The more words there are, the less words there are. Core Tip: There aren't many words in nature. The person who can't speak the most is probably the one who talks endlessly. If you want to talk about colleges and universities, you should simply say it so that the other person quickly understands what you want to express. Well, theory knows that we should understand the truth whenever we speak, that is, if we say much less than we say, it is better than if we say it well.
People who know how to stay silent at the right time will be popular wherever they go? However, a person who always falls regardless of the occasion may be disgusted by too many wrong words. As the saying goes, evil comes from the mouth, sometimes just because he said something that shouldn't be said, he is suffering from evil, we should be cautious in our words and deeds, and we should not say something baseless on a whim. This will only damage our reputation.
That's just one sentence. What Confucius meant was that as long as words could express their own meaning, there were many words and poor words in the Tao Te Ching. It's best to keep it in the middle. Lao Tzu talks too much, which often puts himself in trouble. It is better to remain silent and talk.
In my heart, the words of the disciples are better than less, but do not tell us how much we say, nor tell us how much we say, we say very little better than we say easier. Just right, what we should say and what we should not say, we must not be cautious in words and deeds, and the content of the conversation should be realistic. According to the historical record, Zi Liang asked the teacher Mo Zi he said too much. All right? What are the benefits of Mozi's answer? For example, the frog in the pond dried his mouth every day, but no one noticed it, but the rooster only cried two or three times at dawn, and everyone heard the chicken's voice.
When I knew it would brighten, I paid attention to Mozi's simple answer, but the parameters. Speaking should not only be the key, but also the billion truths. The comparison between frogs and roosters vividly explains that the more words are inferior to the fewer words, and the fewer words are inferior to the true meaning of words.
Throughout the ages, there have been many examples of speaking. Confucius advocated The Zhou Lihe and made a special trip to the Eastern Zhou capital of Luoyang, to examine the ceremonial system, and when he visited the temple of the ancestors of Emperor Zhou Qian, he saw a metal casting worker standing on the right side of the steps with three seals at the top, and the back of the Metal Man had an inscription, which in ancient times was a very cautious person. Be careful, be careful!
If you want to talk more, there are a lot of bad things to say. It may not be surprising that In Kegentan says more than ten and nine middle schools, but if you don't say anything, you'll be happy, meaning say ten words to nine sentences, and no one can say hello, but if one sentence is wrong, all kinds of accusations and complaints will be focused on you. Therefore, it is better to say more, it is better to say less, correctly, do not waste your words, those who speak often do not stop talking, and it is inevitable that dry mouth and sore throat not only do not get any benefit, but once the mouth is a disaster, it will only bring obstacles to their own situation and interpersonal relationships, Zhuge Jin.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Sun Quan's ministers usually did not speak much, but they often solved problems with a few words at critical moments. Once, Yin Mo, the head of the school, misunderstands that Sun Quan wants to be killed, and everyone pleads with Sun Quan. Only Zhuge Jin didn't say anything. Sun Quan asked why? As for not speaking, Zhuge Jin said that I was at war with the hometown of the conspiracy, so I could go to His Majesty. Now this conspiracy is not aggressive and has let you down. What more can I ask for forgiveness? In short, Sun Quan believes that the conspiracy is not far away from him. Even if he is wrong, he should be forgiven. Therefore, when some people talk about it, Sun Quan pardons the conspiracy to talk to others.
Saying everything seems so sincere and frank that some people ignore everything because they give up consciousness. The more bitter and mean and vicious everything is, the more you say, the more you are afraid that it is too late to regret it, so we must keep our mouth shut. If you don't say a word, it may cause you to suffer deep adversity, and if you don't say a word, you may let the staunch villain grab hold of control. Until you die, a museum sends a manager to solicit window advertising. The manager specializes in the local shoe factory, small browsing, Yu factory director, big deal, talk about business. He thought he was the various footwear products listed in the finger factory.
Praise, this kind of shoes are fashionable, beautiful and generous. If we work with us to publicize widely, we will definitely improve our knowledge, and then it will sell well in the production of the national silicon plant, and it sounds like the application is very good and convincing. Unfortunately, the speaker is not an insider of the Quality Association. As it turned out, he boasted of a batch of obsolete products accumulated by another factory. As a result, the factory director quietly replied, thank you, unfortunately, all the shoes you pointed out are the seventh generation of products behind the market supply and demand. Now our ninth generation product is selling well, and these two words alone leave the official speechless.
We should learn to talk less and talk more.
Thousands of words are not as impressive as the facts. If you want to pay attention to what you say, one trick is to say less, and people who say less have more time to think quietly, so what they say is more exciting, especially when someone who has just experienced or knows more about this situation sits there, and if they say more, it equates to their brief self-exposure, but also loses the opportunity to know knowledge and experience, and in our lives we must learn not only the silence of facts, but also the beautiful and elegant dialogue. Less talk is certainly a virtue, but it still exists in various social situations and does not do so.
When speaking, we should talk less and remain appropriately silent. When speaking, we should pay attention to what we say. When we speak in language, we should pay attention to what we say on what occasion, whether it is discussing things that ask about students, social activities, entertainment, and entertainment, and we should do our best to make what we say more prominent, concrete, and vivid.