borrowed 300,000 yuan from him to buy a house and had not repaid it, and now it seems that he has to pay it back. Jing Jing thought that the two had already talked about marriage and marriage, and they should help, so they took out a few credit cards to give XiaoLi a rescue, and borrowed 180,000 yuan from the bank, which was all done. Xiao Li was very grateful and promised that all the principal and interest would be borne by him alone. In early December, Xiao Li told Jing Jing that he was about to be promoted, but needed some money to make some connections, hoping that Jing Jing would lend him some more money. So Jing Jing borrowed a total of 455,000 yuan in her own name. After that, Xiao Li borrowed money from JingJing for various reasons, totaling more than 1 million yuan. In order to prevent Xiao Li from settling the account, she quietly kept an eye on her heart, and once when Xiao Li was not at home, she secretly took down Xiao Li's military officer card.
Once, Jing Jing inadvertently saw Xiao Li's ID card, the name on the ID card and the name on the officer's card did not match, it was written with a beautiful "Li", and the household registration address was different from the officer's card, Jing Jing felt puzzled, and questioned Xiao Li face to face. Xiao Li patiently explained to JingJing. It turned out that his household registration was attached to a relative's family, and he later joined the army in Xi'an. The name was inconsistent because he felt that "Li" was too feminine, so he changed it to "Li". This explanation persuaded Jing Jing, and she did not delve deeper.
Although they have been together for less than half a year, Xiao Li has never introduced his relatives and friends to JingJing. At JingJing's request, Xiao Li once took her to meet his "cousin" Xiao Li's boyfriend, that is, Dajiang. Thinking that he might become a relative in the future, He quietly and privately added WeChat friends with Dajiang. In June 2020, Jing Jing took Xiao Li back to her hometown in Shanxi and agreed on marriage. In the process of meeting his parents, Xiao Li also showed sincerity.
One night in August 2020, Xiaoli was asleep, but the screen of his phone was still playing videos. Jing Jing did not help him lock the screen, but subconsciously looked through WeChat, did not expect that this move made her "military marriage dream" completely shattered. On WeChat, Xiao Li and a strange woman call each other child his father and child, and there are photos in the chat records, and the children in the photos and Xiao Li look very similar! Quietly panicked, she couldn't help but think back to the past, Xiao Li didn't have much time with her, and the two often couldn't get in touch. A few times, Quietly sending Xiao Li to the unit was only to the gate and never went in. Sometimes, a phone called him, rang for half a day, and Xiao Li did not answer. The two were about to get married, and he had never even met his future in-laws. Jing Jing realized that she may have been deceived, and contacted Dajiang through WeChat, only to find out that Dajiang was also a victim.
An elaborate peach-colored scam
In fact, Xiao Li's love object is far more than Jing Jing and DaJiang.
In August 2017, Zhang Meimei met Xiaoli through the QQ dating group, and the two married in November 2018. "He has been with me as a soldier for the past two years, usually busy, but treats me very well. When he got the marriage license, he went into the Civil Affairs Bureau to get it himself, saying that there were acquaintances who could get it immediately, and I believed in him too much, and I didn't check the authenticity of our marriage certificate. "It was later verified that the marriage certificate was forged.
And the child Lele that Jingjing saw in WeChat did not know that he had been deceived until the public security organs came to the door. LeLe said, "We met in April 2018, and we have been in a relationship for a month and have been dating ever since. We had our first child in June 2019, but I didn't register his marriage with and have been living together. He borrowed more than 800,000 yuan from me, and now he only pays back half of it. Considering we have kids, I don't want to pursue too much. ”
It turned out that "Xiao Li" was male but had a very feminine name, Wu Zhenli, 35 years old, unemployed, in 2013, he was sentenced to more than 3 years in prison for impersonating a soldier to deceive. After his release from prison, in order to pay off his foreign debt, he gambled online, but he lost more and more. From August 2017 to August 2020, Wu Zhenli pretended to be a soldier and made friends with 7 women, including JingJing, as a "male" in her own capacity, and defrauded more than 2.4 million yuan. Later, he fell in love with Dajiang as a "flight attendant" and defrauded him of more than 400,000 yuan in property. In June 2020, Wu Zhenli also defrauded her neighbors of more than 50,000 yuan on the grounds that work problems urgently needed capital turnover.
In order not to let the lies be discovered, Wu Zhenli often wore a military uniform and wore a badge. On the grounds that he worked in the permanent forces and could not meet frequently, he was in fact at odds with different victims. Several of the victims found that the name of Wu Zhenli's badge was different from his real name, and according to him, it was because he was in the secrecy department of the army and it was inconvenient to disclose his real name. In addition, Wu Zhenli's face also has obvious birthmarks, which do not meet the recruitment criteria. In response, he declared that "it was left by injuries during the training of the troops".
On February 7, 2021, the Fengtai District Procuratorate of Beijing Municipality indicted Wu Zhenli on suspicion of fraud. At the same time, because he had been sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment by the court for the crime of posing as a military man to deceive and deceive, and if he committed another crime that should be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment or above within five years after the completion of the punishment, he was a repeat offender, and a sentencing recommendation for a heavier punishment was proposed. At present, the case is yet to be heard by the Court.
Nowadays, erotic scams are rampant, and some of the tricks are not clever, and even some are rough. In this case, the defendants pretended to be soldiers, which made the victims momentarily confused, and they were very much looking forward to love and marriage, and chose to ignore those irrational behaviors.
In an interview with Fangyuan, the prosecutor said, "Whether it is a man or a woman, we hope that everyone will remember three points. First, online dating requires caution. Be sure to verify the person's true identity and make further contact after you know their address and home information. Second, 'There is no emotion in talking about money'. At the beginning of a relationship, once it involves a money transaction, don't think about it and leave immediately. Third, if you decide to borrow money, you will prefer to transfer money online, with notes and chat history. Even for cash transactions, leave withdrawal vouchers or IOUs. (The people involved in the case are pseudonyms)