Today, let me talk to you about Guo Qilin. Regarding education, Teacher Guo himself said that it was because of The personality problems of Obayashi when he was a child, and he was afraid that his son would suffer losses in the future before deciding to educate him in this way. And Teacher Guo is aware of the number in his heart when educating, not every child is suitable for such education, the heart is different, too severe will ruin the child. Every parent knows best about their children, and should grow up with their children to find the shortcomings of their children and educate them in the right way.
Think about my own and Guo Qilin's growth background is a bit similar, my mother has never affirmed me since she was a child, always picking my mistakes to find my thorns, my father gave me enough self-confidence, in my father's heart her daughter is the best and the best. It was the combination of strict mother and loving father that kept me from taking a crooked path. As an adult, my mother has changed, no longer picking me to find me wrong, now it is a combination of loving father and mother, I am very happy every day after working as an adult, and my childhood is not very happy.
In fact, in the most critical period of people's physical and mental development to implement suppression, grow up will definitely have subconscious alienation, playing little my dad often take a belt to smoke me, now grow up he sneezed I am frightened, Guo Qilin chose to put down the past to look forward, Guo Degang with the passage of time also gradually changed the concept, both of them are developing well, but the subconscious alienation between the two can no longer be erased. This way of education can not produce a Guo Qilin in ten thousand people, Guo Qilin succeeded today, but his inner pain is only known to himself, the unfortunate childhood should be cured with a lifetime, as a parent should be strict, care can not be less!
I remember two days ago my girlfriend was shocked, she asked me guo qilin is really Guo Degang's son, I was a little excited at that time, she has a good feeling for Dalinzi, I asked her do you not know? She said that a few days ago she saw an article by a black forest, the title is probably to say that you are relying on your father, without your father you are nothing like this, she said that she thought of his father who, very powerful, and then clicked in to see that it was Guo Degang, saying that the three views were broken at that time. This is what she said to me, even if it is not all right, but this is the meaning, I was really happy to die, because before my classmates said that Guo Qilin is not a cross-talker, nor did he say that it was Guo Degang's son, Da Lin Zi finally did not know because his father was Guo Degang, I was very excited.
Teacher Guo's life is transparent, and I believe in his strict education of Guo Qilin. I think when Guo Qilin was young, Teacher Guo was living the most painful days in his life. In the same way, Teacher Guo also knows. Life must experience setbacks, rather than being beaten in society, it is better to educate him strictly at home. Now Guan Guo Qilin treats people politely, is always not impatient, and speaks gently and elegantly. It can be seen that Lao Guo's education and his personality all say how Guo Degang is, but I think that Teacher Guo has great wisdom and Guo Qilin is good.
Guo Qilin had ten thousand reasons to go bad, but he became the best version of himself. Now Guo Qilin loves to laugh and is full of wind and water, but the harm given to him by his childhood father cannot be eliminated no matter what, he can only convince himself and forget. This is guo qilin, changing a child, can not be so successful. This way of education I think is very cruel, it is a deep harm to young children, no matter how successful the child grows up, the pain in the heart, loneliness, and inferiority are eternal, and can only be made up with others, and cannot be expected to disappear. His happiness and energy are external, superficial, for others to see, but not inside.