For any woman, archaeologists are the best husbands. Because, the older his wife is, the more he loves. —Agatha Christie.
Seeing this famous saying, my tears flowed instantly, women want to get happiness, why should they be attached to men? Can't you do it on your own?
Unfortunately, with the passage of time, even the most beautiful face will grow old, and what is even more unfortunate is that not every man is an archaeologist.
Recently, I saw an old movie called "Second Concubine", and the name of this movie sounds strange. A girl's family is called the second concubine, which does not sound like a person's name!
In fact, this name is the same as "two dogs" and "dog leftovers", rural people name, lai name good to feed the meaning.
Directed by the famous Zhou Xiaowen and starring Aria, Liu Peiqi, Ge Zhijun and Zhang Haiyan, who were among the top actors at the time, the film premiered in Switzerland on August 6, 1994.
At the same time, he won the Gold Medal of the Youth Jury of the 47th Rocano International Film Festival in Switzerland, the International Film Critic Award, and the Grand Jury Prize.
Many people think that the reason why this film can win awards in Sweden is that like "Red Sorghum", as long as it plays the poor and ugly side of human nature, foreigners love to watch it and can win the award.
In fact, this is only a one-sided understanding, the essence of this film is that the actors perform in place, let people see the complexity of human nature and the attitude of a woman who wants to change her life in the rural life environment at that time, but she successfully completed her wish, but fell because there was no goal to strive for.
Overall, the film's Douban score reached 8.1, which shows its popularity.
01. Incompetent husband, to strengthen the wife, for face, the second wife to buy a big color TV.
Speaking of this movie, I have to explain the background and premise first.
The husband of the second concubine was the former village chief, but he fell ill and fell ill, and he could not do any work in the family, and the burden of the family fell on the second concubine.
They had an only child who was in elementary school, called Tiger Zi.
Of course, there was also a good neighbor, also a family of three, and the man was blind because his eyes were too small, and the people in the village called him blind. He had a broken car and a television set at home, which at the time was considered a rich man.
Because, his family has a TV set, The tiger often goes to watch TV, the blind man's family also has a daughter, the two do not deal with each other, tiger once went to see TV, was bombed out, which made the second concubine determined to buy a better TV.
The husband of the second concubine is nothing, and there are children who go to school, and they earn a little money by making twist noodles on weekdays, at that time, it cost more than 7,000 yuan to buy a large color TV, which is like an astronomical number for him.
But no matter how bitter and difficult it is, the things that the second concubine believes must be adhered to to to the end.
Coincidentally, the blind man likes the second concubine.
The blind man is a key character in the film, and the second concubine's heart is involved by him, because the man let him find a way to make money, get her heart, and in the end, he also lost her.
Oh man! O blind man!
02. In order to buy a color TV and go to the city to work, the blind man takes the opportunity to possess her.
Because he wanted to buy a big color TV, he made a few small money by making twist noodles, so the blind man told the second concubine that he could take her to marry a city to work, where he could earn more money, and soon he could buy a big color TV.
The second concubine had the motivation to follow the blind man into the city to sell her own basket. So she often rode in the blind man's broken car between the city and the countryside.
The blind man took good care of her, which made her very grateful, and once on the way back, the blind man took the opportunity to possess her.
The second concubine originally wanted to resist, but her husband was sick and incompetent, she had a need, and the second way to earn money was blind to help, besides, she also liked the blind, so it was natural to have a relationship.
This time and so, the village chief's husband also saw the hint.
Once when the two returned from a restaurant in the city, the village chief's husband gave one of them a large bowl of noodles, and the two were embarrassed to shirk it, so they ate it hard, and then the village chief brought a second bowl.
In this way, the blind man felt that it was too inconvenient, so the blind man helped the second concubine rent a house and found a job for her, and when she opened the capital in the first month, her salary was more than anyone, which made the second concubine very surprised, and after inquiry, she knew that part of it was a subsidy given by the blind man.
As the two had dinner, the blind man told her that he wanted to marry her into the door and let her do a good job.
At this point, the second concubine's mood is so good that she is more and more motivated, life is full of sunshine, and her goal is to buy a color TV, and add another, that is, to marry the blind.
The relationship between the two is getting better and better, and the second concubine's pocket is also getting more and more drummed.
This woman, with motivation, motivation is enough, if this continues, she may really be able to achieve a double harvest of career and love, however, things do not follow people's wishes.
03. The villagers said that the second concubine was a bitch raised by the blind, and the second concubine and the blind man turned their faces.
The paper could not contain the fire, and the relationship between the two was still told.
The second concubine thought that it was like this anyway, simply open, and then both divorced and bonded together.
However, at this time, the blind man hesitated. He didn't actually want to marry the second concubine, just playing.
The second concubine was sad and simply left him, and now her goal was to buy a TV set, but the money was still not earned.
Later, she found that selling blood came quickly, so she tried to sell blood to make money.
During the New Year, the second concubine finally bought the biggest TV back, the whole village came to the second concubine's house to watch TV, the "village chief" restored her former status, but the second concubine could not get off the kang due to fatigue and blood sales, she and the TV set lay on the bed together, becoming the "exhibit" of the village.
04. In summary:
What is the second concubine doing this for?
Just for a belief, in the end, she and the TV set became a decoration, was it her own fault?
No!
The reason why she became an exhibit was because her heart was dead, the love she gave was not rewarded, and the blind man played with her feelings and made her lose the courage to live.
When her wish to buy a color TV was fulfilled, she could no longer inspire the courage to fight.
A woman loses love, loses motivation, and the life ends prematurely.
So, although she is alive, her heart is dead.
This film tells us a truth.
To be a woman, to be financially independent, can not be attached to men, men have money, that is what people earn, women who want to live on men, can never find a happy direction.
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