Man is king when he is low, and sea is low in water.
This sentence tells us that the water flows down to the sea, and in the same way, people should also be low-key and humble to achieve great things.
Often low-key is the most cattle show off, a person with strength, the lower the posture, but it will appear that the deeper the foundation, and people who like high profile even if they really have strength, it will make people repulsive.
They are very materialistic
Zhang Yanli, 47 years old, who is 156 tall and weighs 118 pounds, has been working as a fire monitor for many years, and since the death of her husband, Zhang Yanli has raised her daughter alone to go to college, and now she is studying at Soochow University.
Zhang Dajie said that her personality is straightforward, but her mind is delicate, don't look at her 47-year-old age, but she has always had a girlish heart, likes to create some small romance, the definition of romance is also very simple, such as birthdays, two people can eat a romantic candlelight dinner, but she has never enjoyed such romance, so she is particularly eager for romance.
Originally, Sister Zhang did not want to find a partner anymore, she wanted to guard her daughter to the old line, but the daughter felt that she was alone and not a thing, so the daughter persuaded her to find a suitable one again, and with the encouragement of her daughter, Sister Zhang plucked up the courage to think of taking a step forward and finding another half to spend the second half of her life together.
Zhang Dajie's mate selection requirements are first of all to find a man with a mature mind, the reason why I want to find such a man is also because Zhang Dajie feels that she is very simple, very simple, do not like to worry, just think of mature men will consider everything for her, and the things that can be worried about are as best as possible by men, after all, a woman is easy to get old if she worries more. The second is that the man must have a stable income, the character must be good in this regard, and finally he can be filial to his parents.
Knowing the requirements of Zhang Dajie's mate selection, the red lady matched the 46-year-old Wang Debiao, with a height of 170, Andrze Wang is engaged in the health care industry, and it can be seen from his few hairstyles that Wang Brother should be a successful person, right?
Since he is engaged in the health care industry, Of course, Brother Wang's biggest hobby is to raise health, listen to songs, write and write poems, but we don't have to listen to him when he sings songs, anyway, he is very enjoyable, others are very deadly, simply can not enter the ear.
Brother Wang once had a failed marriage, and this time he wanted to find a kind, good-minded, and reasonable single lady to build a happy family.
Then the red lady took Sister Zhang to the place where Brother Wang worked on a blind date, to say that this Big Brother Wang is really busy enough, just at this time still on the phone to talk about business, seeing the arrival of Sister Zhang, he hung up the phone reluctantly, before Waiting for Sister Zhang to sit down, Brother Wang said a confusing word.
Only to see that Brother Wang raised his hand to show off, this is the ring I just bought, I first stink a little, you see this hand there is another one, a total of two gem rings, this is cheaper, this is more expensive. As for why he had to wear so many rings, Brother Wang said that he would send his girlfriend in the future.
Say that Big Brother Wang only beckoned Sister Zhang to sit down, and then Brother Wang said again, I am a self-familiar, I am engaged in business, but I can chat, if you can't chat, can the business be negotiated?
At this time, The elder sister Zhang on the side is not able to insert a word, and the net listening to The big brother Wang put it here and blew it up, but at the moment, the big brother Wang finally remembered to ask Sister Zhang a word, your surname? Is it in Taiyuan?
Sister Zhang answered Brother Wang's question with a confused face, he lived in Taiyuan, but his hometown was Lü Liang's, but before he could finish speaking, Brother Wang interrupted Sister Zhang's words, I know more about Lü Liang, but more, there are restaurants, there are small shops and so on.
In short, the meaning of Big Brother Wang's words is that his economic strength is not a problem, and there are many network resources, but why has such a powerful Brother Wang experienced a short period of failed marriage and has been single until now?
In this regard, Brother Wang explained that after his divorce, he talked about two, but they are not suitable, they are too material, cooking will not, spend money can be spent, go to the mall to buy clothes to buy expensive, must have thousands of pieces, hundreds of pieces of people can not see, we are living with her, she gave me a day to spend money blindly, cooking and I have to do it for her, you a woman can not cook, cooking is to learn ah, and not who is born to cook ....
In this way, Brother Wang took care of himself to say that he was angry, and he frantically spat out all kinds of non-parts of his ex-girlfriend, spitting for several minutes, and Zhang Dajie who listened to it was embarrassed.
Privately, Sister Zhang told the Red Lady about her dissatisfaction, she thought that Brother Wang had failed to deal with several objects, which may be his own problem, always saying that women are particularly material now, but he has to dress himself as a rich man, and wear a ring on his hand to show off, that family is not allowed to eat him, drink him, scrape some money from him or something?
Sister Zhang felt that Big Brother Wang was just looking at her dress more plainly, so he said so much, and before he could say anything, he showed off the ring on his hand, and said that it was for his future girlfriend, what did he want to do, was he a blind date or a show of wealth?
Blind date is not a few minutes, Brother Wang's chattering mouth and that pompous show off make Sister Zhang very uncomfortable, the red lady also persuaded Brother Wang, said that the introduction of the object to you is not according to the standard of whether you will do housework to introduce, housework is two sides, not only by women to do, the introduction of the object is according to your three views can be introduced on a channel as the premise.
However, After hearing this, Brother Wang did not realize his mistake, and he still said that the current woman is too materialistic. At this time, the red lady can't listen to it, so why do material women let you meet it?
On this point, Brother Wang said that there may be something wrong with his vision, and he always wants to find a slightly more beautiful girlfriend.
But you ask people to look good, you have to tolerate the reality of others, where there is such a thing as the best of both worlds, is it difficult for people to figure you have no hair, figure you "bragging"?
Red Niang once again reminded Brother Wang, don't always talk around yourself, to find more common topics, so that Sister Zhang can also substitute for it, but for a while Brother Wang did not know where to say it, he said that Sister Zhang is sitting in the office, nor is it engaged in business, and she can't go together, it seems that Sister Zhang doesn't like to talk too much.
Big brother who can't talk without bragging
In fact, People Zhang Sister did not have the opportunity to speak, every time you were interrupted, then you are desperate to brag about yourself, there is no room for people to speak, it seems that Brother Wang Is in addition to "bragging", when it comes to the Eight Classics of Zheng'er, he will not speak.
At this time, Sister Zhang only wants to end this blind date, she feels that she and Brother Wang are not a person on the channel, his mouth is always clicking and saying, in her opinion, Brother Wang is a person who never considers the feelings of others.
Knowing that Zhang Dajie's impression of himself was very poor, But Brother Wang was anxious, he quickly asked for help from the Red Lady, hoping that the Red Lady could say a few kind words for him, let Sister Zhang give him another chance, Brother Wang frankly said that he was very satisfied with Sister Zhang, and Sister Zhang was also the type he liked, and was a good woman who really lived a life.
Seeing the sincerity of Brother Wang, The Red Lady also communicated with Sister Zhang alone, and Sister Zhang bluntly said that Brother Wang is a person who is more dazzling and lacking, but seeing that he is so sincere, you can continue to talk about it to see if he can change something.
With the consent of Sister Zhang, the red lady quickly taught Brother Wang by hand, kept her mouth, low-key, did not say what she did not need to say, asked people what women like to do, in addition to commuting to work, what they like to do, find more open topics, only in this way can they find resonance, and can have the possibility of further in-depth exploration.
Just talking, Brother Wang suddenly saw Sister Zhang picking up the cat, which made him suddenly brighten, felt that there was a common topic, when Brother Wang walked to the side of Sister Zhang, like cats, this is an imported cat, I also like small animals, I also have dogs, but I can't take care of walking the dog.
Seemingly enlightened Brother Wang seems to feel that he said the wrong thing, and quickly diverged from the topic, you also like to cook, don't you?
This time, the two finally communicated normally with these two sentences, and Sister Zhang confessed that she liked to eat, so she liked to do it. Brother Wang also echoed, yes, that is certain, will eat will do, our family to entertain guests are my cooking, what braised meat, balls, fish, I will do.
Seeing that Brother Wang had made the old mistake again, the red lady on the side of the emergency quickly reminded you to ask people? Not introducing yourself. The hindsighted brother Wang was embarrassed, right, right, asked the woman, so why do you like to find a business, or do you like to find a job? You'll have to think about that.
Sister Zhang just wanted to answer, the words have not had time to speak, Brother Wang then said, first said well, I am in business, I am not the material for work, I can't sit there, sitting for two hours can not find me, I ran.
At this time, Sister Zhang was loveless, and asked for help from the Red Lady with her eyes, end it, can't stand it, more than Tang Monk, if you live together in the future, then who can stand it, is he a little too exaggerated?
In this way, the red lady is helpless, the blind date failed, presumably The problem of Brother Wang's self-care and self-boasting is estimated to be impossible to change, although Sister Zhang did not like him, maybe some people will like This one of Brother Wang, right? It depends on whose "vision" is more unique.
It's okay to show yourself on a blind date, but be moderate
When looking for the other half of life, it is not wrong for the man to show himself to the woman, after all, he also needs to let the woman see a little of his own strength, so that the woman understands that she is worth relying on, but the display must also be restrained, not blindly self-congratulatory, which will only make people resentful or even suspicious.
For Brother Wang, he was like this, the whole blind date only saw himself saying there, saying some irrelevant words, and Sister Zhang never inserted two sentences from beginning to end, how can such a blind date make her not feel uncomfortable?
In fact, Brother Wang also wants to use his strength and those tall things to conquer the other party, let the other party worship himself, so as to achieve his own goals, but whether he is really powerful or fake, such a method can only fool some of the other half who are not deeply involved in the world or put interests first.
To put it bluntly, if you want to maintain such a relationship, you really have to show your own strength, otherwise it will be like his two failed loves, no strength can not be retained, and at the same time he can not be stopped.
Since you want to find the other half of your life sincerely, you still need to rely on a sincere heart and rely on the charm you exude to attract the other half, rather than fooling around with these seemingly true and false things.
What do you think of this blind date between the two? Everyone is welcome to express their opinions and give different voices.