In February 2020, the "wrong change of life" began to attract public attention, and a 28-year-long wrong change made yao ce and Guo Wei's lives completely rewritten.
Then the two families were put on the table, and their past bits and pieces were reduced to everyone's talking points. Every time Du Xinzhi appears in public, he will give people the impression of clever words. No matter what kind of problems she faces, Du Xinzhi can adapt to changes, her composure and unhurriedness make people wonder if she is a party or not? Yao Ce was also able to respond flexibly in an interview and did not have the slightest timidity.
On the contrary, Guo Wei would show a cute smile from time to time, and he looked bad at words. But Guo Wei's performance is very similar to Xu Min's family, Xu Min after learning the truth, she has never been able to stabilize her emotions in the face of the camera, although her words are not much, but every sentence is a heart word, is her true feelings. In this contrast, it is already clear who the children are.
After Yao Ce's death, his former neighbor introduced us to a real Yao Ce in an interview, and according to this neighbor, in fact, Yao Ce was not born early.
1. Neighbor: Yao Ce is not like Xu Min's child
Xu Min and Yao Shibing were both public officials, and most of their families were intellectuals. But Xu Min did not expect that Yao Ce did not like to learn, Yao Ce is an outlier in the family, which adds a lot of worries to Xu Min's life.
The first is Yao Ce's illness, when Yao Ce was in kindergarten, he was checked out of the big three yang. Subsequently, Xu Min's family began to find ways to treat Yao Ce's illness, during which Xu Min spent a lot of money and paid a lot of effort.
Perhaps it is precisely because her son is ill, so no matter what Yao Ce wants, Xu Min will agree, and she is very spoiled for Yao Ce, which even the neighbors know very well.
According to neighbors, Yao Ce has not been at ease since he went to school, he always skipped school every three to five years, and mixed with some young people in society. After going to high school, Yao Ce's behavior intensified, and he later wanted to drop out of school. During that time, Xu Minfu broke her heart, and she was worried that there was no way out after Yao Ce did not go to school, but Yao Ce directly left the school and ran to the relatives' house to hide from Xu Min.
At that time, Yao Ce was working in a relative's home while enjoying life there, and Xu Min had no way to take Yao Ce.
When he was in high school, Yao Ce wanted to study art, and he also developed a strong interest in music, saying that he had to learn saxophone. Xu Min was looking forward to Yao Ce's success in the future, so when he proposed to learn music, he immediately bought him a saxophone. As a result, Yao Ce soon became uninterested and even less attentive to learning.
Later, Xu Min found a job in the Medical Insurance Bureau for Yao Ce, which was stable and steady, but Yao Ce did not like it at all. Later, Yao Ce wanted to start a business, and Xu Min had to support him and take out a lot of savings for Yao Ce to start a business. As a result, the entrepreneurship failed and a lot of money was lost, and this time not only Xu Min was discouraged and disappointed, but Yao Ce also began to stagnate.
At that time, Yao Ce was already married, Xiong Lei had no job at home with children, and the whole family was counting on Yao Ce, but he became more decadent because of business failures. During those days, Yao Ce went out to drink with his friends all day, and it was also during that time that Yao Ce's liver disease, which had improved, began to worsen.
Xu Min has always taken good care of Yao Ce, and because of this, Yao Ce has changed from a big sanyang to a small sanyang.
However, after suffering a blow, coupled with staying up late for a long time, Yao Ce's liver disease recurred, and later developed to the advanced stage of liver cancer, at this time Xu Min still insisted on seeing his son. Later, the doctor told Xu Min that if there was no other effective treatment, Yao Ce would only have three months to live.
In order to let Yao Ce survive, Xu Min decided to cut his liver, but during the laboratory stage, it was found that the two were not blood relatives.
According to the neighbor's words, in fact, he had joked a long time ago that Yao Ce was not Xu Min's child. Unexpectedly, Xu Min's own son had been "wrongly replaced" from birth.
2. Do Yao Ce and Xu Min really have contradictions?
Because Yao Ce grew up spoiled, he has long been accustomed to Xu Min's meticulous care for himself, so that later after discovering the "wrong change", Yao Ce believes that Xu Min no longer cares about himself.
During the period, Xu Min and Yao Ce had an argument because of the Internet violence, and the two people quarreled for a long time, and later Yao Ce Xu Min was unhappy and dispersed.
Yao Ce also hid directly in Beijing for treatment, and later because of the real estate matter, Xiong Lei also participated, which deepened the contradiction between Yao Ce and Xu Min.
Although these contradictions are real, there is no need to hide them. But I believe that people are very clear that even there will be quarrels between biological mothers and children, and it is normal not to speak for a few days.
Although Yao Ce is not Xu Min's own child, it is believed that the past 28 years are irreplaceable memories for Xu Min. Although this is a pity, the family affection has long been rooted in the heart, so the contradiction between them is not deep.
Xu Min wept bitterly because he could not see the last side of Yao Ce, even if he had a heart knot before, I believe it has long been resolved, not to mention, Xu Min originally wanted to accompany Yao Ce through the last part of his life no matter what. However, the sky did not go according to people's wishes, and Xu Min could only slowly digest this grief in tears.
3, Yao Ce's biggest regret is not "wrong change"
At the end of Yao Ce's life, in the face of this rewritten 28 years of life, his pity and helplessness can be imagined. However, I believe that for Yao Ce, "wrong change" is not the biggest regret, and what he can't put down is that he has never been made public "truth".
Although Yao Ce was not in good health when he was ill, he knew very well in his heart that he believed that he had already seen through Du Xinzhi, and he was also very clear that Du Xinzhi had given up on himself from the beginning. Therefore, this confession of relatives has no meaning to Du Xinzhi and Yao Ce, and it is more like a scene.
For Du Xinzhi, it seems that no matter what the final result is, she will not let her interests be damaged. After all, if the "stealing change" is established, it means that Du Xinzhi has been planning for herself from the beginning, and all the people in front of her are just tools to use.
I believe that if it were not for this dramatic "wrong change", we would never have imagined that such a thing would be staged in life. In the face of flesh and blood affection, some people have the supremacy of interests and some people have the supremacy of truth.
But no matter what, believing that justice is the truth, Xu Min will definitely be able to wait for the result she wants to see, and this result is also what Yao Ce expected in the Spirit of Heaven.