When a man stops loving you, his change will be noticeable.
Love comes from the heart and is not easy to hide. In fact, it is also from the heart and difficult to hide.
If I could, I believe there is no woman who doesn't want to love her forever.
Compared to men, women tend to fall in love with someone very slowly because they are inherently vulnerable and they think twice before giving their hearts to each other.
And, once they fall in love with someone, it's basically a lifetime. As long as their hearts are not hurt, they will spend the rest of their lives with you wholeheartedly.
In relationships, men are relatively rational.
He doesn't become apathetic after falling in love with a woman. They will consider a lot of things, including the cost of living and the cost of getting along with each other.
If you think a man's love is immutable, then you are likely to be hurt.
Over time, some men will gradually withdraw their love for women. It's not that they don't have the energy, it's that they're bored and enough, that's why they do it.
When you're in love, men have endless love words to you, and when you're not in love, you'll have more complaints.
In the past, when you were angry, you were unreasonable, and he would be reluctant to coax you, but when he no longer loved you, he would be particularly impatient.
At this time, don't be in the dark, don't be stupid and ignorant, don't cry and cry with men, and don't ask why.
In fact, men do not love, it is very simple, love is love, there is no reason.
Simply put, a man's love cannot be hidden. If he doesn't have you in his heart, it's obvious.
@ Today the moon does not glow
01: Become always tired of you.
When men and women get along, women tend to be a bit grumpy. The man who loves you can naturally tolerate your little temper, but if he doesn't love you, he will get bored and think that your little temper is unreasonable.
When a man who once loved you starts saying "Are you bored?" He's actually tired of you.
You're nothing good. If you accidentally play a little tantrum or complain about someone, he will immediately erect thorns in you like a hedgehog.
It's easy for him to say "Are you bored?" "Not even thinking about the consequences.
Her friend Jiao Jiao was wronged at work. When she got home, she complained to her husband. After she finished speaking, her husband not only did not help himself, but also scolded her.
It seems that this matter is entirely her fault and has nothing to do with others.
After her husband finished speaking, Jiao Jiao's heart was aggrieved, and tears couldn't stop flowing out. When the husband saw it, his face was not nervous at all, let alone cherished.
Seeing this photo of Jiao Jiao, my husband said:
"Are you bored?" You're looking for trouble every day. ”
Hearing her husband's words, Jiao Jiao wiped her tears. She knew it was impossible to expect this man to coax himself.
Perhaps, the other party has long been tired of himself, so he will have such a performance.
In fact, when a woman is wronged, she most hopes to be comforted by her husband. Even if she was really wrong in this matter, she still hoped that her husband would be good to herself.
The so-called "maybe" in Jiao Jiao's heart is actually a positive answer, and the reason why she said "maybe" is just to deceive herself.
Because, in her heart, she still has some expectations for her husband, and she hopes that one day his husband will coax her and love her as before.
Of course, when a woman encounters this situation, most men will comfort her. If she doesn't want to comfort her, it only means she doesn't love you.
02: I argue with you as soon as I'm ready.
We often say that two people in love occasionally quarrel, but it is nothing. If two people quarrel almost every day, it can only mean that there is a problem with the feelings.
When a man loves you, no matter what happens, he'll be on your side and he'll take everything you think is right.
When a man no longer loves you, he will automatically fight with you, even if he encounters the smallest thing in his life, he will try to argue with you.
It's a small thing that he'll amplify infinitely and then blame you for all the mistakes.
When you're in a bad mood, he'll think you're targeting him, and he'll think you're looking for trouble.
I've seen a story like this:
When the man came home from work, he saw the woman's face turn pale. He didn't ask anything and went straight into the bedroom. At this time, the woman was a little angry. She asked the man at the door:
"Didn't you see that I wasn't happy today?"
The man said:
"Yes, so I went into the bedroom, or did I think your stinky face was for me?"
When the man finishes speaking, the woman is very angry.
This time, the man was also on fire. He came out of the bedroom and said:
"Do you want to quarrel?" Come on, I'll satisfy you. It's really bad luck to meet someone like you. ”
This sentence makes the hostess feel cold.
Originally, in his eyes, he was a woman who would only quarrel, but if he loved himself a little, he would comfort himself.
But he didn't, which only means he wasn't that important in his world.
When there is no love for you in his heart, he will naturally show impatience. If you continue to show a little bit, he will take the opportunity to argue with you.
For such a man, if he does not leave in time, he will eventually torture himself to the point of blue nose and swollen face.
For a man who doesn't love you, it's not right to keep him, because since he chooses not to love you anymore, it won't give you the space to keep. Your retention will only make you look more humble, and in the eyes of the other person, it is more like a joke.
03: I always like to compare you to others.
Feelings are always a matter of two people, there is no comparison.
In the relationship, if your other half often compares you to other women, he may not have you in his heart.
In the eyes of those who love you, you are the most beautiful. Otherwise, there would be no such thing as "the lover's eyes are out of the west".
In the eyes of people who don't love you, even if you behave perfectly, they will feel that they are not qualified and will often compare you to others.
Men who don't love you go out drinking. When he comes home, you complain a few words, he will fight back, and even let you learn from others to see how other people's wives do.
Let you learn, show that you are not doing well.
In his eyes, you don't do well, others don't do well, but he just doesn't like you, but likes others. Such a man will make you cry.
In fact, in the final analysis, this is an expression of love.
As long as I don't love you, your concern is a burden to him.
He smokes and drinks, and you persuade him to drink less and smoke less, which is not good for his health. Although he knows you're doing it for his own good, he'll still think you're being too lenient.
It's embarrassing to let you learn from women who keep men, whether you ask or not; comparing you to other women.
In short, in his eyes, everything you do is wrong, worrying is superfluous, and in his eyes, everything is new to others. Even if you scold him, he feels better than you care.
For such a man, you should not go to the end with him. Your life would be better without him.
As a woman, you should know:
You're looking for a lover who will stay with you for the rest of your life, not someone who will cause you trouble. If you can't find it, you don't have to compromise. Otherwise, you can only suffer.
Finally, I hope that every woman can meet a man who loves herself and never changes, and stays with her for the rest of her life and is happy every day.
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