How should you face having a bad relationship?
Many people choose to try to save as much as possible, but more often, they should "stop losses in time".
Recently, it was reported that 45-year-old TVB actress Yang Shimin chose to leave the nest and restore her free body.
After confirmation, Yang Shimin admitted that she was free, wanted to develop in the music world, and wanted to do stage plays, and it was a private decision not to renew her contract.
As a comedian, Yang Shimin has played many supporting roles in TVB, and its brilliance not only makes the audience have a profound influence and outstanding performance of Yang Shimin, but also makes the audience laugh in the drama.
Among them, Yang Shimin also imitated Xu Zishan in TVB dramas, and the two of them in the same frame made the audience shout "too similar".
Yang Shimin not only imitated Xu Zishan, but also had a "large scale" kissed by three male stars in turn during filming.
But the audience who is not familiar with Yang Shimin may not know that she is still a graduate of the Academy of Performing Arts, has participated in many stage plays, and even won awards.
Yang Shimin can be described as a "comedian" in TVB dramas, but her personality is actually similar to most people.
Since she has not been pursued since she was exposed, Yang Shimin, who has experienced emotional serious injuries, what has she experienced?
01 "Shrimp Head" with Experience
Yang Shimin has a nickname, called "Shrimp Head".
Why does she have such a nickname? Yang Shimin once revealed in front of the camera that when he was in middle school, a male classmate asked him to go to a fast food restaurant.
At that time, the fast food restaurant had a package to promote the shrimp, and the prawn package at that time had the propaganda content of the shrimp head person, which was spit on by the classmates and pointed out that Yang Shimin was very similar to the shrimp head person.
Subsequently, the students went back to school to publicize it, and the name "shrimp head" fell on Yang Shimin.
Although it is a pseudonym, Yang Shimin did not reject the name very much, nor did she particularly care, but felt that the name was very kind.
When she was young, Yang Shimin liked to play basketball, and she also liked to play basketball, but she was not pursued.
When she was young, Yang Shimin, who had a lot of movements and liked to sing and imitate, would often be called out by the teacher to perform and sing, and at that time she would imitate Mei Yanfang.
As many artists will experience, Yang Shimin accompanied her friends to enter the Academy of Performing Arts.
But what I didn't expect was that my friend was not admitted to this college, but was admitted by Yang Shimin.
Yang Shimin, who graduated from the Academy of Performing Arts, did the musical "Meet the Girl of 1941", which was her first professional performance in her life.
In 2006, Yang Shimin also won the "Best Actress" award at the Hong Kong Stage Drama Awards.
It can also be seen that Yang Shimin's professional ability in stage drama is beyond doubt.
No one thought that this woman who shined on the stage would join TVB as an artist under TVB, which is also related to the TV series "My Sheng Lady".
02 "Those Years" at TVB
In 2013, Yang Shimin officially joined TVB and began filming episodes.
Perhaps because the executive producer of "My Sheng Lady" took a fancy to Yang Shimin's performance on the stage and wanted to incorporate such elements into the play, Yang Shimin also came to this play and made a cameo role.
She even imitated Xu Zishan in the play, and also imitated very similarly.
Yang Shimin, who played Xu Zishan and also kissed Huang Zihua, joined Shaw's company, and felt that she had the opportunity to make more movies and web dramas.
Yang Shimin, who has entered the world of filming, has also said that he wants to play some adulterous roles, not superficial adulterous horns, but the kind revealed from the bones.
When filming the TV series "Timeless Male Minister", XiaJie, played by Yang Shimin, was kissed by Xiao Zhengnan, Cao Yonglian and He Guangpei in the requirements of the plot.
This famous scene can be said to be "large-scale".
But even so, Yang Shimin also knows what her position is during the filming process.
Every time basically Yang Shimin plays the role, most of them are more "monkey anxious" sheng female category, or a type of gag, interspersed with funny actions and conversations around the male and female protagonists.
Yang Shimin said bluntly that once the TV series needs such roles, they usually play them themselves, and they can bring joy to the audience.
But as an actor, there is always the idea of wanting to be the protagonist.
Yang Shimin, who accidentally entered the industry without the intention of inserting willows, most of the time she plays a supporting role, but she does not think that "you must be the protagonist" to be satisfied.
For her, seizing every opportunity is real.
The reason why Yang Shimin left may be that she has more things she wants to do, so she chose to leave the nest and "peacefully break up" with TVB.
Walking into the TVB screen, the role played by Yang Shimin is not the protagonist, but it also makes the audience laugh happily.
But no one thought that the real side of Yang Shimin would be a woman with a slight sense of inferiority, who only considered others and did not consider herself.
03 Personality and emotional life
Yang Shimin, who likes to play basketball, once bluntly said in front of the camera that he did not find himself, so he specifically went to imitate this aspect of things.
Don't dare to show her true side, from Yang Shimin's words, we can all feel that she is a person with a slight sense of inferiority and easy to live in order to please others.
"It doesn't matter what I like, you can just like it, I'll accommodate you."
Is this sentence familiar? I believe that many people have had such a character presentation.
Afraid of trouble with others, as long as others can accept, they do not care, excessive accommodation often leads to their own do not know what they want, will only follow the footsteps of others to go.
This will also lead to easy unhappiness, confused, lost is Yang Shimin's self-perception of herself.
Yang Shimin will also ask herself, do you really understand yourself?
So she began to examine herself and seek answers.
This is Yang Shimin's personality.
Looking back on the past, in terms of emotional life, Yang Shimin also has different views on her own experience.
Yang Shimin, who has not been pursued, because of the divorce of her parents, has led to her never believing in love in the past, but she desperately needs love.
Doesn't that sound contradictory? This is not the case.
The reason why Yang Shimin does not believe in love is a subjective consciousness that she recognizes after experiencing her parents' divorce, although she does not believe, love still exists.
Despite this, Yang Shimin, who is not young, will also think about finding a partner.
Yang Shimin tried to exchange time for feelings, and once patted with manager Shao Zifeng, but in the end, this relationship still ended without a problem.
In the words of Yang Shimin, that is:
"The person you want is not him, not your own destiny."
After experiencing emotional injuries, Yang Shimin strongly believed that she was not hurt, but in fact, when she looked back, she was already covered in bruises.
But she understands a truth, if a relationship knows that it is irretrievable and does not solve it, it is likely to eventually reach the step of emotional collapse.
04 Optimism and hard work coexist
Although the feelings do not seem to be smooth, in the career, on the road of work and earning money, Yang Shimin is still a relatively optimistic person.
Like some artists, Yang Shimin was once poor, and her hukou once had only double digits left.
But she thought it was not tight, and it would cost as much as she wanted, because she understood that it was impossible to be like this for a lifetime.
I have hands and feet to work, and I don't even feel that there is any problem.
Of course, this view is somewhat inappropriate for some people.
But you can see in Yang Shimin, a woman, the "optimism" we lack.
No one thought that Yang Shimin, a comedian who walked in the style of funny comedy, was actually more fragile in her heart.
But at the same time, she also has an optimistic side.
What I didn't expect was that Yang Shimin would also have a "future goal", that is, to create a musical that belonged to this place in Hong Kong.
Her optimism goes hand in hand with hard work.
She is also constantly moving in the direction she wants to develop.
Effort has nothing to do with age, optimism is the main factor of perseverance.