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Poor parents in the world, all their lives for their children to break their hearts, the old age is desolate

author:The Tao looks at the world

It is often said that children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, but as parents, especially Chinese parents, there are few people who can abandon their children and go freely on their own...

He and his wife are retired teachers, have a pension every month, and as far as material life is concerned, in the countryside, it is already a well-off life, but in the problem of children, they cannot let go.

My son was the first college student in the village, once the pride of our old two children, after graduation, because of academic qualifications, through our relationship arranged to work in the Education Bureau, and later married and had children, everything is developing in the direction we hope. Daughter, from childhood learning is not as good as the son, fortunately in the study of practical and serious, the results are average, under our influence and guidance, the good villain also entered a university, after graduation also arranged to work in the bank, found a colleague also married. Our old couple retired, our children started a family, and we thought we would live a carefree life.

I don't know if it is really like the village fortune teller said, the ancestral grave of the family is biased in size, so when he was four years old, his son did not consult with us, directly quit his job at the Education Bureau, and had to run some quality teaching training class, is this not nonsense? China's major policy is to test-oriented education, you go to engage in what quality teaching, make up your own mind to make the house as collateral, loan money, and finally lose a mess, the daughter-in-law divorced him, with the child back to his hometown in Shanxi, he became a rootless duckweed, no job, no home...

What the son did almost cost us two lives half a life, when he was not finished, the daughter began to moth again, met a Fujian tea merchant boss in the bank, either the brain went into the water, or the IQ was flickered and lame, quit the bank job, followed the boss to the sea to do business, the son-in-law could not communicate with her, had to call me, when I called my daughter, she was already in Guangdong...

Children are really the fate of past lives, there is a fate to repay the favor, there is a kind of debt, one of our sons and daughters obviously belongs to the latter, sometimes feel that they really do not go to die, but they are like this, the work is not settled, the family is not settled, I am afraid that lying under the ground will not be peaceful ah...

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