Do you know what it means to have a bastard meal? Illegitimate rice also refers to a type of fan of artist stars, but this kind of fan usually acts fanatically, in order to satisfy their own selfish desires, and harasses the normal life of celebrities, their behavior will also affect public order, in short, private meals have always been hated.
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And today we are going to talk about an illegitimate meal, her behavior was extremely sensational at the time, in order to chase the stars, it directly led to her father jumping into the sea to commit suicide, and the cause of this farce was because of an absurd dream.
Yang Lijuan
Yang Lijuan, a native of Gansu, began her fanatical journey of star chasing from the age of sixteen, and in order to chase the stars, her family became fragmented and her life became a mess. Let's learn about her story now and use her experience to warn us.
In 1994, Yang Lijuan first recognized a very handsome man in a dream, and then this man appeared frequently in her dreams, and at first she did not care about these dreams until she saw a poster. This poster was brought by her classmates, and it was printed on it and Andy Lau, one of China's "Four Heavenly Kings", and Yang Lijuan also met the man in her dream from this poster, who turned out to be Andy Lau.
Since then, Yang Lijuan has begun to be madly infatuated with Andy Lau, for which the focus of her life has shifted, she began to drop out of school, not to work, closed herself, do not make friends, and Yang Lijuan's parents are excessively doting on her, they do not feel that their daughter's behavior is wrong.
Because of her parents' excessive doting, Yang Lijuan strengthened her dream of going to Hong Kong to see Andy Lau, and for this reason she even made a vow to "not see Andy Lau, never marry for life". This idea was very extreme, but no one told her it was wrong at the time.
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1. In order to support his daughter's star chasing, his father quit his job
For her daughter's star-chasing behavior, Yang Lijuan's parents are fully supportive, Yang Lijuan's father Yang Qinji in order to support his daughter, actually quit his job for many years, and this job as long as he insists on four more years, he can retire normally, but he does not care about these.
In 1997, Yang Qinji borrowed 11,000 yuan from a loan shark just to support her daughter's star chasing, and twenty-year-old Yang Lijuan took the money left in her family and signed up for a tour group and embarked on the road to meet Andy Lau.
However, she did not see Andy Lau, and finally returned without success, but she has been paying attention to Andy Lau's movements. Until 2004, Yang Lijuan learned that Andy Lau would shoot a TV series "No Thief in the World" in Gansu, and since Yang Lijuan learned of this news, she stayed on the roof of her house every day, hoping that Andy Lau could see herself, but this was really impossible.
2. In order to support their daughter's star chasing, the parents sold the house
In order to support their daughter's star chasing, the old couple sold their house as early as 2003, just to support their daughter's star chasing, the family can only live in a dilapidated rental house, what do they get in this way? However, this is not the most heart-wrenching, and the most frustrating thing is that they do not realize that it is wrong. In 2005, because of the star chasing, the already poor family was even worse, and the money was not blown by the wind, and this year, Yang Lijuan's family used up their last savings.
3. In order to support his daughter's star chasing, the father sold one of his kidneys
But they did not stop there, Yang Lijuan's mother gave Yang Qinji an idea, let Yang Qinji sell a kidney, in order to continue to support her daughter's dream of chasing stars. This sounds like a bad idea to us, but Yang Qinji actually sold a kidney. When Yang Lijuan learned that her father had sold a kidney for herself, there was not much fluctuation. She just said that she would prefer her father to borrow money and sell kidneys to hurt her body.
Because Yang Qinji's approach was too bizarre, the father-daughter duo quickly occupied the headlines, and when the media interviewed Yang Qinji, he said that he must let his children meet Andy Lau.
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1. After seeing the idol, make more unreasonable demands
Later, with the help of the media, Yang Lijuan met her idol at Andy Lau's Hong Kong Singers' Meeting and took a photo with him. But people's desires are endless, Yang Lijuan because of her dreams, think that she is special for Andy Lau, she is not satisfied with just seeing idols in this way.
What she really wanted was to meet with Andy Lau privately, and this kind of request was unreasonable for Andy Lau. And according to Andy Lau, after the Yang Lijuan incident, many of his fans have repeatedly forced him to die on the phone, and if he really agrees to this request, then there will only be more fans to follow this extreme way to see him, and this behavior will only have a negative impact on society.
2. After being rejected, Yang Qinji jumped into the river
After Andy Lau refused this request, Yang Qinji actually jumped into the river, and he also left a seven-page suicide note. The suicide note is full of accusations against Andy Lau and his unwillingness, and at the end of the suicide note, he also asked Andy Lau to see his daughter.
This suicide note instantly pushed Andy Lau to the cusp of the storm, and Andy Lau was still firm in his choice in media interviews. During that time, Andy Lau was greatly affected, not only did he cancel many concerts, in that year, there was no fan meeting, and Andy Lau himself also went to see a psychologist many times because of pressure.
However, the matter did not end, when Yang Lijuan and her mother came to Hong Kong again to do the aftermath for their husbands, the mother and daughter duo once again asked to see Andy Lau, and the two were instantly pointed out by thousands of husbands.
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Since the death of her father, Yang Lijuan has finally woken up, and she has begun to repent of her actions and feel remorse for her father's death, but her father will never know.
In 2014, Yang Lijuan once again appeared in people's sights, she participated in a variety show, in this variety show, she used her own personal experience to warn everyone not to blindly chase the stars, but the words are still full of resentment against Andy Lau, but she may never know that the person who completed the loan for her was Andy Lau.
It is undoubtedly excellent that Yang Lijuan can understand that what she did was wrong, and now she has returned to a normal life, she has become a shopping guide, and has a stable income, which is enough to support her life with her mother.
What would she do when it came to life if she had to do it all over again? She said that if her life were to start all over again, she would not have embarked on this path, and this wrong choice had caused her to lose a lot of things.
If she could come back, she hoped that her father could spend her old age in peace, but time could not be repeated, fortunately she was sober, and she only hoped that her mother could live a long and peaceful life.
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In fact, today's society is also filled with many people like Yang Lijuan, who have lost themselves for a beautiful fantasy, just like the bastard meal we mentioned at the beginning, what can they get in the end? The disgust of the people they like, the insults and ridicule of others, so what are they really for?
In fact, teenagers should not spend too much time on entertainment, moderate entertainment is OK, but excessive entertainment will only lead to their own depravity. We can chase stars, but we should chase some stars like Yuan Longping, and chase some stars that can make us progress.
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