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Zhu Rongzhen, what you care about is not whether you play basketball well or not, but whether the coach evaluates you highly or not

author:Da Dong talks about sports

Some people may ask, doesn't the coach who is satisfied show that he is playing well? This depends on the requirements of the coach to look forward to you, if you catch a heart for you, full of expectations, strict requirements for you, very level, close to the Bole like the coach so it is OK.

However, the reality is that others have weighed the pros and cons, do not have so much patience for you and can not wait for you to grow up, thinking that your value is far less than the return of xiaogao, so the introduction of the big outside, to prepare for the return of this year and next year, means that your position will be more marginalized. The coach also has the difficulties of the coach, the coach is drowned day and night in the sound of having to win the championship, and he is under much more pressure than you. When your ability cannot share the pressure and pain of winning the championship that the coach bears, it will not be a confidant of others, and it will become reasonable to be gradually marginalized.

Maybe you feel that you don't get enough respect, you feel like you've been cheated on by the coach, I treat the coach with sincerity, why the coach treats me like this, especially when I'm at a low point, why do you want to suppress me so much, it's too snobbish. I didn't want to play for him, I was passive and deliberately dragging my feet, I wanted to see his angry and helpless look, so that I felt comfortable.

We like to judge others by moral standards and use this to evaluate whether we can work with that person, that is, to make friends before working together. However, the young coach has a quick success mentality, which is rooted in Liaoning's desire to win the championship and the huge pressure it bears. Every day there are people who shout at Yang Ming to get out of class, question him every day, and hold meetings. When you really have enough ability to share the pressure and pain in his heart, he will certainly respect you enough and may become a good friend. I think the coach is not snobbish, but over-stressed, expecting too much from you, and of course there are several other players who don't worry about him, working together to produce an emotional reaction when he loses confidence in the title race. The more passive and sluggish you are, in fact, you are blocking him, then the more rigid your relationship will be.

When you are passive and sluggish, you are not responsible for yourself. You're mixing in basketball circles. Basketball is not good, you go back to me, you will also call you to work in the electronics factory. Competitive sports, cooking is the original sin, this saying will never be out of date.

A few suggestions

For the coach, refuse to have internal friction with the coach, so that it will only lose both, he loses his achievements, you lose youth. His loss of results was denounced by the fans. You have lost your youth, athletes are precious in time, do not polish good skills, end their careers early and be abandoned is a possibility; another possibility is to give you a meeting every day, call you to work in the electronics factory, in order to avoid this situation, you also have to polish your skills.

The coach has a huge pressure to win the championship, the team has a lot of trivial and headache things, itself is very annoying, since his ability is not enough to help the coach relieve his worries, he honestly listens to the coach's words and does not add chaos to him.

And the most important thing is to polish your own skills, improve your own ability, when the ability is strong, can help the coach to relieve his worries, the coach will naturally pay more attention to you. And for themselves can also win a better public opinion environment and the future.

Back to the right path, back to a purer love of basketball, to find out the fun and beauty of playing basketball. Go to your brother, Da Tao ask how to love basketball and maintain a passion for basketball. Be thankful for your basketball career because basketball can help you raise your family. The love of basketball attracts you to go much happier and farther than others spur you forward. God will reward those who truly love their cause, let them immerse themselves happily in it, and let them go further in their careers, while punishing those who do not love their careers, so that they are both miserable and not deep in their careers.

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