Have you ever had the idea that after giving birth to a baby, you suddenly found out one day, how did you suddenly become so poor?
The country has opened up the 3-child policy, and friends with children around them say that they dare not even have a second child, let alone 3 children. Everyone said that the pressure of raising a baby was high, and they did not dare to regenerate, and at that time, they did not have a clear concept of the pressure of raising a baby, until they gave birth to a doll.
Before marriage or even after marriage, before you have children, the economic conditions are still OK, the wages of two people, the wages of one person are used for consumption, the other is saved, the small life is particularly moist, eating, drinking and having fun, buying what you want.
But after having a child, the economy became more and more tense, with no savings every month, only constant expenditure and even debt.
In addition to saying that after the birth of a child, all aspects must use money, diapers, milk powder and other expenses.
The most important point is that what was originally made by two people has now become one person making money and 3 people spending. In order to take care of the children, there is one less labor force.
See netizens said that now the child is still eating milk powder stage, the cost is not too big, wait until the child grows up to study, give her a study class interest class, is the real money like flowing water, no wonder we all jokingly call children as gold-devouring beasts.
Artists belong to the high-income group in our public perception, and even they lament that it is not easy to raise a baby. Taiwanese artist Huang Xiaorou lamented that the cost of raising a baby is too high, especially the tuition fee.
Compared with the previous society, my grandmother gave birth to 7, and she can support the same, so why is it difficult to feed one now!
I think it is because now people attach importance to education, the previous people raising children only to feed the baby to eat and wear warm, and modern people attach importance to education, even when the baby is still in the belly, you have to start prenatal education, and when the baby grows up, you have to send it to the early education class, the cheapest tuition fee for the early education class a semester is tens of thousands of yuan, this is just the tuition fee, not including other expenses, you can imagine how high the cost of raising a baby is.
My husband often told me that poor people are poor and rich, and although they are said to be so, they still want to give the best to their children within their own ability.